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The Chalfonte Hotel is a historic wedding venue located in Cape May, New Jersey. This traditional, seaside hotel is truly a unique hotel that offers both charm and a simplistic ambience for their guests.

Facilities and Capacity
The Chalfonte Hotel offers three different indoor, covered outdoor, and uncovered outdoor event spaces. The Secret Garden is great for an outdoor ceremony, and the Grand Magnolia Room sets the perfect setting for all the dancing at the reception. The ballroom can seat up to 175 people and accommodate up to 250 people using the entire first floor of the hotel.

Services Offered
The Chalfonte Hotel offers their services and spaces for couples with any budget. The complimentary on-site wedding coordinator is so excited to help you throughout the wedding planning process, as well as on your wedding day. Wedding event services offered include the following:

  • Setup
  • Cleanup
  • Event planner
  • Event rentals
  • Get-ready rooms
  • Liability insurance

Cuisine
The Chalfonte Hotel offers a full bar service that includes an open bar with house liquor, house wine, and a signature drink. The Magnolia Room Restaurant is an on-site restaurant that serves different Southern fare that has been prepared through family recipes by the third generation of Dickerson women. The King Edward Bar is the on-site bar that is known for its classic cocktails and casual ambience.

Accommodation
The Chalfonte Hotel offers 70 beautiful and spacious suites and guest rooms for you and your wedding guests to enjoy. These rooms are styled with premium and European baths. The traditional rooms have shared bathrooms down the hall. The rooms feature crisp linens and cool seaside colors. To further create a relaxing experience, this hotel is television, telephone, and clock radio-free. Back in 2009, the hotel was renovated to add more than 30 private bathrooms along with central air conditioning.

History
The Chalfonte Hotel was first established in 1876 and has since been recognized as the oldest original hotel in Cape May. This hotel was first built by a Civil War hero from the North before a Virginia family turned it into the quintessential Southern retreat. People shared their stories of this remarkable hotel and created a book that can be purchased through the venue’s website.

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$1,000

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$200

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$200

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Server(s)

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$38

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar
Signature Drink

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

3

Describe your venue:

Beach
Historic Building
Hotel

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance

What event items are available?

Chairs
Dance Floor
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September
October

Reviews of The Chalfonte Hotel

Mary
Mary Sent on 09/27/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Dream Team for a Dream Day!!

I don’t know where to begin—Ellie and the rest of the amazing Chalfonte team gave us the wedding day of our dreams! From inquiring with Ellie a year before our wedding up until the day of, Ellie was there for us, answered every question thoughtfully and made us feel seen and taken care of throughout the whole process. We did a family style menu and everyone loved it. Our guests were RAVING about the food especially the fried chicken!! We only had a few guests with dietary restrictions who sought us out to tell us how impressed they were with their meals! Shoutout to the chef and kitchen crew—you guys rock. Above all, everyone who works at The Chalfonte was incredibly kind and went above and beyond for us. The drinks were an absolute hit. Our guests loved them and the bartenders who served them up!! The cocktail hour on the porch was beautiful and we heard from so many guests how much they loved it! We had an eight piece band that fit perfectly in the reception space, plenty of room for dancing, eating and talking. Front desk crew—Maddie, Maggie, Alexis and co. were so wonderful to us and all of our friends and family. The Chalfonte is a special place. We are immensely grateful to everyone there. We look forward to the days when we get to go back and visit! Amazing team!!!
Jamie
Jamie Sent on 05/31/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Aesthetically beautiful + walking distance to everything

We have been coming to the Chalfont for years. The staff is so friendly and the rooms are always clean. It's so aesthetically beautiful that we decided to elope there this spring! Everything was more perfect then we could have imagined! It's located with a walking distance to downtown shopping, great resturants, and the beach. We highly recommend it!
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Adrienne Sent on 02/23/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Best Value in Cape May

We had our wedding reception at the Chalfont on July 1, 2018 which was a Sunday in the afternoon. They were great and very helpful with the whole process. They were very flexible with the menu which was helpful because we are vegetarians and we wanted a vegetarian buffet. They worked with Peace Pie to coordinate our desert choice (we didn’t have cake). They helped our DJ and our cocktail hour musician set up. We really couldn’t have asked for more. If we were to do it again, we’d choose the Chalfonte. All of our guests loved it and many stayed there on the hotel. It is such a special venue for a wedding.

May husband thought the Chalfonte was better than he could have imagined. The staff was exceptional and the ambiance was really special. The staff and Terry, the wedding coordinator, were the best.
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Erin Sent on 07/13/2018
5 out of 5 rating
Our 5/5/18 wedding at the Chalfonte was a blast! We were sold on the history and character of the hotel, and Terry and her staff really delivered on the rest. Terry was a breeze to work with - her even-keeled manner was very reassuring leading up to and on the day of the event. She was great about recommending different options and flexible with our special requests. And in addition, she made all the right decisions when we didn’t know what to do (like where to put all the random decorations and homemade desserts that kept multiplying in the days leading up to the event). Our guests raved about the charm of the venue and the food was great, too. And if you’re on the fence about the post wedding breakfast, go for it. It was an unexpected highlight for us - both for the amazing spread of delicious food and the chance to recap with friends and family about how great the wedding was.
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Amy Sent on 10/31/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Our wedding at the Chalfonte was perfect! I live abroad and had to schedule appointments around my trips to the States in the months leading up to the wedding. Terry Carr was always available and willing to accommodate, even in the middle of winter when the hotel was closed! Terry was extremely helpful throughout the whole process and took care of details like ordering special wine to accompany dinner and having the servers pass out chocolate covered strawberries after the cake was cut. She coordinated with our various vendors and month-of planner and we did not have to worry about anything except enjoying our day. My Italian fiancé and his family were very impressed with the service and the food, which says it all, as Italians have very high standards! The appetizers were delicious, as were the entrees. Everything was plentiful and no one went home hungry. The venue is perfect, from the front porch for cocktail hour, to the beautiful dining room. The Chalfonte will always be a special place for us!
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Mimi Sent on 08/04/2017
5 out of 5 rating
The Chalfonte Hotel was the absolute perfect location for our wedding reception. The staff was incredibly helpful, enthusiastic and accommodating! From the cocktail hour on the porch to the amazing sit-down dinner to the last dance- the night was perfect. I couldn't have asked for anything more. I highly recommend the Chalfonte!!
Emily
Emily Sent on 10/11/2016
5 out of 5 rating
What an unforgettable day!!! The Chalfonte was the first and only venue we looked at and I immediately fell in love. It's not your typical wedding venue, it's a trip back in time. I cannot rave enough about how beautiful the property is! The wedding coordinator, Terry is AMAZING! Most of our planning was done through emails and we met a few times to discuss details. She was always quick to answer all of my questions. I knew that my day would go smoothly because of her (and it did!) We DIY-ed most of our wedding so we brought down a ton of decorations and flowers! They gave us a spare room where we were able to store everything and work on our floral arrangements. We had a few friends and family who stayed at the hotel and it was so nice to sit on the porch in the rocking chairs and take in the whole weekend. My husband and I got married at the Chalfonte on a beautiful Sunday evening. We were married in the backyard under the willow tree. The yard looks small, but it was able to fit all of our 92 guests (and there was still room!). It was such an intimate and lovely ceremony. The weather was perfect, and the sun was out all day. The hotel is so close to the beach that we were able to walk down for a few pictures. The reception took place in the Magnolia room and everything was decorated just as I imagined!! There was honestly not one thing wrong about the whole day. After the wedding, a bunch of our friends and family went into the King Edward Bar and mingled with some of the guests there and had a few drinks before heading to bed. It was honestly a weekend that I will never forget. Many of our guests are still talking about how wonderful the wedding was. My husband and I are already planning to come back next year and we plan to make it a yearly trip. Thank you so much Terry and the rest of the staff at the Chalfonte. You gave us our dream wedding!
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Elaine Sent on 10/06/2015
5 out of 5 rating
We had the perfect wedding day, with thanks to Terry and the staff at the Chalfonte. We were the 1st of 2 weddings that day, but you would have thought we were the only one because of the attention they paid to us. Terry took my directions for decor, and delivered spot on. Because of the weather, we had to go with Plan B for the ceremony (inside instead of outside). Everything ran so smoothly and our guests raved about the beauty of the building, the excellent service and the amazing food.

Thank you to everyone at the Chalfonte for a perfect day.
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Lynley Sent on 08/03/2015
5 out of 5 rating
If you are looking for a classic Cape May, NJ wedding venue, this is it! Terry, the wedding coordinator is truly amazing at what she does and will take care of every tiny detail with the greatest of care. I was planning my wedding from Missouri so I really cannot thank Terry enough for all her help. We used their courtyard area for our ceremony and it was gorgeous! It had the perfect amount of privacy and fit our group of 75 easily. We then had a cocktail hour on the porches, which I can not say enough good things about. Some of my favorite memories from our wedding were spent on the huge porches, chatting on the rocking chairs. Also, the food was absolutely outstanding! Guests couldn't stop raving about the crab cakes and mini filet minion at dinner and all the wonderful appetizers. The Chalfonte is also one of the most reasonably priced venues on the island for all that it includes. Just Terry, the wedding coordinator, alone is worth it! I would highly recommend the Chalfonte Hotel! You cannot find a more quintessential Cape May venue!
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D Sent on 05/14/2015
5 out of 5 rating
I grew up going to Cape May and I always knew that I would have my wedding there. When it was time to look for a location, there was no question that The Chalfonte Hotel was THE BEST option. The hotel is the oldest and Cape May and has so much character and charm. The space itself is so beautiful, that there is really little need to no need for decorations to make your wedding feel special. Terri, the Wedding Coordinator, was amazing! She was so incredibly patient with me and my husband and took the time to answer ALL of my questions, even if I asked the same questions 15 times. She is so sweet, as is all the staff there. And the food is TO DIE FOR!! All our guests left saying how beautiful the wedding was, but also how delicious the food was. The appetizers during cocktail hour were perfect and for dinner the fried chicken was THE BEST!! The kitchen actually ran out of chicken at the end of the night because all our guests who ordered fish saw the fried chicken come out and asked to change their order. Both dishes and all the food was delicious and the whole night was absolutely perfect!

I not only do I highly recommend The Chalfonte Hotel for anyone's wedding in Cape May, but I also promise you that it will be an absolutely magical and charming night that you and your guests will never forget!
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The Chalfonte Hotel frequently asked questions

The Chalfonte Hotel includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Chalfonte Hotel includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at The Chalfonte Hotel includes:
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Open Bar
  • Signature Drink
The space offered by The Chalfonte Hotel for wedding events is known for:
  • Beach
  • Historic Building
  • Hotel
The Chalfonte Hotel offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Chalfonte Hotel offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
The Chalfonte Hotel offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Liability Insurance
The Chalfonte Hotel offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Tables
The Chalfonte Hotel is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in flexibility, 4.9 in professionalism, 4.9 in value and 4.8 in average response time.
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