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Starting at $172 Starting at $162
Couples usually spend $25,389.55 Couples usually spend $11,516.57
Reception
$172 starting price
Ceremony
$2,000 starting price
Reception
$182 starting price
Ceremony
$1,000 starting price
These prices are available for the months of May, Jun, Sep, Oct. These prices are available for the months of Jan, Feb, Mar, Apr, Nov, Dec.

About

On WeddingWire since 2012

The Reeds at Shelter Haven is a beautiful wedding venue in Stone Harbour, New Jersey that sets the stage for an unforgettable celebration. This stunning seaside venue provides a picture-perfect backdrop for the most important day of your life. With exceptional customer service, spectacular views, and a range of event spaces, The Reeds at Shelter Haven is an excellent choice!

Facilities and Capacity

You and your partner-to-be can transform long-awaited dreams into reality at The Reeds at Shelter Haven. The venue invites you to exchange your most sincere views at the sundeck ceremony location with beautiful waterfront views. Here, you'll get to capture countless wedding photos with all your loved ones. Afterward, guests can make their way to the covered veranda for cocktails and hors d'oeuvres. This space also extends to a gorgeous outdoor lounge, ideal for wedding festivities. You can host your wedding reception with up to 220 guests in the open-air ballroom and craft countless memories that will last a lifetime. The Reeds at Shelter Haven also contains a stunning wedding suite to help you relax and prepare for your much-anticipated 'I do's.'

Services Offered

The Reeds at Shelter Haven employs a team of professionals who will go above and beyond to ensure your wedding is everything you've dreamed of. They offer a list of comprehensive services, such as event planning, clean up, and bartending services. You can also opt for top-notch catering services at the venue. The venue's restaurant, Sax at the Reeds, offers mouthwatering dishes like crispy calamari, mezze plates, steakhouse salad, and Hawaiin flatbreads. Before the big day, you'll get to attend a tasting with the chefs to ensure they craft the perfect dining experience for your wedding celebration.

Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$172

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$182

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$2,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$1,000

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

150

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

7

Describe your venue:

Hotel
Resort
Waterfront

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Get Ready Rooms
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Hors d'oeuvres
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Liquor License
Open Bar
Outside Alcohol
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
November
December
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Reviews of The Reeds at Shelter Haven

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4.8 out of 5 rating
4.8 out of 5 rating
35 reviews
96% recommend it
  • Quality of service
    4.9 out of 5 rating
  • Average response time
    4.7 out of 5 rating
  • Professionalism
    4.9 out of 5 rating
  • Value
    4.8 out of 5 rating
  • Flexibility
    4.6 out of 5 rating
Weddingwire
4.8/5 35 reviews
Google
4.3/5 740 reviews
Sheryl
Sheryl W. Sent on 02/20/2022
5 out of 5 rating

The Reeds at Shelter Haven

The entire weekend was at The Reeds and we couldn't have been happier. Katie, our event organizer was outstanding. The servers were very cordial and helpful for the before dinner, wedding, after party and breakfast. We were thrilled and grateful for George, the valet; Matt, the banquet captain; and the main server, Lilly. The wedding was absolutely magical and the suites were lovely.
Chelsea
Chelsea V. Sent on 08/13/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Spring Wedding

We fell in love with The Reeds after one visit and knew that was where we wanted to get married. When COVID hit and we had to reschedule, Krista was more than helpful in the entire process. Once we got closer to our date we worked with Liz and she was beyond amazing. We had gorgeous weather on our wedding day and the ballroom was even more gorgeous once it was al set up and covered in our flowers. All of our guests were blown away by the water views and entire set up. Loved every minute of our day!
Graceann
Graceann P. Sent on 05/31/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The best "backup" plan of all time

The Reeds was not our original venue, but we could not be happier that we were forced to change locations. We also got so lucky that it was available on our date. We were originally supposed to get married in Philadelphia and expected a guest list of around 200-220. When it didn't seem like our wedding would happen as is and like we'd have a smaller count, we started to look for other options. The Reeds was truly meant to be for us. Guests were raving about the location all night and after the event and we just can't believe how well it worked out. Our day was so beautiful. The Reeds also was very accommodating going into the event in terms of our guest list. We decided to just invite everyone and to see where we net out and they were willing to make it work. We ended up with 145 people and 150 were allowed inside in NJ at the time. I will say that that number felt perfect for the space and that I don't think our original number would have been good there. We even had 4 tables outside on the veranda (to make people feel comfortable with COVID) and this was helpful in terms of space for the dance floor. They also had special touches for the weekend like champagne brought to our room and a chocolate cake for my Dad in his room (he wanted chocolate cake at the tasting and we decided on something else). We stayed in the Sky Suite which was amazing to get ready in and ended up having people in our room after the wedding with bars and such having COVID limitations. It was the best day of our lives and we are so glad that we were able to have it at The Reeds.

(Photos by Afrik Armando)
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner

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The Reeds at Shelter Haven frequently asked questions

The space offered by The Reeds at Shelter Haven for wedding events is known for:
  • Hotel
  • Resort
  • Waterfront
The Reeds at Shelter Haven offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Reeds at Shelter Haven offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Reeds at Shelter Haven offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Wifi
The Reeds at Shelter Haven is recommended by 96% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in professionalism, 4.8 in value, 4.7 in average response time and 4.6 in flexibility.

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