Full disclosure: El from Soulful Connections is the parent of a friend of mine from highschool. That said, I looked at other officiants before finally settling on Eli for sure. She's kind, courteous, thoughtful, and more than willing to tailor the ceremony to your exact wishes. She was totally happy to take the readings we provided and suggested more when we asked. She was nonjudgemental and extremely supportive. She doesn't ad-lib and gives the ceremony exactly as described in the plan you and she create together, so you know in advance what's going to be said and don't have to worry at all about impromptu sermons/anecdotes. Nothing was hidden from us. She handled the ceremony with a calm grace that really helped settle me down, honestly, and guided us expertly through the legal/paperwork part of the marriage, as well. She's great!