I believe a wedding ceremony is serious but does not have to be solemn
I've officiated over 50 heart centered weddings and have always received positive reflection from the bride & groom, their families and friends. I write as much or as little of the ceremony as you would like, always working in collaboration with your dreams and desires. If you want to write your own but need help with ideas, I give samples of ceremonies, passages, and readings for you to work with. I can also give many ideas for vows, but I do encourage that these vows of commitment be from your own hearts.
I will be delighted to speak with you to find out just what you want and if I am the one to provide it. See my website for more testimonials - http://heart-centered-weddings.com