The Reeds at Shelter Haven

9601 Third Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247 Map · Phone number
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About The Reeds at Shelter Haven

Your spectacular seaside wedding begins here

The Reeds' casual elegance and coastal chic design combine in perfect harmony with the natural surroundings to create a backdrop that is truly one-of-a-kind. Designed by a team of wedding professionals, The Reeds offers the most exclusive seaside wedding destination at the southern New Jersey shore.

The options - and possibilities - are unlimited… but here are a few of our favorites:

  • An intimate sundeck ceremony with stunning water views
  • Bayside cocktails and hors d'oeuvres on our covered veranda extending to a beautifully landscaped outdoor lounge
  • Dinner and dancing in our spacious, open-air concept ballroom for up to 220 guests
  • Dessert and cordials under the stars before being swept away to your elegantly appointed bridal suite for the night
  • Sweet Grass Ballroom… A Truly Unique Open-Air Concept

From your first dramatic entrance as a married couple to your final goodbyes before escaping to your luxury Reeds Suite, The Reeds' Sweet Grass Ballroom is the ultimate celebration space for you, your entire party and guests. Wall-to-wall sliding glass spans the bayside view, allowing the opportunity to open your space to the outdoor veranda and provide an 'indoor/outdoor' feel with a full view of the sparkling harbor. The dramatic fireplace also adapts the indoor-outdoor concept. Simply Spectacular… and the perfect backdrop to your special day.

For more information or to reserve your wedding at The Reeds contact Krista Ostrander at 609.368.0100 or kostrander@reedsresort.com

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26 Reviews for The Reeds at Shelter Haven

Recommended by 94% of couples


4.7 out of 5.0
  • Quality of service 4.8
  • Professionalism 4.8
  • Flexibility 4.5
  • Value 4.7
  • Average response time 4.6

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    Heather · Married on 05/19/2018

    5.0
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    • Responsiveness:
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    • Value:
      5.0
    • Flexibility:
      5.0
    • Professionalism:
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    There are not enough words to describe how amazing our wedding was at The Reeds. It was everything we could have imagined and more! We were a little concerned at first with how strict the pricing was but it was all worth it and Krista worked with us to accommodate our budget in different ways. Vanessa knew exactly what she was doing and made the day go by seamlessly! She was always quick to reply to emails and made it super easy to plan everything. It was set to rain most of the wedding day but Leslie and Vanessa worked with us to try and make sure we could still be outside. Luckily, we just missed the rain!

    All of my guests raved about the food, especially the raw bar. The staff was quick to help and replenish everything. There was also a really nice touch at the end of the night with food in our room, slices of cake, and a beautiful Monogrammed blanket.

    We could not have asked for a more magical day at The Reeds!

    Sent on 07/04/2018
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    Shannon · Married on 05/11/2018

    5.0
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      5.0
    • Responsiveness:
      5.0
    • Value:
      5.0
    • Flexibility:
      5.0
    • Professionalism:
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    The Reeds was everything I ever imagined my wedding to be and more! It was the perfect venue that I have dreamed about for my entire life. From day 1 when we first met Krista at The Reeds, we knew this is exactly where we wanted to get married. The entire team at The Reeds including Leslie and Vanessa were so fantastic throughout the entire wedding planning process. Vanessa was always available to answer any of my questions and provide us with any advice and guidance that we needed. She went above and beyond to make sure our wedding day ran so smoothly and was perfect! I received so many compliments from our guests not only about how beautiful the venue was, but also about how amazing the service was, how delicious the food tasted and how friendly the staff treated everybody! At the end of the evening the staff was kind enough to box up all of our gifts and decorations and bring them up to our room. We even had a slice of our wedding cake and the most adorable wedding gift from them sitting on our bed! Our entire wedding day was perfect from start to finish and I truly believe it was because of the kindness, generosity, and professionalism from Vanessa and the rest of the team at The Reeds. I cannot recommend this venue enough if you want a perfect and beautiful wedding day!!

    Sent on 06/20/2018
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    Kenza · Married on 10/02/2017

    5.0
    • Quality of service:
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    • Responsiveness:
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    • Value:
      5.0
    • Flexibility:
      5.0
    • Professionalism:
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    No words can describe how outstanding my experience with The Reeds was. Everything was perfect, from the beginning to the end, and I could not have dreamt of a more beautiful wedding.
    I really wanted an original venue for my big day and I knew I found the ONE the second I saw it. I completely fell in love with the place and the waterview blew my mind. Elegant. Luxurious. Breathtaking. I am so happy with my choice, especially when I see our wedding pictures : they are unique and magical; and it's all thank to the venue.
    Krista and Vanessa were a true pleasure to work with. They were very responsive, very helpful and very flexible. I was planning the wedding from France and they did their best to make this experience as easy as possible for me. Due to special circumstances, we had to change many things at the last minute and I really appreciated how quickly they agreed to do it and how they handled it.
    On the wedding day, Vanessa was here all day long and made sure everything was exactly as I pictured. She really took care of everything and I could not thank her enough for her amazing work. I knew that everything was under control and that I should not worry about anything and just enjoy my day. The decoration items were placed exactly the way I asked and then, at the end of the wedding, they were packed along with the cake and put in our room (with a surprise!).
    Last but not least, the food and the cocktails were AMAZING. Everything was delicious, from the cocktail hour to the dessert.
    I truly think that the price of the package is VERY reasonable for all you get and I could not recommend it enough!

    Sent on 01/12/2018

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The Reeds at Shelter Haven FAQ

  • What is the maximum capacity of your venue? 220
  • What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue? 150
  • How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer? 7
  • Describe your venue: Hotel, Resort, Waterfront
  • What kind of settings are available? Indoor, Uncovered Outdoor, Scenic Views
  • Which of the following wedding events does your venue service? Ceremony, Reception, Bridal Shower, Engagement Party, Elopements, Rehearsal Dinner
  • What event services do you offer? Accommodations, All Inclusive Packages, Bar Services, Cake, Catering Services, Clean Up, Event Planner, Get Ready Rooms, Lighting / Sound, Set Up, Wifi
  • What catering services do you offer? Cocktail Reception, Dessert, Hors d'oeuvres, Plated, Server(s), Stations, Tastings
  • What bar services do you provide? Bartender(s), Cash Bar, Champagne Toast, House Beer, House Liquor, House Wine, Limited Bar, Liquor License, Open Bar, Outside Alcohol, Premium Liquor, Signature Drink, Specialty Beer, Specialty Wine
  • What food and beverage items are available? Barware, Flatware, Glassware, Linens
  • What transportation and access is available? Parking, Valet, Wheelchair Access
  • What months are included in your peak season? March, April, May, June, September, October, November, December
  • What months are included in your off-peak season? January, February, December

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