Preparing for marriage
First, notify the parish.

Most couples reserve a reception location as much as a year in advance. Before that is done, or contract with a photographer, or think about invitations, or make any other agreements, you need to talk to the deacon at Saint John Vianney. Archdiocesan guidelines for marriage preparation requires at least six months for completing the engagement program. Couples who may require a degree of invalidity for previous marriages should make no plans until they have contacted the parish.

Having contacted the parish, the formal process of marriage preparation begins.

Preparation for marriage involves a process of discernment. This is meant to be an affirming experience as the couple becomes aware of its readiness to enter Christian married life. The process is meant to help the couple assess personal faith and relational readiness. The exercise is not to make judgments for or about the couple.

The pastor at Saint John Vianney Parish has the responsibility for marriage preparation. If another priest or deacon will witness the marriage (for instance, a campus minister or relative), the pastor can seek the necessary delegation for that; coordinate the preparation process and provide other information and counsel.