Discussions by VC

I never knew how it felt about RSVPs and how you can feel when they say YES. I sent out the STDs today to my half. The STDs were all email with a link to our website for more info. Shortly, I got...

Hi guys, we did our engagement photos and while we had a blast and our photographer provided us with our photos within 2 weeks, my and my fiance are not sure how we feel about them. We emailed her and...

Any last minute advice? I'm so nervous because I am self conscious, my fiance is a HAM so he'll be fine. We are going to a piblic park around 5:30pm to get the good lighting and hoping it works out....

I am looking at dresses for our ladies who will begin the wedding party. A friend of ours used Etsy and ordered these custom dresses and were very happy with them so we thought we'd go with them. We...

So after the funeral yesterday of my aunt, 2 things occurred that made us a little happier: 1) My mom (whom didn't want my sister's godfather to know about me being gay and getting married) had my dad...

Just wanted to thank everyone (WW community) for their kinds words re: my aunt who was battling lung cancer. As of this morning she has passed. We were all fortunate enough to be able to go to the...

For those who are inviting or had their wedding. Which guest and how long was it since you saw them? We are inviting some relatives we haven't seen in YEARS. I'd say maybe 5 years since we last saw...

Finally! But the real story was while we were chatting at a coffee shop some nosy woman asked us if we were getting married and then went on about her gay uncle who lives in London UK and is a lawyer...

Reading so many guest list drama I am very thankful our guest list process was very simple as we both agreed to keep the list controllable, a bit smaller and we agreed to those on the list. And...

My venue provides dining chairs for guests during dinner and for an inside ceremony. We are hoping to have the ceremony outdoors in the patio but there are no chairs there and we cannot use the dining...

Just wanted to gauge how your guest lists look like and how "far" along the family tree and relatives are you "inviting" (sending out an invite)? Here are the categories: Immediate family (siblings,...

OK this is the second time I heard from friends that the guys should get a little touch up and make up for the wedding day. Is this normal? I don't think I'd like to wear anything and my fiance is...

We have a potential officiant who did my friend's wedding a few years ago. Her booking procedure is: 1) Meet in person and she will go through the process of the ceremony, what gets done, and how it...

So I posted before about opening the wallet of my Fiance. Summary: we make the same amount, contribute the same, can afford the wedding and share and make all major decisions together and agree on all...

I am stumped. Fiance isn't as creative with ideas so was throwing things around but I can't picture it. We are doing a travel/adventure theme and would like greenery/scenery in our photoshoots. I'm...

Been reading up on length of weddings (Saturday evening weddings) in general and it seems most wedding are about 4-6 hours total. I have never been to a wedding less than 8 hours long and was...

So Fiance and I were looking at our invites and since the wedding was May 21, 2017 I put RSVP by May 1. I originally had it at mid April or even April 1 given my obessive need to be organized. Fiance...

So this is all about how to get your spouse to open up the wallet. My finance is under the impression that he wants to spend as less as possible which means: cheaper vendors, no cocktail hour, no...

This isn't about what the wedding party should do for me but more of if this sounds ok. We have 3 men and 3 women in our wedding party. We weren't necessarily planning on providing makeup and hair for...