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Cassandra Van is a professional ‘wedding vow helper’. She is the owner and creator of Love Your Vows, an online wedding vow and speech writing service that helps couples reveal their own unique, vibrant love story.

Why do we exchange vows? Because when we come to find love in each other, we want to shout it from the rooftops! We want to express the depths of our love, eliciting heartfelt smiles and tears of joy. A wedding is a magical day where we join with family and friends and express everything inside our hearts.

As a professional wedding vow writer, Cassandra understands the importance of composing meaningful vows for one’s wedding day, in the tone that matches a couple’s individual style. Vows with personality. She works in collaboration with couples remotely, empowering them to put their hearts into words.

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Whether you’ve written a rough draft or are drawing a blank, Cassandra will help you put the right words to your thoughts and emotions. Through an in-depth questionnaire, she’ll learn about you and your fiancé, and then craft wedding vows you’ll love (almost) as much as your significant other.

Cassandra can also write wedding party speeches, toasts, and engagement speeches. At this time, she does not offer officiant services, only help with vows and other wedding speeches.

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Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

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Sam P. Married on 11/21/2021
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Couldn't have done it better

Cassandra did a wonderful job helping me and my wife take our thoughts and shaping them into a coherent and moving set of wedding vows. I hate to admit it but I cried when I read them. If you need your vows written, she’s the best !!
Ashley Married on 08/21/2021
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My Fiance/Husband Love My Vows

Cassandra was so great to work with. Plus, she stole the words right out of my mouth! I couldn't have asked for a better representation for how I feel about my significant other. Highly recommended. Super quick delivery too!
Scott W. Married on 07/17/2021
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Very concise, great vows

Cassandra really condensed all of the things I had to say to a very constructive and concise amount of words. They're perfect and I can't wait to read this in two weeks in front of people! Thank you!
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Cassandra Van Valkenburg
Cassandra Van Valkenburg
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Are words on the tip of your tongue but your brain won't put them into written language? That's why I'm here! I'm that help-you-say-what-you're-trying-to-say kind of gal. I've loved writing ever since I learned how, and I'm passionate about helping brides and grooms express everything that's in their hearts.

My education includes a BA in English, and I've worked as a professional copywriter and freelance editor for many years. I fell in love with vow writing when I helped a friend with hers the day before the wedding. I saved her from a nervous breakdown AND she absolutely adored her vows.


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