The Reeds' casual elegance and coastal chic design combine in perfect harmony with the natural surroundings to create a backdrop that is truly one-of-a-kind. Designed by a team of wedding professionals, The Reeds offers the most exclusive seaside wedding destination at the southern New Jersey shore.
The options - and possibilities - are unlimited but here are a few of our favorites:
An intimate sundeck ceremony with stunning water views
Bayside cocktails and hors d'oeuvres on our covered veranda extending to a beautifully landscaped outdoor lounge
Dinner and dancing in our spacious, open-air concept ballroom for up to 220 guests
Dessert and cordials under the stars before being swept away to your elegantly appointed bridal suite for the night
Sweet Grass Ballroom A Truly Unique Open-Air Concept
From your first dramatic entrance as a married couple to your final goodbyes before escaping to your luxury Reeds Suite, The Reeds' Sweet Grass Ballroom is the ultimate celebration space for you, your entire party and guests. Wall-to-wall sliding glass spans the bayside view, allowing the opportunity to open your space to the outdoor veranda and provide an 'indoor/outdoor' feel with a full view of the sparkling harbor. The dramatic fireplace also adapts the indoor-outdoor concept. Simply Spectacular and the perfect backdrop to your special day.
For more information or to reserve your wedding at The Reeds contact Krista Ostrander at 609.368.0100 or kostrander@reedsresort.com
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The Reeds….where do I begin? This venue is spectacular. Liz, Vanessa, Leah, Krista, and everyone else on the Reeds team was absolutely fantastic —professional in every way. My husband and I are big foodies, and chose the Reeds for exactly that reason. We instantly fell in love with the incredible food and the breathtaking bay views. From day 1, the team starts to lay out all of your details, pricing, timelines, and continues to guide you up to the big day. Liz was excellent with her communication, even answering emails in between events at the Reeds on weekends to help us get questions answered and details sorted out. The day of was unreal….we snuck into our reception early before cocktail hour, and that’s the moment you just take a deep breath realize the whole night is going to be perfect. And it was! I never felt stressed from 5pm through our after party in the Crew room.
We stayed in our complimentary room that night and were greeted with champagne, a blanket inscribed with our last initial, and a beautiful balcony. The rooms are spotless and gorgeous. Whatever you need, they will do their absolute best to accommodate you. We are so thankful we found the Reeds at Shelter Haven and will never forget our wedding weekend!!!
Sent on 11/10/2019
Taryn Cassidy
· Married on 10/04/2019
5.0
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10.4.19 Wedding
My husband and I had a great experience with the Reeds. The day was so beautiful, the venue is gorgeous, the food and drinks were delicious and we had so much fun! Krista was so helpful with getting everything set up for us initially, and Liz was incredible as our Coordinator! She took care of everything - ALL of my many questions, she provided reassurance when needed and was truly amazing. She went above and beyond for us, from the planning process to the day of. She was really amazing and her and her team made our experience at the Reeds extra special.
Sent on 11/19/2019
Heather
· Married on 05/19/2018
5.0
Quality of service:
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There are not enough words to describe how amazing our wedding was at The Reeds. It was everything we could have imagined and more! We were a little concerned at first with how strict the pricing was but it was all worth it and Krista worked with us to accommodate our budget in different ways. Vanessa knew exactly what she was doing and made the day go by seamlessly! She was always quick to reply to emails and made it super easy to plan everything. It was set to rain most of the wedding day but Leslie and Vanessa worked with us to try and make sure we could still be outside. Luckily, we just missed the rain!
All of my guests raved about the food, especially the raw bar. The staff was quick to help and replenish everything. There was also a really nice touch at the end of the night with food in our room, slices of cake, and a beautiful Monogrammed blanket.
We could not have asked for a more magical day at The Reeds!
