Discussions by Pezzy

With last weeks ruling in NM, we can now get legally married there. Which means, we dont need to have the city hall wedding here in L.A. first. However, i kind of still want it, and kind of dont. 1....

Most of you know, I am not a bride, and neither is my fiance. When chosing a wedding site to organize everything, i chose WW because they advertised as being gender neutral. They say they are gay...

Am I the only person in the world who does not like these things? I know part of the idea of a sweetheart table is to allow the wedding party to not have a head table and thus they get to sit with...

This isn't about money, or tackiness, it's about how to maximize fun with a sticky situation... So, here's the thing, I'm having a night wedding, and I want people to enjoy it. However, I rarely...

Seriously, its just a quick error, hit cntrl-f5 to clear your cache, or just restart your computer...

I have 3 herniated discs, and some days are worse than others. I'm 36 and have been in pain since I was 29. I knew the day would come when I was told I needed back surgery... I'm just really fearful...

So my chronic back injury has re-lapsed, and when it's this bad, it's at least 3 days of mainly bed rest. Disappointed.. But hey... It gives me a chance to work on my fifth star!

I have a vendor I was about to hire back out cuz it's a gay wedding. I'm just livid. I am working with a blogger friend of mine to humiliate the crap out of this vendor, but I'm just pissed as hell. ...

So yesterday I interviewed a D j. I really liked him. In fact I loved him. He is the first DJ that gets my musical taste, The problem is his wife. They operate as a team and she kinda acts as a...

And this groom here is stuck at four.. It's sexism, I tell you, sexism. J/K

Just read this article with the ten best ways to cut costs as a groom. Make sure all your FHs read this... http://www.theplunge.com/weddingplanning/the-10-worst-ways-to-save-money-at-your-wedding/

So, looking over the cost, Hors d'oeuvres are extremely over priced. FH and I have decided, to save money, to do photos ahead of time, all of my family will be staying at the hotel/venue. His family...

It's really starti to get to me.. First of all, my mother and I are extremely close, and she has always been supportive of my sexuality, and my relationship. We decided to get married in NM, where us...

Went to L.A.'s first major gay and lesbian wedding expo yesterday and I was soooo disappointed. First, they had a number of Panel Discussions, and half the wedding planners kept referring to "What...

Tomorrow, I will be attending L.A's first ever "Gay and Lesbian Wedding Expo" - Beyond being excited that hey - THIS IS A THING... What should I do to prepare? What should I make sure I bring, or have...

So, live in L.A, getting married in ABQ. L.a. Is having one of the first major Gay Wedding Expos tomorrow. Beyond this being super exciting, will it be worth it to me, or will most exhibitors be...

Thought I'd share this funny story from my Bar Mitzvah and outline why it's a good idea to get a few family members involved in the seating... My mom constantly asked my dad's opinion on seating for...

So, it's an indoor wedding, no sparklers, none of that fun stuff...we aren't even going to a car that's decorated... We are just going off to the elevator from the ball room to our hotel room... Any...