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The Menger Hotel

The Menger Hotel

San Antonio, TX
4.8 out of 5 rating, 25 Reviews
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    Abigail Sent on 05/02/2024
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    Could not have asked for better

    The title of this review doesn't even scratch the surface. When we first started looking, we had the Menger high on our list due to the role it played in our relationship (our first stay vacation!) and how beautiful it is. I was elated to find out how responsive, helpful, creative, and kind the team at the Menger is. They answered my (many, many) questions promptly and thoroughly. I never felt confused by the process or like I would be blindsided. They were up front about everything and willing to work with me on different ideas. The pricing is also a really strong point here, as it is well priced and well worth the cost. Leading up to the wedding, the team took care of so much and were so flexible with letting us into the rooms early to set up, and even changing some of the decorations that day because yes, they have items like charger plates and candle sticks already there! They helped with signage for the cocktails and direction plaues in the hotel, and they even made sure they had ingrediants for our signautre cocktails on hand. They made the whole experience so easy and fun and I really can't recommend them more. It's a beautiful space, with so much character, and the whole team, from the catering planning department to the servers to the bartenders to even the kind people at the front desk made it such a wonderful experience. Weddings are hard and kind of a mess to plan, but this is one decision that can be easy to make. Happy planning!
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    Nate M. Sent on 01/11/2023
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    Met Gala Meets Chinoiserie

    We had a fantastic experience hosting our wedding at the Menger Hotel in Downtown San Antonio! Zarelda and her team were so communicative and helpful when it came to the planning leading up to our special day, as well as execution during the event itself!

    The hotel is located down in the heart of the San Antonio Riverwalk and is right next to the Alamo. We had a lot of family coming from out of state—with this being their first time in Texas—so the ability for them to walk around and experience San Antonio right from the hotel was great.

    From our initial meeting with Zarelda, we knew she would work to make sure we had an amazing day—she made sure we had everything in place with our planning, helped us pick the perfect venue for the ceremony and reception with our budget in mind (spoiler: they have several spaces in the hotel for events!), and was there the day of the wedding to help make sure everything went off without a hitch.

    A great thing about the Menger Hotel was that the catering and bar services are done in-house, so you’re able to worry less about communicating with a lot of different vendors leading up to your wedding day. The food for our reception was delicious, too! There’s always a worry your food will taste like “wedding food” when you go to someone’s wedding, but the food was high quality and very tasty!

    When we first came to San Antonio to see if we wanted to live here, we stayed at the Menger and had a lovely experience as a guest, so being able to celebrate our special day was a full-circle moment. The character, history, decor and experience of the hotel itself acted as a stunning and grandiose backdrop for our ceremony and reception, with many of our guests remarking at how luxe and grand everything felt.
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    Wendy A. Sent on 10/26/2020
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    The Menger

    The Menger Hotel was amazing. The staff is professional and 1st class. I would highly recommend this hotel your wedding or event.

    The Menger Hotel's reply:

    Thank you Wendy, It was a pleasure working with you as well. Planning long distance wedding and a virtual site visit was worth it. Thank you for trusting in us.
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    Maureen Sent on 11/06/2021
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    Amazing Service

    Zarelda, the catering manager was amazing. She went above and beyond to make sure our day was what we envisioned. She is an angel, and a lot of fun to work with!
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    Paul W. Sent on 11/22/2020
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    A beautiful wedding experience at the Menger Hotel

    We were very surprised that a hotel as beautiful as the Menger Hotel could be so affordable for a wedding. Zara Marrero helped manage the wedding through multiple changes due to the corona virus. The flexibility Menger and Zara demonstrated was amazing. The hotel staff were all friendly and very accommodating to all our requests.
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    Kerry Sent on 01/28/2022
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    Majestic Hotel for Living your Best Classy, Unique, Amazing Wedding Dream!

    Nate and I LOVED the Menger Hotel for our wedding. We walked into the venue and the history, the decor - we said this is it. It's a photographer/videographer's dream - the interior is so interesting, and our guests LOVED it. You don't need decorations since the venue is so beautiful and interesting itself. We loved the Victorian Lobby for our happy hour -we had mariachi there to play, and cocktails - Zara was even able to do pop-tails for us (paletas and prosecco as our specialty cocktail). The reception was set up to prefection and Zara (the catering manager who works on planning with the wedding couples) was AMAZING. She is so responsive, answered all of our questions, and was so flexible with us - she really helped our wedding vision come true. When I was stressed out, Zara made it so easy for us. Also all of our guests LOVED the food. We did the BBQ option for dinner, it was great for our out of towners - our guest thought it was delicous. ALSO the margaritas were TO DIE for. My husband and I are very picky on our margs, and we would easily order these all the time. It was a magical evening and one that we will never forget. The Menger felt like home and I hope it will feel that way for you too! I mean you can't get a better deal - it was one of the cheapest venues, located conveniently in the heart of San Antonio with a ton of options nearby, and has all the amenties you could need (it comes with all the linens, chairs, tables, etc.!). Could not recommend more.

    The Menger Hotel's reply:

    Hello Kerry:
    It was a pleasure working with you and Nate in your long distance wedding. We are incredibly grateful and we really appreciate you being a customer and helping to share the word about us. Looking forward to your future visit.
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    William P. Sent on 03/24/2020
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    Incredible Experience

    During what is almost always a high stress event, working with the Menger Hotel made the experience as stress free as possible. Working with Ms Zarelda Marrero, Director of Catering, and the primary point-of-contact for planning the wedding was a very enjoyable experience. The Menger Hotel was very flexible as plans changed, i.e. needing a larger room for the reception. Having rooms blocked for guests was very easy and we were kept up-to-date with the names of guests who had made reservations. We had a live band and the set-up, etc was transparent to us; The Menger took care of everything. If we had to do it over again and we had our choice of venues for our wedding it would be the Historic Menger Hotel.
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    Chris T. Sent on 09/24/2019
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    Outstanding service

    All my experiences at the Menger have been wonderful. My fiancé and I enjoy going there so much we booked our wedding ceremony/reception there. Everyone that works there have always gone above/ beyond in customer service when dealing with them. Highly recommend. Zara ( catering) and Monica (lodging) have made the planning for the wedding a joy. Look forward to a memorable experience for all.

    The Menger Hotel's reply:

    We are looking forward to serve you!
    Zarelda Marrero
    Wedding planning, CTA.
    Catering Director
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    Tatiana Sent on 02/20/2020
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    Luxury hotel for budget price!

    We fell in love with the Menger hotel at first sight! The hotel boasts stunning architecture and décor for a classic or Victorian wedding!
    For the wedding, a lot of scenery was not needed as the hotel has an amazing historical zest: the paintings, murals, stucco molding and other decor looked amazing!
    The very historic antique atmosphere of the hotel on its first visit speaks for itself and leaves a very good impression!
    The hotel undertook the organization of the ceremony and celebration. Everything went at the highest level, as we planned.
    The organizers of the hotel acted clearly, following the plan and for several hours spent in the hotel, we everywhere felt their attention and care!
    We want to say special thanks to Zarelda, who professionally helped in organizing the wedding plan and always answered our questions with attention.
    The food was very tasty and matched the restaurant of the highest category! The waiters were attentive, they worked quickly and in an organized manner.
    A bonus for the newlyweds was a chic 2-room suite with a stunning decor, which our bride and groom really liked! And the hotel also provided cozy and stylish spacious costumed rooms for his bride and groom.

    I must say that the hotel has budget prices and good bonuses. We were very pleasantly surprised by the prices, although at first we thought that we would not pull this hotel financially. Also we got hotel complimented champagne for all our guest!

    I would like to thank the Menger Hotel for hosting our wedding. Everything went amazingly beautiful and all our dreams come true!
    We highly recommend Menger hotel, where you can spend your dream wedding just like we did!
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    Lené L. Sent on 03/29/2019
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    So far so good!

    We have been working with Zarelda for our upcoming wedding and she has been a dream to work with. She has been attentive and making sure that we are very happy with the services and choices we have made to ensure we have our dream wedding.
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    John Sent on 06/06/2019
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    Groom at a wedding!

    The staff and everyone at the hotel was awesome and triply cared for making my special day really special. From the catering manager (Zara Moreno) whom showed up on the day to make sure it went without a hitch, to the banquet captain (Hector Solis) who went above and beyond to get my cousin with food allergies some food she could eat. All of the staff was attentive and helpful though out the whole experience. I would highly recommend this hotel for any such wedding event you could imagine there.
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    Janelle Sent on 12/28/2018
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    Fairytales do come true

    All I can say is AMAZING! Picking a wedding venue can be stressful and often times I feel brides sacrifice some of the things they may really want because of cost or a venue not being able to provide. I can honestly say my wedding was everything I wanted and more. Zara, Hector and staff ensured that all of my needs and wants were met and exceeded. I truly felt like I was a member of family not like a customer arranging a wedding. They were flexible, extremely accommodating, and just so much fun to work with. I am already positive that I want to renew my vows at The Menger where it all began. The ceremony was held in the Minuet room and my reception in the ballroom. Everything was smooth and even when I was bridezila the staff were patient with me and doing all they could to help me. I wish words were enough to describe how much i appreciate The Menger.

    The Menger Hotel's reply:

    Thank you Janelle for sharing your comments. Planing a long distance wedding it is not easy, but we make happened.
    It was a pleasure to work with you...
    Kind regards,
    Zarelda Marrero
    Catering Director
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    Greg Sent on 03/21/2018
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    The history and character of the hotel is why we chose this venue. The staff was very attentive and the food was great. Highly recommend!!
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    Misty Sent on 09/24/2017
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    We had the rehearsal dinner, the ceremony, and the reception at the Menger and it was amazing! The hotel provides the catering and we received sooooo many compliments on the food. If you do decide to do the rehearsal dinner at the Menger, the bread pudding and Mango ice cream are to die for! We had our ceremony in the Minuet room and the old school charm made the ceremony feel intimate. The reception was held in the Ballroom and the atmosphere and grandeur of the Ballroom impressed all our guests. Zara in Sales is amazing! She helped us arrange lighting and rentals for the ceremony and reception. She was also a great help when I took my bridal photos at the hotel. The Banquet staff was amazing and they were so helpful during the reception. They even helped advise my husband and I on how to cut the cake! Monika Vega helped us arrange a block of rooms for our guests and helped us get a very good rate. All in all, our guests lived the hotel.
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    Doris Sent on 03/14/2017
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    The incomparable charm of this historic hotel and its environs are only matched by the incredibly supportive staff. I would use this venue again for another occasion.
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    Steven Sent on 07/05/2016
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    I think that I would say "nothing is impossible". The exact request might not be able to be accommodated, however the staff at The Menger will do their best to accommodate. Zara and the entire staff were FANTASTIC!!!!!!
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    Lia Sent on 10/24/2013
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    Marcia in sales was great, and we got a complimentary suite and parking passes. We picked this hotel because of its character and how it was so uniquely San Antonio. My guests loved it. Plus, they were really flexible with last minute changes, and for that and many other reasons (not a chain; still privately owned, the awesome bar, the AMAZING spa), I would definitely recommend.
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    Eric K. Sent on 10/15/2019
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    Wedding Experience at the Menger Hotel

    Our Wedding on Sept 21, 2019 in the Menger Hotel Garden and Renaissance room was a total success. The hotel's events manager Zarelda working in conjunction with our wedding advisor David Alvarado made the entire experience a memory we and our guests will always remember.
    Eric and Laura Kraus
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    Mercedes Sent on 01/19/2018
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    If you're looking for an elegant, historic, fun and naturally beautiful venue to host your wedding - look no further! The Menger team met all my needs and expectations, plus more. The communication was excellent and they treat you, your soon to be spouse and guests with the utmost professionalism and service. Since our first tour of the Grand Ballroom, Minuet room and Renaissance room we knew that we could have our cake and eat it too! Thank you Menger Hotel for making our dream wedding come true!
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    Ruby G. Sent on 12/05/2019
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    The Hotel is a Tourist Spot

    So my family and I frequently visit San Antonio and for our wedding day, we decided to book everyone's room at The Menger hotel. We used about 27 rooms for our wedding weekend. I had the bridal suite at $225/night. The guest rate was $157/night. The rooms were definitely old, which we knew, but did not expect some of the rooms to be so hot from the A/C not working. Nevertheless, they were very accommodating in switching people to another room if that was their case.

    The hotel itself is gorgeous and in a prime location (Our venue was at the Grand Promenade at Pat O'Briens right across the street!). We even took our formal wedding photos at the hotel. OH AND, the nice thing is they hold rooms for you and whatever is not book, the couple is not responsible for paying anything if there are rooms that were not booked.

    We originally reserved 11, but that quickly grew to 27 even at the last minute.
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    Gabrielle O. Sent on 10/28/2019
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    Almost our venue! Toughest choice ever!

    My Fiance and I toured with Zareleda and immediately fell in love with The Menger! Although we decided on a different venue due to price and availability I would recommend anyone to her as she was very honest and helpful with the whole process!
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    Jennifer P. Sent on 12/17/2020
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    beautiful venue

    The Menger hotel provides several options for a wedding and reception. We had our wedding in the open air courtyard, which was recently landscaped and very pretty! We then held our reception in a nearby room, which was convenient for moving from the ceremony to reception location. The wedding coordinator was friendly and worked with reservation staff on giving us a good deal on our room and rooms for our guests.

    The Menger Hotel's reply:

    It was a pleasure to be able host your wedding, and working with you. Have a great day!
    Zarelda Marrero
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    Michelle Sent on 06/10/2009
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    We had our reception at the Menger hotel and it was the perfect location. Basically we had our destination wedding in San Antonio, so almost all our family and friends stayed here which was great. The hotel even gave us a discount on blocked rooms. The ballrooms were nice and spacious and the food was terrific. The ballroom specialist/coordinator was a bit hard to get a hold of and she was not present the day of the wedding to make sure everything went smoothly, but all in all i had no complaints. It turned out beautiful!
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    Kayla Sent on 12/20/2009
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    I was actually suppose to get married at the Wedding Island on the Riverwalk but the day before I found out it was suppose to rain so thankfully the Menger hotel was very helpful and could provide us with a venue at the last minute. Thank you so much!!
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    Misty H. Sent on 04/17/2023
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    Stress Before the Day

    The coordinator did not let us lock in our selections a months before the wedding and told us as we got closer to the date she would honor the original prices just in case any changes had occured. She did not honor it. The food went up $50 to $65 a person along with all the alcohol going up a couple hundred dollars. Overall we paid another 3K only because we showed her the original forms and prices and she honored less than half. We would have paid another 7K had we not done this.
    The day before the wedding we confirmed with the coordinator about setting up the hall before rehearsal dinner. She had no idea what we were talking about since there was a convention in the hall the next morning and there was no way we could set up. We forwarded her the email where she sent us the times and were we confirmed and she agreed on the date and time. She said we could set up the hall the hour before the wedding. We disagreed, no way it could happen. She then called and said we could drop off all the linens, decorations and centerpieces. Her and her crew were going to set up for us the next morning. I left her with picture of the staged tables, and directions on how to set it up along with one table set up 100%. Table: 1 runner, party favors, string of lights and 9 plants. She looked at it and said "actually yall can set up right now". We had no one to help because she said she was going to do it. The Mengers Wedding coordinator is not a woman of her word and gave us unnecessary stress before our wedding.

    The Menger Hotel's reply:

    Dear Ms. Misty H,

    Thank you for sharing your feedback from your wedding in January of 2022. I was disappointed to hear of your concerns over pricing and set up and, on behalf of all of us here at the Menger, please accept my most sincere apologies.

    It is our overriding goal to provide excellence in service and accommodations here in San Antonio. While we normally receive very high scores with our wedding events, it appears that you had some concerns you wished to share.

    Please know that I have reviewed all the event orders and final bill and it did show you were billed for $50 per person for food the dinner. The event order shows that there were additional appetizers ordered for the reception, which caused the per person price to go up. The beverage charges were based on consumption per the event order and they also look to be accurate.

    When the wedding was booked, we realized we had a tight turn of the ballroom with a prior event finishing that Saturday morning. Thankfully the prior group concluded their meeting Friday afternoon and we brought in our crews to turn the room to have it ready to set up for your wedding on Friday evening. While we don’t normally set up table decorations and centerpieces, I believe the communications with you and your wedding party could have been better. We sincerely regret how this impacted your day.

    We would welcome the opportunity to win back your confidence in us and I wish you had let us know of your concerns last spring. I am happy to visit with you at your convenience via my email: goneil@mengerhotel.com or via telephone at (210) 223-4361.

    Thank you again Ms. H for bringing your concerns to our attention. We look forward to welcoming you back to the Menger in the not too distant future.

    Sincere regards,
    Garvin O’Neil
    General Manager


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