Activity for Future Mrs. Roberts

I'm trying to find a banquet hall in my area but I've been unsuccessful, do any of you ladies know an easier way to search, thanks

How early is to early to send out save the dates?

Me and my fh like cooking on the grill and I didnt know if it would be tacky or not to have a BBQ reception, I mean to have the food cooked on a grill and served to our guests, not have like attending a cookout, let me know

I'm torn right now, I dont know weather to plan a wedding or just go to the justice of the peace. It would be cheaper and quicker; any suggestions?