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The Reeds at Shelter Haven

Stone Harbor, NJ View map Visit website
Rating 4.8 out of 5
35 reviews
Up to 220 guests

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Up to 220 guests

Your spectacular seaside wedding begins here!

The Reeds' casual elegance and coastal chic design combine in perfect harmony with the natural surroundings to create a backdrop that is truly one-of-a-kind. Designed by a team of wedding professionals, The Reeds offers the most exclusive seaside wedding destination at the southern New Jersey shore.

The options – and possibilities – are unlimited… but here are a few of our favorites:

  • An intimate sundeck ceremony with stunning water views
  • Pre-wedding preparation in the exclusive Bridal Suite at Salt Spa
  • Bayside cocktails and hors d’ oeuvres on our covered veranda extending to a beautifully landscaped outdoor lounge
  • Dinner and dancing in our spacious, open-air concept ballroom for up to 220 guests
  • Dessert and cordials under the stars before being swept away to your elegantly appointed bridal suite for the night

From your first dramatic entrance as a married couple to your final goodbyes before escaping to your luxury Reeds Suite, The Reeds’ Sweet Grass Ballroom is the ultimate celebration space for you, your entire party and guests. Wall-to-wall sliding glass spans the bayside view, allowing the opportunity to open your space to the outdoor veranda and provide an ‘indoor/outdoor’ feel with a full view of the sparkling harbor. The dramatic fireplace also adapts the indoor-outdoor concept. Simply Spectacular… and the perfect backdrop to your special day.

For more information or to reserve your wedding at The Reeds please call 609.368.0100 or weddings@reedsresort.com.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the maximum capacity of your venue?

220

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

150

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

7

Describe your venue:

Hotel
Resort
Waterfront

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor
Scenic Views

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
All Inclusive Packages
Bar Services
Cake
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Get Ready Rooms
Lighting / Sound
Set Up
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Hors d'oeuvres
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Liquor License
Open Bar
Outside Alcohol
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

March
April
May
June
September
October
November
December

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
December

35 Reviews

Write a review
Rated
4.8
out of 5.0
Recommended by 96% of couples
  • Quality of service
    Rating 4.9 out of 5
  • Average response time
    Rating 4.7 out of 5
  • Professionalism
    Rating 4.9 out of 5
  • Value
    Rating 4.8 out of 5
  • Flexibility
    Rating 4.6 out of 5

15 User photos

  • Sheryl
    Sheryl W. Married on 01/15/2022
    Rating 5 out of 5
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    The Reeds at Shelter Haven

    The entire weekend was at The Reeds and we couldn't have been happier. Katie, our event organizer was outstanding. The servers were very cordial and helpful for the before dinner, wedding, after party and breakfast. We were thrilled and grateful for George, the valet; Matt, the banquet captain; and the main server, Lilly. The wedding was absolutely magical and the suites were lovely.
  • Chelsea
    Chelsea V. Married on 05/15/2021
    Rating 5 out of 5
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    Beautiful Spring Wedding

    We fell in love with The Reeds after one visit and knew that was where we wanted to get married. When COVID hit and we had to reschedule, Krista was more than helpful in the entire process. Once we got closer to our date we worked with Liz and she was beyond amazing. We had gorgeous weather on our wedding day and the ballroom was even more gorgeous once it was al set up and covered in our flowers. All of our guests were blown away by the water views and entire set up. Loved every minute of our day!

Awards

  • 35
  • WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
  • WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
  • WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner

Real Weddings

  • Meredith & Josh
    30 photos · 10/07/2018
  • Jessica & Thomas
    48 photos · 12/02/2017

Map

9601 Third Avenue Stone Harbor, 08247
6093680100
Location of (The Reeds at Shelter Haven)

The Reeds at Shelter Haven frequently asked questions

What are the most important characteristics of The Reeds at Shelter Haven in terms of venue type, style and location?

The space offered by The Reeds at Shelter Haven for wedding events is known for:
  • Hotel
  • Resort
  • Waterfront

What kind of indoor/outdoor options are available at The Reeds at Shelter Haven for wedding events?

The Reeds at Shelter Haven offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
  • Scenic Views

What kind of wedding events does The Reeds at Shelter Haven offer?

The Reeds at Shelter Haven offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner

What services does The Reeds at Shelter Haven offer for wedding events?

The Reeds at Shelter Haven offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • All Inclusive Packages
  • Bar Services
  • Cake
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Lighting / Sound
  • Set Up
  • Wifi

What percentage of users recommend The Reeds at Shelter Haven and which are the most valued aspects of their wedding services?

The Reeds at Shelter Haven is recommended by 88% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in professionalism, 4.8 in value, 4.7 in average response time and 4.6 in flexibility.

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