Activity for Monica

Can anyone give me some direction on getting bridesmaid shoes dyed to match their dress? I'm a bit clueless about it and I'm planning from way down in Key West and my girls are all in North Carolina. I haven't the slightest clue how that process...

This may be silly but I don't know what to put on our invitation as far as what the food is "called" so to speak. It's not breakfast, brunch, lunch...it might be dinner but its only at 3pm. Our ceremony is at 2 o'clock and the reception is...