Activity for FutureMrsUpdike

I have picked the songs that I want sang during my ceremony. How far in advance do you usually let them know? Do I purchase the sheet music?

Im trying to pick out music. So far Im thinking a song for mothers to be seated. Bridesmaids entrance. My entrance. Sand ceremony. Exit. Am I missing anything?

Are you ladies wearing it on your right or left hand??

I am back and forth on whether I want all my girls to walk alone of just the MOH. Plus we have 4 children involved and I know I want the flower girl to walk alone but the 3 boys are 11,8, and 2. I want the two year old with a box holding rings but...

There will be my FH, Myself, my son, his son, his daughter, and our son together. didnt want a whole bunch of colors. So far I have purple white and black. How do people usually go about pouring in thw box? Us together first then the kids? Topped off...

Sorry I ask a lot of questions on here but my gfs are always so busy. How many months ahead did you shop around for alterations? Im NOT doing mine at place I bought my dress because it starts at 250$. I have a few ladies in my small hometown...

Who is doing theirs together? My wedding is weekend after mothers day so I wanted to do a shower in March and the bach party first weekend in May. My MOH wants to throw one together to save money, but that makes for a very long day Also who is having...

I plan to wear an elbow length single tiered veil until after ceremony. I also have a simple tiara type band that I plan to wear flat. I found a hair clip that has two fabric flowers with feathers that I absolutely love. Is three hair pcs too much?

How many months ahead do you usually go do a trial with your hair dresser?!

I saw some really cute ring boxes on Etsy. They latch so I thought it might be better for my 2 yr old to carry down? Also what kind of "fake" rings should I put in there? Or should I risk real ones? My personal attendant could hold box until he is...

Ive seen a lot of couples doing fun entrances at the reception with their wedding party. Are they doing the grand march later into the dance or nixing it all together?

When do couples typically cut the cake? Do they usually plat a song while doing it?

Has anyone steamed their own dress? Also my fiance pickes up my veil from shop and smoked in the car and it went thru the bag If I hang it up the smell will eventually fade right? I dont want to ruin it

I want her to wear something nice. I keep sending her pictures of dresses at 100$ and under. She keeps saying she will get something from jcpenny or kohls. I said thats fine but I want to see it first. She wore a knit dress to my brothers...

His mother hasnt spoken to either of us for 9 months and on top of that has spread nasty rumors to turn others against us. I guess I should invite them being family and all. How do we go about telling them drama can stay at home or so can they?