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The Heart of the Wedding

English
Ceremony Rehearsal
Interfaith
Civil Union

Why couples loved this vendor

  • Marriage License & Certificate
  • Officiant
  • Great Planner
Hevesy
Justin
Sonia
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Recommended by 100% of couples

About this vendor

Gerald Fierst – Celebrant, Storyteller, and Award-Winning Performer

Operating out of Montclair, NJ, Gerald Fierst is a Yale graduate, an award-winning writer and actor, and one of America’s first certified civil celebrants. With over 150 five-star reviews and a place in The Knot’s Wedding Hall of Fame, Gerald has earned a reputation for creating unforgettable, personalized ceremonies that honor the love, stories, and traditions of every couple he works with.

Whether you're Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Hindu, Persian, South Asian, Chinese, LGBTQ+, or straight, Gerald takes the time to understand your background, values, and vision. His ceremonies are inclusive, deeply meaningful, and always one-of-a-kind—celebrating not only your love but also your heritage and future together.

Review after review says it best:
"Wow. We couldn’t ask for anything more."

Certified by the International College of Celebrancy (Melbourne, Australia) and the Celebrant Institute (Montclair, NJ), Gerald brings unmatched experience, empathy, and artistry to his work. His acclaimed book, The Heart of the Wedding, has been praised as a "celebration of our families and ourselves with care, precision, and artistry."

As an accomplished performer, Gerald has won Parents' Choice Awards for his storytelling recordings and has shared his talents around the globe at theaters, festivals, museums, and schools.

If you’re looking for a ceremony that reflects your unique journey and future, trust Gerald Fierst to bring your love story to life with passion, presence, and poetic elegance. He’ll make your "I do" a moment your guests will never forget—and one you’ll cherish for the rest of your lives.

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Experience

  • 24 years in business

  • We speak English

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FAQ

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$151

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Hindu
Islam
Jewish
No Denomination
Taoist

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CT
DC
MA
NJ
NY
PA
WA

What languages do you speak?

English

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Reviews of The Heart of the Wedding

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Reviewers praised the officiant as warm, professional, and communicative, crafting personalized, heartfelt ceremonies that reflected each couple's story. He manages legal details, offers creative ideas, and helps calm nerves. Guests and couples called the ceremonies memorable and engaging, and many highly recommend him.

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Reviewers praised the officiant as warm, professional, and communicative, crafting personalized, heartfelt ceremonies that reflected each couple's story. He manages legal details, offers creative ideas, and helps calm nerves. Guests and couples called the ceremonies memorable and engaging, and many highly recommend him.

Hevesy
Hevesy Sent on 12/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

AMAZING! Perfect! Simply the best!

Gerald was amazing! After reading his reviews, I knew he was the one. We met once virtually for an introduction, and instantly he was warm and made us feel welcomed and comfortable. He was very knowledgable and has a great background. He recommended a few things to us, kept it simple but elegant. We were in constant communication up until our special day. The ceremony was perfect, magical, beautiful. We literally couldn't have asked for anything better. Gerald was wonderful in every way, and we are so lucky and blessed to share our special day with him. Thank you Gerald!
Justin
Justin Sent on 06/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Ceremony at the Bethesda Fountain in Central Park, NYC

My wife & I had our wedding ceremony this past Sunday at the Bethesda Fountain in Central Park. Gerald was very kind, accommodating, well-spoken, and patient with us. Highly recommend and we are grateful for the support and high quality service received, helped making our special day running smoothly and wonderfully. Thank you Gerald!
Sonia
Sonia Sent on 03/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Gerald performed our wedding ceremony, and we could not have asked for a better officiant. He was extremely professional, warm, and attentive to our n

Gerald performed our wedding ceremony, and we could not have asked for a better officiant. He was extremely professional, warm, and attentive to our needs throughout the process. Gerald took the time to truly understand our story and created a beautiful, personalized Jewish ceremony that reflected our dreams perfectly. We are so grateful for his care and dedication. Highly recommended!
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Yulia Sent on 02/02/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Officiant for Our Intimate Wedding.

We had a small, intimate wedding at our home, and Gerald was the perfect officiant. He was professional, kind, and incredibly easy to work with. The ceremony was beautifully personalized and heartfelt, making our day feel truly special. Gerald created a warm and meaningful experience that we will cherish forever!
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H K Sent on 12/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Thoughtful, heartfelt officiant!

Gerald is a wonderful officiant who brings a heartfelt tone and a easy demeanor to weddings. We wanted a ceremony which was reverent and emotional, without being religious or overly bound by tradition. Gerald delivered on all fronts. He takes the time to interview couples and crafts a ceremony which brings out their unique qualities. He is easy to work with, responsive, and thoughtful. Guests kept approaching us at the reception to say that he was a real highlight of the night, and ask where we found him! He is a strong orator, a gentle presence on a stressful day, and highly professional -- recommended 10 times out of 10!
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Amanda Sent on 10/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

August 2025

Gerald created such an unbelievable experience for our civil ceremony this past summer! He took the time to get to know my husband and I, and put together the most beautiful readings that really represented our relationship. He completely exceeded our expectations, and I could not recommend Gerald enough! He is kind, thoughtful, professional, and truly gifted!
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Alex Sent on 10/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

September 2025 Wedding

Gerald was absolutely amazing. He crafted a ceremony that was personal and reflective of us. We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant!
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Matthew Sent on 10/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A perfect personalized service

Gerald figured out who we were after the first conversation and had a special service catered to exactly who we are. He had our guests laughing, crying and smiling the entire time. Couldn’t recommend him any more. If you want a sincere and special wedding service, hire Gerald
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Lan Sent on 10/05/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Great service!

We were so lucky to have Gerald as our officiant! He’s super creative and came up with lots of great ideas that made our ceremony feel personal and meaningful. On the wedding day, he did such a great job — everything flowed naturally, and his words really captured our story.

He’s also really easy to work with and incredibly fair on price! Highly recommend to anyone looking for someone thoughtful, professional, and creative to officiate their wedding.
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Alek Sent on 08/02/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Central Park Wedding

From start to finish, Gerald was professional, courteous, communicative, and a pleasure to work with. He was patient, flexible, and dependable as we worked out the details. On the day of the ceremony, he connected well with my family and it was a smooth, fun, and memorable day for everyone. If you're looking for an officiant who values genuineness, simplicity, and focusing on what truly matters, I would highly recommend Gerald!
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Awards

158
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2025 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2014 Winner
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Professional Network & Endorsements

Bridal Music Bridal Music Wedding Musicians

Dear Brides to Be, Our Flute and Violin Wedding Duo had the honor of working with Gerald of "The Heart of the Wedding" at a stunning Outdoor Wedding Ceremony, taking place at The Molly Pitcher Inn, Red Bank, NJ. Gerald's presentation is elegantly polished and outstandingly professional. He expertly, and magically, kept a very nervous Bride and Groom, calm and collected, throughout their Ceremony! Bravo, Gerald! Sincerely, Flutist/Artistic Director Michele, Bridal Music

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