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Does anyone have any creative things to do or been to a creative wedding reception? My fiancé and I are having music but we're not doing the typical first dance, father/daughter dances, etc. ( he's not much of a dancer)

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Me and the hubby to be are trying to cut costs as much as possible.we want background music but no DJ. I think it's a waste b/c I really don't think people will dance much. Anybody having or been to a reception without a DJ!