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My two aunts are throwing me a bridal luncheon. I have never heard of such a thing. They said its lunch the day before the wedding with the female attendants (MOH, BMs, FMIL, and aunts). We are already having a rehearsal dinner. I never look a gift...

I am having a breakdown. How can a simple wedding cost so much? Cheapest catering I can find is still costing about 3500 (100 guests) add in tables chairs and the location at a community center already at 7000. How do you go cheaper? I have noooo...