Discussions by Elizabeth

This comes up a lot on here and I don't get it. It seems that being an usher is seen as a role you give to someone you want to honor. But does anyone actually enjoy ushering guests? Why isn't it...

Just received our response cards and there's no "RSVP" or anything at the top. There's room to put it there. It's just not there. We have a reception card that says "Reception" on the top and an...

Literally every wedding I've gone to recently included a choreographed first dance that seemed more like a show than what I think of as a traditional first dance. I was discussing this with some of my...

I know you've posted this before, but given that our search feature sucks, can you please post the name of the Etsy shop where you bought your cape once again?

We're having a rehearsal/welcome dinner for our guests. We're paying for dinner and drinks obviously. But dinner will be at a restaurant/bar that's part of the hotel. If people want to stay...

Did you write out what the meal options were on your response cards or did you leave it generic (beef versus chicken)? Ours just have beef, chicken, vegetarian, or children's meal, but aren't more...

The bra thread inspired me to ask this question. I usually work out in a sports bra, but it really isn't very comfortable because I haven't found one with the right support. I'm a 34 DD. Do you all...

Just got an invite for a South Carolina wedding in a garden on August 13th. There's not an indoor backup, so the invite says umbrellas will be provided if it rains. Forget the rain, which is bad...

Just read a vendor contract that included a clause that stated that if the client disparages the vendor to anyone, whether its in online reviews or offline person-to-person communication, they will...

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I'm not concerned about what to get my bridesmaids, but I'm at a loss for my bridesmen. I can't get them flasks because one has a seizure disorder and the other doesn't drink anymore. I already know...

I'm salty that veterans everyone loves are being banned, putting a damper on fun threads like Confession Friday.

Ok ladies, I need a reality check here. We kept going back and forth on video and I finally decided to look into it because as happy as I am with the photographer we chose, I feel like still photos...

First, I know that STDs are not mandatory. We're choosing to send them because (a) our wedding is a DW and 90% of our guests have never been to the state before and due to the time of year, we want to...

I'm addressing my STDs and ran across a thread on that, but I'm curious about the invitations and have a few etiquette questions. (1) When inviting a married couple, you do Mr. and Mrs. John Smith,...

My venue is pretty plain, but we plan to decorate it. The problem is, we have access only the day of. I'm wondering what people to when they want to decorate the venue? Are there people who are hired...

So I've posted before that I bought a dress a couple of months ago and ended up having dress regret. Well, I found another dress I love and ended up buying it this weekend. But the new dress makes me...

Hey gang. I could use some help with bridesmaid dress suggestions. Budget is less than $200 (they're paying for their own dresses, so the less the better, preferably in the...

Seems like we haven't had any BAMs in a while and we haven't heard much from those who had December weddings (or did I miss them?). Would love to hear from you ladies! Was it everything you dreamed?...

So I obviously plan to tip everyone and for hair, makeup, etc., I do plan to tip 20%. But my question is about vendors like photographers. My photographer is charging $4000. Do you tip 20% on...