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The Flanders Hotel

From 50 to 350 guests
Ceremony/Reception
Outdoor/Indoor
Clean Up
Vanessa
Passion
Kristofor
Nicolette
Beth

Recommended by 98% of couples

About this venue

The Flanders Hotel is a luxury beachside wedding venue in Ocean City, New Jersey. Located right on the beautiful beaches of Ocean City and a short walk away from the boardwalk, this venue is ideal for beach weddings and intimate elopements. This elegant venue has the distinct historical charm of the 1920s, with a variety of modern amenities you need for your special day.

Facilities and Capacity

The Flanders Hotel was built in 1923, maintaining the elegant decor and architecture of this time period with its gold-trimmed columns, crystal chandeliers, and ornate draperies. The main ballroom and dining hall can accommodate 325 seated guests, or up to 700 guests for a cocktail-style reception. The ballroom is beautifully designed in the 1900s style, but can be custom-decorated and arranged to fit your dream vision seamlessly.

Services Offered

The Flanders Hotel is a full-service wedding venue, allowing clients to host an array of wedding events such as engagement parties, bridal showers, and rehearsal dinners. The experienced on-site event planner makes it a priority to get to know you on a personal level, developing a genuine understanding of your preferences. They can focus on the finer details of each aspect of your wedding, allowing you to focus on spending time with your loved ones.

Cuisine

There is also a skilled catering team that strives to create a menu that is individually tailored to your dietary requirements. Couples can choose between delicious passed hors d’oeuvres, buffet-style dishes, plated-style dishes, and more. Cocktail receptions are also available, effortlessly setting a sophisticated tone for your celebration of love.

Accommodation

The Flanders Hotel has over 100 mini-suites, each with its own private bedrooms and a full kitchen. The kitchen space includes a refrigerator, dishwasher, microwave, and stove. Each room is also custom-designed to preserve the hotel’s historical significance, providing guests with a cozy space to enjoy the wedding weekend. Other hotel amenities include:

  • Daily housekeeping
  • Outdoor heated pool
  • Complimentary wifi throughout the hotel
  • Dining options at Emily’s Ocean Room

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Features

Large team (21+ members)

Experience

  • Lingue: English

Links

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Weddings at this venue

Gabby & Alex's wedding
Gabby & Alex
56 photos
Troy & Emily's wedding
Troy & Emily
51 photos
Julian & Christina's wedding
Julian & Christina
21 photos
George & Angelina's wedding
George & Angelina
19 photos
Alissa & Matt's wedding
Alissa & Matt
32 photos

FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Dessert
Server(s)

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

50

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Banquet Hall
Historic Building
Hotel

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Outside Vendors
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast

What event items are available?

Chairs
Chair Covers
Dance Floor
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access
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Reviews of The Flanders Hotel

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The Flanders Hotel is a gorgeous, character-filled wedding venue with beautiful photo backdrops and smooth event flow. Reviewers praise the attentive, professional staff and outstanding food from tasting to brunch. Guests appreciated comfortable rooms, helpful vendor recommendations, and stress-free coordination.

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The Flanders Hotel is a gorgeous, character-filled wedding venue with beautiful photo backdrops and smooth event flow. Reviewers praise the attentive, professional staff and outstanding food from tasting to brunch. Guests appreciated comfortable rooms, helpful vendor recommendations, and stress-free coordination.

Weddingwire
4.9/5 88 reviews
Google
4.4/5 892 reviews
Vanessa
Vanessa Sent on 06/26/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding was absolutely beautiful! I love the Flanders

I am very happy I chose the Flanders Hotel ! Service was amazing everyone that works there they are all friendly. Lisa and Megan thank you for everything!! The food was a amazing ! I got married on the beach in the evening it was absolutely stunning! I couldn't be more happier!!
Thank you all at the Flanders !!!
Passion
Passion Sent on 09/03/2026
5 out of 5 rating

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5 Stars!

Passion Vines Wine & Spirit Co truly loves working with this beautiful and unique venue! Every event feels special, and their team is always welcoming, professional, and a pleasure to work with. It’s wonderful to partner with a venue that puts so much care into creating memorable experiences for their couples and guests. We’re grateful for the opportunity to provide custom-curated bar orders for their weddings and special events and look forward to being part of many more celebrations here!
Kristofor
Kristofor Sent on 05/31/2026
5 out of 5 rating

This is the place to have your wedding!

Let me start off by saying that my wife, my stepdaughter, my family, and i vacation here over the summer. My wife and I decided to see what the Flanders were going to offer us. We meet with Lisa and did a walk around the ballroom and garden room. Lisa made us feel so welcomed and explained our options and answered our questions. We immediately booked our destination wedding which occurred on May 23,2026. All our family and friend reside in Brooklyn, Queens, Staten Island, Manhattan, Long Island, and New Jersey. Lisa and Molly began to help us find vendors by providing us with a vendor list. We chose everything from their list, and we were very happy with their vendor list. We booked a block of rooms for our family and friends. Lisa and Molly kept in contact with us the entire time. We went down for a food tasting, and we knew this wedding was going to be amazing. We meet the chef and maître d who will be taking care of us. The food was amazing. The room was set up perfectly. Our cocktail hour was great. There was plenty of staff on hand to make out wedding amazing. Lisa and Molly were both honest, professional, caring, and overall friendly. They answered the million emails I sent them, took my phone calls, and helped us from day one till the ending of our wedding weekend with the brunch. The wedding party went on without any hitches or issues. Our guests spoke about how wonderful and attentive the staff was, how beautiful and clean the ballroom was, how clean the bathrooms were, and how amazing the food was. We had plenty of space for dancing, a photobooth, rolling bar, coffee station, and seating for our guests. The food was served at a good pace and served hot. I did not feel rushed at all. When the night was over, the staff packed everything up for us and transported it to our room. The next morning, we hosted a brunch. The staff was so attentive at the brunch. All the breakfast food was so good. They cleared plates and continued to bring out more breakfast items during the whole time. Lisa was with us on the night of the wedding and at the brunch the next day. I have to say, we were so pleased with Lisa and her staff and the Flanders. If you’re looking for a nice, easy going, fun wedding, you need to book here.
Nicolette
Nicolette Sent on 05/26/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Flanders Gave us Our Dream Wedding!

We were absolutely blown away by our wedding at The Flanders Hotel. From the grandeur of the hotel, to the charm of the boardwalk, and a perfect beach ceremony - hosting the wedding at The Flanders gave us a little bit of every aesthetic we were hoping for our wedding. I cannot express enough how incredible their staff is! Lisa and Molly were helpful every step of the way! From giving us ideas to personalize our wedding to helping coordinate the walking down the aisle! There are a million reasons we would do our wedding all over again - and being able to work closely with them and be at this gem of a venue is high up on the list! The food was exceptional! All of our guests said it was the best food at a wedding they ever experienced. From spoiling us with several options to 5 star dinner entree meals - our bellies were not disappointed! The rooms were sensational - the hotel hosted several of our guests for the wedding and we heard no complaints. We also rented out one of the Penthouse suites for our getting ready day and it was stunning. The perfect amount of space - and unbelievable decor. We also used so many of their preferred vendors and again - blown away by every single detail. I could honestly go on and on and on about how this venue was the perfect choice for a wedding! I hope you do choose the Flanders and have as spectacular an event as we did!
M
Melanie Sent on 06/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The best team

We had our wedding at the Flanders, and they did an incredible job! The hotel is a gorgeous venue for weddings, and from our first tour it stood out as a unique location that would look great in our photos. The food was excellent; we especially enjoyed the dim sum station at our cocktail hour. Our guests gave rave reviews about their meals.

Lisa and Molly were great coordinators who assured us throughout the whole planning process that everything would go smoothly - and then made it happen! Being an obsessive planner myself, and doing all my decorations myself, I put together a binder of my plans for how each piece should be displayed. Lisa and Molly took that with grace, asked questions where needed, and made it happen!

Joanne was an amazing maitre d' who anticipated our every need. She ensured that the day went perfectly, starting with the moment we walked down the aisle and she gave us some hints for scoring the best photos. She had also clearly read our binder. I was especially impressed when we came out of our ceremony and she had a platter of drinks ready for us and our wedding party while the marriage certificates were being signed. She was able to make a lighting change in one of our decorations happen while we were decompressing after the ceremony. During our Farewell Breakfast the next day, she coordinated packing away our homemade decorations, allowing us to enjoy the event without stress.

Overall, the day went perfectly. It really is true that the best-laid plans will only succeed with a good team, and I feel strongly that we made an excellent choice in trusting this team for our wedding.
Beth
Beth Sent on 11/19/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The wedding of my daughter's dreams, exceeding all our expectations!

This past weekend we held my daughter's wedding and post wedding breakfast at the Flanders Hotel in Ocean City, NJ. It had been a dream of hers since she was 13 years old to get married there. From our initial visit to view the venue to the last drop of mimosa at the wedding breakfast, our experience was top notch! Lisa, Molly, Joanne and the rest of the team made this wedding a dream. The attention to detail, the seamless flow, the service, the food...I can't say enough good things. They thought of things that didn't even cross my mind and would have been a shame to have forgotten. My daughter and I got to enjoy the weekend, knowing that we weren't going to have to do or worry about anything. We also took advantage of the onsite salon and spa. Amy, Heather and Judy were so nice and helpful. I got my makeup done at 7am and it was still flawless when I washed it off at midnight. My hair held up too despite being out in the wind on the boardwalk for photos! If you are planning to get married in Ocean City, NJ, the only place to hold your event is at the Flanders!
Brittany
Brittany Sent on 11/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect venue!

I am so happy that we chose The Flanders Hotel. When we first visited, we instantly fell in love with the charm and character of the hotel and the event rooms.. but we were quick to realize that the staff, service, and culinary team is what makes this venue so special. Everyone is warm and inviting, the food is absolutely amazing, and the service is fantastic. Lisa and Molly were quick to respond, so helpful, and honestly felt like family from the beginning of planning until even after the big day. Joann is exceptional and made sure we were well taken care of. Highly highly recommend!
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Alyssa Sent on 06/16/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The most perfect day

My husband and I got married at the Flanders on 6/1/24. I cannot even begin to explain how truly amazing the staff at the Flanders were for our special day. Lisa, Molly, and JoAnn did an OUTSTANDING job to make our day literally PERFECT! Everything was basically flawless from start to finish- the tasting, the communication back and forth, dance lessons from Lisa. If you want an elegant vibe at the shore, this is truly the place to be!!!! We love you guys! Love, Alyssa, Ben, and Lola :)
Rachael
Rachael Sent on 08/13/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Thank yourself later

Lisa and Megan were my rock through the wedding planning process. I was planning from out of state and from our first meeting I knew they had it all under control. There are too many details to even count where they took care of us and made our wedding day perfect. Everything was very structured, which I appreciated. They had decor you can use if you’d prefer. The service, the food, the environment was above what we were expecting. Flanders will always have a special place in our hearts now.
C
Claudia Sent on 06/17/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Venue

Our wedding at The Flanders was amazing! From our initial meeting to the last dance, everything flowed smoothly. Lisa and Megan made the whole process seem easy. From our wedding ceremony to the cocktail hour and reception everything flowed seamlessly. Working with Lisa was like having a close friend plan our wedding. She genuinely cared about every detail no matter how small. We received so many compliments on the food! We chose the Asian station for the cocktail hour and it was a huge hit! The meals were delicious and our guests raved about the fun and yummy Taste of the Boardwalk. Our guests were impressed with the service and attentiveness of the staff. Lisa and Megan worked with our vendors to make sure our special day was perfect. They handled all of the small details that I thought we would have to handle ourselves. We truly felt like we were in the best hands and The Flanders definitely delivered. More than one guest told us ours was the best wedding they had ever attended. We felt the same! We highly recommend The Flanders as a top-notch wedding venue. Thank you for a beautiful and perfect wedding!
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An excellent venue. Always a pleasure working with Karen and her staff. You are in good hands at the Flanders. Get ready for the wedding of your dreams.

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The Flanders is one of our favorite venues to photograph weddings. The ballroom is the most elegant and sophisticated reception locations at the Jersey shore.

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The Flanders Hotel frequently asked questions

The Flanders Hotel includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Flanders Hotel includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at The Flanders Hotel includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
The space offered by The Flanders Hotel for wedding events is known for:
  • Banquet Hall
  • Historic Building
  • Hotel
The Flanders Hotel offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Flanders Hotel offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Flanders Hotel offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Outside Vendors
  • Wifi
The Flanders Hotel offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Chairs
  • Chair Covers
  • Dance Floor
  • Tables
The Flanders Hotel is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in average response time, 4.9 in flexibility, 4.9 in professionalism and 4.9 in value.
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