Activity for Now Mrs.S

FH and I are trying to decide if videographers are worth it. It wasn't in the budget originally but we may be able to swing it if I can cut a few other expenses. I would love to hear from brides that did have one [or brides to be that booked one], if...

I am not a huge fan of cake so it wasn't really important to me to have a wedding cake but my fiance is insistent on it, so we'll have a cake plus a few mini desserts for those of us that don't want cake. To be honest I care more about what it looks...