At Wed By Norm, every ceremony is crafted with care, heart, and intention. I’m Norman I. Graham, a professional and licensed wedding officiant serving couples across New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, and beyond for destination weddings. Whether your celebration is elegant, intimate, or joyfully unconventional, I specialize in creating ceremonies that truly feel like you — authentic, memorable, and filled with meaning.

Couples often describe me as calm, professional, and personable, with a genuine approach that makes the process simple and enjoyable. From our first conversation to your wedding day, I prioritize collaboration — making sure your voices are heard and your vision comes to life beautifully.

In addition to officiating, I offer:

• Virtual or In-Person Consultations for your convenience

• Guidance with the Marriage License Process, so nothing is left to chance

• Customized Ceremony Scripts tailored to your story, tone, and preferences

• Referrals for Trusted Wedding Vendors to help complete your dream team

• Rehearsal Coordination (if applicable), ensuring a smooth and stress-free ceremony day

Beyond the “I do,” I also provide premarital and postmarital coaching, designed to help couples strengthen communication, connection, and clarity as they begin their marriage journey.

I’m honored to work with couples from all backgrounds — including interfaith, multicultural, LGBTQ+, and nontraditional unions — and I approach every ceremony with inclusivity, respect, and joy.

When you choose Wed By Norm, you’re not just booking an officiant. You’re gaining a partner who listens, guides, and celebrates with you every step of the way. Together, we’ll create a ceremony that’s legally sound, emotionally rich, and unforgettable — one that truly captures the love story you’ve built and the future you’re stepping into.