Activity for danielle

I recently bought a gorgeous 2 tier veil but it's so stiff! Anyone have any ideas how to loosen the tulle up without hurting the beadwork?

I'm getting married in July and have 1moh and 2 bridesmaid. 2 of the girls have already ordered their dresses but the third isn't really giving me much feedback on when she's going to order hers. I can't afford to buy their dresses however im letting...