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My Weddings YOUR Way is a wedding officiant in Charleston, South Carolina. As the name suggests, this wedding officiant aims to create the customized wedding of your dreams. Licensed and ordained wedding officiant Melanie Murray has over 13 years of experience and is adaptable to a variety of ceremony styles, sizes, and needs. No matter the location of your ceremony, from atop a mountain to your own back garden, My Weddings YOUR Way would be honored to provide their services.

Services Offered
Melanie Murray of My Weddings YOUR Way can perform vow renewals, rehearsals, civil unions, non-religious, single religion, and interfaith ceremonies. She can perform ceremonies for a variety of faiths and accommodate the special details you desire to make your ceremony authentic to your relationship. Multiple ceremony options are offered to you with the goal of customizing the vows and overall ceremony to your vision. Ceremonies can include elements such as the unity candle, sand ceremony, and special inclusion of children. Ask her about her There Questions that will make your ceremony the most memorable one your guests have attended.

What You'll Love About My Weddings YOUR Way

Couples agree: YOUR way really does mean YOUR way! Melanie is a dream to work with! She is super friendly and will go above and beyond to ensure you feel special and enjoy a ceremony worthy of your love! Check out the glowing reviews by couples who are delighted they made My Weddings YOUR Way part of THEIR special day!

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$425

Which of the following are included in the price?

Ceremony Rehearsal

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$300

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$125

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$100

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
VA
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviews of My Weddings YOUR Way

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Karen
Karen B. Sent on 09/11/2023
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Mr. Ron Collins & Mrs. Karen Britton

Patti was super and Very welcoming to us into her home to Officiate Our Special Wedding Day! She was Amazing for doing everything we asked for! She takes beautiful pictures and helps stage everything just right! She is so easy to talk to and responds to all phone calls and texts very quickly! We are so Happy we Chose Her! We can't say enough Wonderful and unique things that she helped us with to make our special day even More Special! Thank You Patti :) You are a real Angel
Brandi
Brandi W. Sent on 10/17/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Melanie is a rock star!

Melanie was terrific to work with. Her three question process was so fun and added such a nice, intimate touch to the ceremony. Her process helped my husband and I feel less nervous about exchanging our vows in front of a crowd, and made us excited to know what the other had said. She coordinated a ceremony that expressed our love perfectly. 10/10 would recommend to any couple!
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Kathryn E. Sent on 04/29/2021
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Perfect!!!

Melanie is amazing! my partner and i have been trying to get married for some time but have had trouble with our license. i reached out to melanie only two days before and she was very response and incredibly flexible. due to covid and military we only did just my partner and i and we met melanie and she made it feel so special for us despite it being just the two of us. I highly recommend her and would love to use her again for a larger wedding
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Professional Network & Endorsements

5 Endorsements
Lowcountry Entertainment Lowcountry Entertainment Wedding DJs

If you are looking for that professional and personal touch for your wedding, Melanie is the officiant for you. As a vendor, I always appreciate other vendors that are passionate about what they do. It is always always a pleasure to work with her and I can breathe a little easier knowing that the ceremony will go off without a hitch (no pun intended...ok, maybe it was :)).

Sharon K. Hyatt Sharon K. Hyatt Wedding Officiants

Melanie is someone you will know becomes a part of your family and friends. She puts her heart and soul into writing your ceremony, getting to know you, and performing a ceremony that you have dreamed of your entire life. Professional, personable, caring and a huge heart. Look no further. Check her out today.

Charleston's Sundance Dj's Charleston's Sundance Dj's Wedding DJs

This Past Weekend I had the rewarding pleasure of working with My Weddings Your Way. Melanie Murry, The wedding officiant was a joy to work with. This was a large event and she had everything well under control. She was always one step ahead, well prepared, and provided a smooth transition between each event. The Bride and Groom as well as our company truly appreciated her well defined and organized planning and expertise..You just could'nt ask for a better planner anywhere..

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