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About

Hi. My name is Thomas Billings. I am a wedding officiant, Certified Gottman Educator, and Certified Birkman Professional.

Emotional intelligence is my expertise, and I am fascinated with the relational dynamics that make up healthy couples, parents, and families. I help people work with themselves and others, in their unique context.

You deserve a completely personalized, meaningful, and memorable ceremony for you as a unique couple.

My flat fee of $849 per wedding includes the rehearsal.

**An officiant is the one vendor you can't get married without. Make sure it's a great fit.**

I'm passionate about weddings because I'm a minister at heart. I have a heart for ministering to people in their big and small life moments. I've done over a hundred weddings and got started in the wedding business because I began my career working for churches as a pastor and minister. Since then, I've become a Business Coach. Some of the coaching methods and behavioral assessments I've become an expert in are used by companies like Google, MailChimp, Chevron, and others, and are also highly applicable to couples. That's what makes my wedding business unique.

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Frequently asked questions

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Presbyterian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

TX

Reviews of Relational Dynamics at Work

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Kacie Sent on 07/06/2016
5 out of 5 rating
Thomas was so helpful in our pre-marital counseling, and it was our honor to have him officiate our wedding! He was very warm and easy to get to know, and was so pleasant to work with. He was sensitive to any issues that my husband and I brought into our counseling sessions, which I really appreciated. The sessions that we had were extremely beneficial in our marriage. Thomas taught us that he could never prevent us from fighting, but he could teach us to "fight well", and he definitely did that! We are so grateful to Thomas for what he taught us about ourselves and our relationship.

He also performed a wonderful wedding ceremony that our guests are STILL raving about (the wedding was 11 months ago!). It was exactly what we asked for, and we could not be more pleased!
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Brenda Sent on 07/18/2017
5 out of 5 rating
We weren't really sure what we were looking for when we started shopping for wedding officiants, but when we found Thomas, we knew we would be happy with him! He did a great job with our wedding ceremony. He helped us come up with the ceremony script that worked for us. Most importantly, he was calm and reassuring throughout the ceremony, which made us comfortable. We recommend him with great enthusiasm!
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Nhi Sent on 08/06/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Thomas was very easy to work with. His schedule was flexible when it comes to meeting up to discuss ceremony wording and logistics. He patiently guided us through the process to make our wedding ceremony unique and reflective of our personalities. He even worked with us on our personal wedding vows, and after many revisions, the final product was so much better than what we started with. He was also very helpful during the rehearsal, providing some guidance on how to keep from fainting, how to deal with nervousness, etc. We received a lot of compliments from guests on our officiant selection. We originally chose Thomas as our officiant because we liked the personality and values that he portrayed on his website. All of that positivity and great energy came through at the wedding! We look forward to using him again, down the road, whenever we have our vows renewed!
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