Discussions by Botty

Ok yes I'm stealing this idea from another post, but I am tired of looking at endless rows of shoes that are either not quite right or way overpriced, maybe one of you guys have the one for me? I'm...

FH is from a different country than I am so we are going to send his father a box with enough invitations for the people there and he is going to handle mailing them so that we don't have to pay...

Hi all, so my invitations are all ready to print but I have some family emotions holding them up. I did my research and found that if the bride's parents are hosting then her name is listed first and...

We got our final proofs for the invitations back and I'm in love! I sent them to a friend to proofread and she said it seemed odd that FH's last name is on there and mine isn't but that's what the...

What color shirt and suit should the groom wear? My dress designer said that FH should NOT wear a white shirt because it will be unflattering next to my ivory dress but now I'm a bit lost for what he...

My mom, who is usually my go to for manners and etiquette because she has a great sense for these things, just suggested we put a paypal type link on our wedding website for people who want to give...

Hi all, for those who don't know me, I live in Israel and we will be having the wedding here. However I'm American so we have a good number of guests coming from the U.S. (and from Sweden where my FH...

This thread might be pointless since I don't have a picture but I just had to shout it out loud, I chose my dress!!! I'm so excited and I really love it even though it's not at all what I expected to...

Just a quick question for anybody who dealt with this - if you book flight tickets before your wedding on your maiden name for a trip that will happen soon after the wedding, but you change your name...

Hi all, I used to be really active this summer but a crazy semester of grad school has kept me away for few months. Well the wedding is approaching and lots of things have been booked, and I am...

I'm having a really awful, upsetting, stressful and scary couple of weeks. How do you guys relax when it feels impossible? I've been watching light hearted TV shows (recommendations welcome!) and I...

I was looking through etsy (my favorite) and almost none of the guest books are actually books! I don't want something I have to hang up on the wall and I didn't realize books were so out of fashion...

Our wedding is in international city with possibly hundreds of hotels, airbnb's, hostels, and other accommodation options for every budget and style, so originally we decided that doing a hotel block...

As is traditional in Israel (where we live and where we're getting married) we will only have maybe one or two rows of chairs for the ceremony, mainly for elderly people, and everybody else will...

Just curious what everyone is doing: When will you change your name on Facebook and other social media? Right after the wedding or only after the paperwork is done and the change is official?

Was just looking for some ideas in Pinterest and came across a post which said "Name your tables after famous literary couples, like Romeo & Juliet and Gatsby & Daisy" and I'm like... did you even...

What do you ladies say? I always assumed I would want a super thin wedding band to match my e-ring but I'm starting to wonder if perhaps it would be nice to have a wedding band that is a bit more...

A few other threads, including the "Married Life: What are you Looking Forward to" post, got me thinking. I think FH and I have a strong and healthy relationship, I can't really think of any...