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Insignia Steakhouse is a unique wedding venue located in Smithtown, Long Island. Insignia is a premier venue by Anthony Scotto that has combined the look and feel of a mansion in The Hamptons with a chic and upscale Manhattan restaurant, making it the perfect setting to host your dream wedding. The dedicated event team has turned creating special events into an art form. On your special day, they will go above and beyond to turn all of your wedding day dreams into a reality.

Facilities and Capacity

Insignia Steakhouse can accommodate up to 300 wedding guests in its indoor and outdoor event spaces. The venue's upscale event locations feature modern and elegant decor that is unlike your typical wedding hall. The dramatic red wine cellar is an amazing space to take photographs on your special day, and it overlooks the restaurant’s spacious dance floor. Cocktail hours are held at the venue’s grand bar and Hamptons-inspired outdoor lounge.

Services Offered

At Insignia Steakhouse, couples have exclusive access to the entire mansion on their wedding day, as the venue only hosts one event per day. The venue is available for hosting bridal showers, engagement parties, wedding receptions, and ceremonies. Couples who choose to host their wedding at this venue will work with their very own wedding coordinator who will assist them with their every need on their special day. The professional event and catering staff will take care of setup and cleanup before, during, and after your wedding concludes. Parking and valet service is available to couples and their guests, which is a wheelchair-accessible restaurant.

Cuisine

The team offers in-house catering and bartending services to couples on their wedding day. The talented chefs prepare delicious cuisine that will surely delight every palate on your special day as they use only the finest ingredients and flavors in each of the meals they create. The restaurant provides barware, flatware, glassware, linens, and china during the events they host.

FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$1,000

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Lighting/Sound
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink

Describe your venue:

Mansion
Restaurant
Winery

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Clean Up
Event Planner

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
November
December

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Reviews of Insignia Steakhouse

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Insignia Steakhouse in Smithtown stands out as an exceptional wedding venue according to numerous rave reviews. The attentive and professional staff, particularly coordinator Mirela, received high praise for seamlessly executing weddings, from setup to service. Guests were delighted with the delicious cocktail hour options, main courses, and overall high-class food quality. The venue's stunning interior, attentive staff anticipating guests' needs, and flawless execution of events made it a dream wedding location that exceeded expectations and left a lasting impression on all who attended.

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Insignia Steakhouse in Smithtown stands out as an exceptional wedding venue according to numerous rave reviews. The attentive and professional staff, particularly coordinator Mirela, received high praise for seamlessly executing weddings, from setup to service. Guests were delighted with the delicious cocktail hour options, main courses, and overall high-class food quality. The venue's stunning interior, attentive staff anticipating guests' needs, and flawless execution of events made it a dream wedding location that exceeded expectations and left a lasting impression on all who attended.

Weddingwire
5.0/5 141 reviews
Google
4.5/5 2280 reviews
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Nicolette Sent on 10/01/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Best wedding venue

Our wedding at Insignia was nothing short of incredible. From the moment we started working with Mirela, the staff went above and beyond to make sure every detail was perfect. They were so accommodating, attentive, and genuinely cared about making the day special for us.
The ceremony itself was absolutely beautiful, and the transition into cocktail hour and reception was seamless. The layout of the cocktail hour space was fantastic—our guests loved being able to enjoy the full bar and mingle comfortably throughout the area.
And the food… simply outstanding. Our friends and family have not stopped raving about how delicious everything was, from the passed hors d’oeuvres to the main courses. It truly exceeded expectations and left a lasting impression on everyone.
We couldn’t be happier with our decision to celebrate at Insignia. If you’re looking for a wedding venue that combines elegance, amazing food, and an incredible staff, look no further.
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Alyson Sent on 02/13/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Alyson&Jeremy 2/8/26


Having our wedding at Insignia was easily the best decision we made. Mirela and her team are the best of the best. Every single person involved in the day was attentive, professional and truly made for a seamless wedding day. Not a single thing went wrong and if it did, We would’ve never known! The drinks were strong and flowing all day. The torched bacon bar and sushi platters are a must have during cocktail hour. The food was absolutely amazing, Our guests keep talking about it. Mirela and her team even packed up our leftovers to take with us to our mini moon. The venue itself is absolutely stunning. Its dark and moody interior makes for the best romantic atmosphere. You would’ve never known that our wedding was during the day. I wish we could re live our wedding day over and over again. Thank you so much to every single staff member at Insignia who made the day what it was! We are truly grateful!
Barbara
Barbara Sent on 02/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Top Notch Wedding Venue! ❤️

If you are looking for a venue that combines stunning beauty with stress-free planning, Insignia Steakhouse in Smithtown is it! We hosted 125 guests, and the layout was perfect, allowing for a seamless transition from the ceremony to the reception. The staff is incredibly attentive—they anticipated needs before we even had them! A special shout-out to “MIRELA” for coordinating with our vendors! She was there every step of the way, supporting us from the ceremony to the very end of our reception. Mirela was kind enough to hand me my lipstick when I needed it, too lol!
The food was incredible, and our guests are still raving about the high-class selection, decor, & the smooth transition from the wedding ceremony to the cocktail hour to the reception room!
Choosing this venue was the best decision we made!!!!! FIVE-STAR wedding venue ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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Cassandra Sent on 12/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Baldine wedding

Mirela and the Insignia team were absolutely amazing! From the moment we booked our date Mirela was absolutely fantastic. Any questions we had were answered, she was very attentive to every single thing down to the menu colors. Our wedding day was absolutely perfect in every single way! There were no mistakes at all! She brought my vision to life! All my guests are still raving about how fantastic the food was and how beautiful of a venue it was! Absolutely recommend!! Frankie at Top Tier entertainment was absolutely fantastic and had the party on the dance floor all night.
Brittany
Brittany Sent on 10/23/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Insignia Wedding

We had our wedding at Insignia, and it was truly the most incredible experience from start to finish. From the very first meeting, our maître d’, Mirela, was an absolute joy to work with. She immediately understood my vision, every detail, every vibe, every moment I pictured — and somehow made it all come to life even better than I imagined. She was attentive, kind, and so organized throughout the entire process. Mirela made everything feel effortless and stress-free, which is exactly what every bride hopes for.

The day of the wedding could not have gone smoother. Every transition, from the ceremony to cocktail hour to dinner and dancing was seamless. The staff was on top of everything before I even had to ask. The food was outstanding; our guests are still talking about how delicious and beautifully presented everything was. The drinks were flowing, the atmosphere was perfect, and the service was top-notch from start to finish.

The entire team at Insignia went above and beyond to make our day special, but Mirela truly stood out as someone who cared deeply about making our wedding perfect. Her warmth, professionalism, and eye for detail made all the difference.

If you are looking for a wedding venue that combines elegance, amazing food, and exceptional service — look no further than Insignia. They exceeded every expectation we had and made our wedding day absolutely unforgettable!
Sally
Sally Sent on 10/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing venue

This is an amazing venue to have a wedding. Mirela was amazing and the whole process was so smooth. She is very prompt to answer any questions I had. Most guests spoke about how amazing the food was. That definitely was a highlight of the evening. I was so happy with our experience we had! I definitely recommend 😊
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Amber Sent on 10/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

An Exquisite Experience

Choosing to have our wedding at Insignia Steakhouse was one of the smartest decisions we have ever made. Every single aspect of the day was perfect, and that was due to the attentiveness, professionalism, and skill of the Insignia staff. I was thrilled to arrive at the venue and see everything set up exactly as I imagined, and every moment— from our beautiful ceremony on the terrace to the final song of the reception— was executed flawlessly. The staff knows exactly what they are doing and they do it exceptionally well.

When it comes to the food, every single guest had rave reviews for it and the majority of them said it was not only the best *wedding* food, but the best *food* they have ever eaten. And we agree! The specific hits of the day were the torched bacon station, the Chilean sea bass, and the creamed spinach.

We also have to give a specific shoutout to our head server for the day, Anna, who was attentive and lovely and ensured we did not want for anything. And of course none of this would have been possible without Mirela, who was with us every step of the way and made the entire planning process so easy. She is amazing at her job and we are so lucky to have had her on our side ensuring everything went smoothly on our special day.

Ultimately, we cannot sing enough praises for the entire Insignia team. Five stars all around!
Diana
Diana Sent on 07/24/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The most perfect day❤️

🌟 A Dream Wedding Come True – Thanks to an Incredible Venue ! 🌟 From the moment we first visited this venue, we knew it was something special—but nothing could have prepared us for how truly magical our wedding day turned out to be. The setting was stunning, the staff was warm and attentive, and everything came together more beautifully than we ever imagined. But what truly set this experience apart was Mirela. From our very first conversation, she was a calming, reassuring presence—organized, passionate, and genuinely invested in making our day perfect. Mirela went above and beyond in every way imaginable. She anticipated every detail, handled every challenge with grace, and made us feel like we were her top priority at all times. She coordinated seamlessly with our vendors, made sure our timeline stayed on track, and even took the time to check in with us personally throughout the night to make sure we were enjoying ourselves. Her thoughtfulness, professionalism, and heart made such a difference—not only to us, but to our entire family and wedding party. We’ve had countless guests tell us it was one of the most beautiful and well-organized weddings they’ve ever attended—and we owe so much of that to Mirela and the incredible team behind the scenes. If you’re looking for a venue that combines breathtaking beauty with world-class service, look no further. And if you’re lucky enough to work with Mirela, know that you are in the best possible hands. 💍✨ Forever grateful, Mr. & Mrs. Otar ❤️
Barbara
Barbara Sent on 06/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Insignia Steakhouse & Sushi Smithtown

Insignia Steak House and Sushi in Smithtown is a five-star restaurant and wedding venue! My husband and I just had our wedding there on June 14, 2025, and we cannot begin to explain how amazing our wedding was!!!! The way they transformed the restaurant was magical. Food was delicious, as always!!! Mirela from Insignia was our wedding coordinator and planned everything for us; from their house photographer, North Island Photography *, their top-tier DJ service & the florist Fiori Florist. Everyone exceeded our expectations, and we were so elated when we saw the room set up for our wedding. I was in tears from when it started to when it ended. Mirela was there second to make sure everything was perfect. The tables were set and everyone was so happy!!!! I would love to give them 10 stars, not just the five on a wedding venue review. If you want to have your wedding, I would highly advise checking out Insignia in Smithtown and asking Mirela to speak with you about planning your special day!!!!! An absolute success!!!!! 🌟⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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Andrew Sent on 06/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

“This was the best wedding” was all we heard

Throughout the period of being engaged leading up to the wedding, people would ask constantly, “are you nervous?” The answer from both of us was always a resounding, “no!” I didn’t usually stop to reflect on why I wasn’t nervous, figuring that if I did, I would almost certainly find a reason to be. Now that the wedding is over, the reason was obvious, and that reason’s name is Mirela.

From the very first meeting with Insignia’s wedding coordinator Mirela, she instilled in us a sense that she had our backs at any turn. Anything to be thought of was accounted for. A wedding might be the event in life with the single most amount of moving parts. Between florists, music entertainment, bakers, decorators, photographers, videographers, officiant, etc…there’s so much to think about, and these are things with which most people (especially grooms like me) have no expertise. None of that mattered though because it was obvious that Mirela not only knew who to set us up with, but that also if we wanted to go in a different direction from any of her lineup of pros, that she would still be able to point us in the right direction of what to look for in a service provider. She is your first point of contact, she checks in with you periodically to make sure everything is going smoothly with the planning, and she’s on site during the wedding to make sure everything is now going exactly as according to plan.

When we first went looking for a wedding venue on Long Island, there were so many places we saw online, and the one that stood out was Insignia Steakhouse. I’m not sure anymore if it was having the mini-mansion to ourselves without a second wedding going on or the steak and sushi or what, but it was the first venue that we went to look at. As it turns out, it would be the only place we would go to look at. Of course the outside is beautiful, as was apparent in the online images, but walking through the large sets of double doors, you’re instantly gobsmacked by the long, decorous bar and the towering wine cellar, where the newlyweds are granted access for photo opportunities on the big day. There are beautiful outdoor areas, and they can easily accommodate an indoor or outdoor ceremony.

We were shown three menus of different price points, and your guests would be lucky to have any of them. We ended up going with the “middle menu,” but there was zero sense from us or our guests that this wasn’t the best food at a wedding that we’d ever had. That comment was the same from almost every departing guest at the end of the day, “I think this was the best food that I’ve ever had at a wedding.” Sometimes people talk up the newlyweds at that moment, but I knew they were being truthful because I felt the same way. As a personal anecdote, the flaming/torched bacon add-on was maybe my favorite food of the day. I know personally that I’d never been to a wedding with so many menu options. In addition to what is overtly listed on the menu, I had guests asking me questions leading up to the wedding about their needs for being gluten free or vegan or having a digestive system that can only practically tolerate plain pasta, and when I inquired about this, Mirela’s response was that Insignia can accommodate any dietary restrictions and that guests needed only to inform the waiters. Checking in with those with unique needs afterwards, this was verified to be true.

Getting hitched, everything went off without a hitch. A question I’ve received several times from both guests and well-wishers in the days since the wedding followed something of the form of, “there’s always something that goes wrong on your wedding day, even if it’s the tiniest thing. What was that thing for you?” As I sweep through the internal collage of warm and exciting memories, there are zero complaints to be found, and if you know me, I often leave the smallest parties I throw, kicking myself for a laundry list of dumb little things that could have gone better. And so, I guess that’s the magic of having the perfect wedding planner throw your wedding in the perfect wedding venue is that none of those things could go wrong. I sincerely look forward to returning to Insignia in a year for an anniversary dinner, and if I ever receive a wedding invitation to Insignia, even from the most estranged acquaintance, I will be canceling all plans to have the proper guest experience that I know my guests received beyond a shadow of a doubt.
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Insignia Steakhouse frequently asked questions

Insignia Steakhouse includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Lighting/Sound
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Insignia Steakhouse includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at Insignia Steakhouse includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Limited Bar
  • Open Bar
  • Premium Liquor
  • Signature Drink
The space offered by Insignia Steakhouse for wedding events is known for:
  • Mansion
  • Restaurant
  • Winery
Insignia Steakhouse offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Insignia Steakhouse offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Insignia Steakhouse offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
Insignia Steakhouse is recommended by 100% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 5.0, with the same score awarded for quality of service, flexibility, value, professionalism and average response time.
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