Activity for 2ndtime1stwedding

So I found a vendor officiant and they just so happen to have an add on coordinator and chair rental. I thought GREAT! i need a person to set up 40 chairs at 5pm guard them(even though reserved our state park pavillion is still accessible by public...

Tonight I calculated what we have spent so far. What we haven’t paid for yet or don’t know full costs of yet—- chair rental reception food our kids clothes and we have spent $2890. Thats my dress, site rentals, admission into state park for...

My mom calls me today (she lives local) tells me that the family has been talking(she’s one of 6 kids so she’s referring to her siblings/my aunts & uncles) and so far this person this person this person etc etc are planning on coming. I say to...

I’m considering hiring a person to set up 40 chairs and then be the guard at the venue and take down chairs. We have only 2 posts with flowers on it the for the alter and the chairs. That’s it. No other decor or hub bub. issue of why I think I need...

MAN. the last 3 things I need to do that must be done well in advance is officiant, hair/makeup, cake. everything else I aint worried about as it can be done as we go along(like kids clothes, flowers, shoes etc) or like 6 weeks out(like renting 40...

So I went back for another appt today and tried on my 3 contenders. Then it was down to 2. I chose NTWG3827 from David bridal (can’t post pics when using WW in safari on phone) store sample was size 6. It fit nearly perfect but I ordered an 8 due to...

Ceremony at a park. Reception/dinner 45 min away at a resturant all pics being taken at park-water side/on a cliff. What’s the Best way to get guests to leave park and go to restaurant 1. Have officiant announce it. “After some brief photos with the...

We went to a TA. Then we went home researched destinations, hotels. Spent like 2 weeks. Emailed TA told her what hotel we wanted and we are ready to book. she emails back with 3 other hotels. In the same area saying the one we want is not avail. BUT...

Anyone do the RSVPs as a post card? like have the rsvp and guest # selection on one side and return address on the other with stamp provided by you. about a 5.5x 4” card. or do you guys do envelopes?

It’s 6:30am. I’m going dress shopping for first time today.(no I’m normally awake early) Got 5 dress pic examples I like. Was just gonna be me my mom my 16 yr old daughter and 18 yr old STB step daughter BUT step D bailed because she’s been a little...

It’s not official official until it’s all booked and now my ceremony and reception restaurant are booked!! grand total of $375 for both. next on our list is honeymoon booking then my dress(I have appt on Saturday) Then invites ceremony is in a...

Had a dream last night I went to my scheduled dress appt(next weekend) and I told the older lady I had a style in mind. I got my phone to show her pics and she huffed as if she hated when people did that. She kept pulling out ball gowns and I told...

July 14 What I have to schedule Ceremony pictures Dinner ceremony should take 20 mins or so? Non religious no extra sand junk or talking to our kids. pictures after... (I’m a picture fantastic and provide photography services as well. Mainly teens...

We have looked at 3 venues so far one was eliminated due to $1000 rental fee and $1000 bar minimum and no food in that cost. with max 50 people we wont reach $1000 bar tab. Not to mention the 2 other venues will be under...

Getting married in 6 mo. Going to check out the first restaurant today and see what the private 2nd floor water view room looks like! (The whole restaurant is floating on water). We have eaten at the outdoor area many many times. Food is great. menu...