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Wed By Norm is a wedding officiant service based out of Trenton, New Jersey. Owner Norman is a fully licensed officiant who helps couples write their vows and celebrate their religious or humanist union. He loves what he does and works collaboratively to create a ceremony that meets your expectations and feels uniquely you. We love creating beautiful memories for couples to last a lifetime. With passion and enthusiam, we craft ceremonies to capture our couples' love while keeping keeping wedding guests entertained.

During our consultation, we offer the following:

  • Virtual/In-Person Consultations
  • Assistance with Marriage License Process
  • Customizing Scripts For Clientele
  • Referalls for other vendors
  • Available for Wedding Rehearsals (If Applicable)

Counties served are Burlington, Camden, Ocean City, Middlesex, Somerset, Monmouth, Hunterdon and Mercer Counties (within the State of New Jersey). Wed By Norm also services the following states: New York, Connecticut, Pennsylvania and Rhode Island.

  • Black-owned

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?


Which of the following are included in the price?

Ceremony Rehearsal

What is the starting price for your wedding services?


Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?


What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?


What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Baha'i Faith
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?


What languages do you speak?

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4.9 out of 5 rating
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
14 Reviews
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99% Recommended by couples

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Shaquana G. Married on 10/10/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Experience!

Norman was a great person to consult with when planning our wedding. He was able to help execute our wedding during the planning stages, and day of. He was able to provide excellent guidance, inspiration, and care. He showed his dedication to our special day, and assisted us with attending wedding expos, viewing venues along with helping secure our wedding venue, photographer, videographer, major wedding logistics, and final touches.

He recognized the challenges we faced due to COVID19 and helped us pivot our plans when necessary. Norman was our advisor, cheerleader and champion during the whole process, so if you are looking for someone to make your feel, and look as special as ours day was we would highly recommend Norman services because he truly cares!
Lisa C. Married on 11/04/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Attended wedding as a guest.

I attended a wedding at the Grain House located in Basking Ridge New Jersey and Norm did an outstanding job. His balance of professionalism, compassion, and being efficient helped make this beautiful couples dream come true. I highly recommend Norm
Lenore R. Married on 10/16/2023
5 out of 5 rating

I was a wedding witness and I was impressed!

I was a witness at a wedding performed by Norm. I was very impressed with how Norm was able to relax and feel at ease. People were enjoying themselves while they waited for the actual event to begin.
Norm was professional and gracious while performing the ceremony. Norm didn't rush for the door after the ceremony but lingered to make sure he delivered best of luck wishes and hearty congratulations to the couple.
If I was getting married, Norm would be the person I'd want officiating.
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Norman  Graham
Norman Graham
Wedding Officiant

Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, Norman I. Graham is the owner of Wed By Norm. Graham has been no stranger to the wedding scene or business. He was first exposed to weddings by going to his first one in 2007. Ever since, he has been to over 30 weddings as a guest and has been in 5. Currently residing in New Jersey, Graham has also had the opportunity to plan and help execute parts of people's weddings as well. During his entrepreneurship journey, he has had the opportunity to help out a colleague by becoming ordained to do a wedding for them. Ever since, he has been your favorite officiant, willing to make your day magical.

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