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Weddings with Heart & Elope Bend

Weddings with Heart & Elope Bend

Bend, OR
4.9 out of 5 rating, 151 Reviews
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    Morgan G. Sent on 07/25/2024
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    A Beautiful Winter Wedding Thanks to Mary

    Mary is a sweet and caring officiant who made our wedding day truly special. Highly recommend! She puts so much heart and soul into her weddings. She is very grounding and comforting and easy to work with.
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    Katelyn G. Sent on 06/17/2024
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    Mary Ellen with Weddings with Heart & Elope Bend is the most idealistic officiant possible.

    Working with Mary Ellen was easy, fun, and thorough. I never felt alone or abandoned and my husband and I were able to edit and change and personalize our ceremony to perfect what Love meant to us. Mary Ellen was (is) personable, warm, comforting, and smart. She is quick to catch onto your personalities, your relationship, and she can pinpoint the special bits that make your relationship and marriage unique and brilliant. When, a few days before our elopement, a problem occurred with our destination, Mary Ellen helped us to figure it out with clear communication and a timely response. We never doubted that we would be taken care of. She brings joy and she brings laughter. We were truly lucky to have been married by her. She helped us to create a special ceremony that was entirely our own and something I will remember fondly forever. Thank you Mary Ellen!
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    Sharon G. Sent on 06/14/2024
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    For a perfect experience

    Mary Ellen was very prompt in all communication, explained the process expertly and gave us tons of options for vows, how the ceremony would be conducted, etc. On our wedding day she arrived exactly as planned and performed a beautiful ceremony for us. We would highly recommend!!
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    Miranda A. Sent on 03/07/2024
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    Wonderful!

    Mary Ellen was exceptional. She is incredibly knowledgeable and helped us curate vows that were perfect for us. She is a genuinely kind and delightful person and made our day special. Highly recommend using her services for your special day.
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    Lorie O. Sent on 10/20/2023
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    The perfect officiant!

    Mary Ellen Deckelman was the PERFECT officiant for our special day. We wanted to keep our ceremony personal to us. Mary Ellen spent time with us beforehand getting to know both of us & our relationship. She tailored our ceremony to our personal relationship and location..... It was magical. Thank you Mary Ellen!!! We wouldnt hesitate in recommending her for your special day.
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    Alyssa M. Sent on 09/08/2023
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    Great experience!

    We loved working with Mary Ellen to create our perfect ceremony. She really takes the time to get to know you as a couple, and is dedicated to making sure that your ceremony is exactly how you want it. The day of she was punctual, professional, and really made us feel comfortable. Would recommend Mary Ellen to any couples in Central Oregon looking for an officiant for their special day!
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    Kelsey A. Sent on 11/11/2022
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    Easy to Work With and Professional!

    We are super happy with Mary Ellen! She helped us make our ceremony exactly what we were looking for and offered templates so we had an idea of where to start. She was professional and easy to work with.
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    Natalie M. Sent on 11/13/2022
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    Amazing, fun and organized officiant

    We were so lucky to have Mary Ellen as our officiant during our summer wedding. She created a beautiful ceremony with us and helped organize us all at rehearsal and for the big day. We had no planners and I knew very little about weddings so she really came to our rescue when it came to the flow and details. We couldn't have asked for a better wedding officiant! Thank you Mary Ellen! -Spenser and Natalie
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    Maddy M. Sent on 11/03/2022
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    Easy to work with - No stressors

    Mary Ellen was awesome to work with! Personable, easygoing, and super genuine. We wanted a quick and simple ceremony and she provided awesome templates that we were able to customize and make special. All super easy! She is a pro and I didn't have to stress about working with our officiant at all.
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    Nina S. Sent on 05/09/2022
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    Amazing and professional

    We couldn’t be happier with Mary-Ellen! She helped us make our wedding day exactly what we wanted it to be. She was professional, fun and kind.
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    Bill L. Sent on 09/08/2023
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    Wonderful wedding ceremony

    It was a joy to work with ME on our wedding. In our case, we had a good idea of what we wanted and she respected all our wishes. She had a number of templates that helped us structure the ceremony. The ceremony itself was so romantic and meaningful to us. She honored our request that she maintain a limited role, but was really helpful in coordinating the ceremony. In particular, the musician was fully integrated into the ceremony, which added to making the day very special.
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    A O Sent on 05/05/2022
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    Mary Ellen is the bomb!

    From first interaction, ME showed compassion and expediency. Ready with excellent suggestions but not at all pushy. Short notice bilingual (Chinese/English) ceremony including a WeChat broadcast for family in PRC. Coordinated interpreter (delightful young lady as well). Presented a delightful ceremony. You must hire Mary Ellen!
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    Bruce S. Sent on 10/06/2020
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    Wonderful Wedding

    We wanted something really simple, we planned everything remotely from Chicago, MaryEllen was fantastic, very experienced and tailored everything to what we wanted. Highly Recommend!!
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    Amy T. Sent on 11/10/2020
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    Wonderful Officiant for Our Lakeside Micro-Wedding

    Mary Ellen was a perfect choice to officiate our hike-in ceremony. Mary Ellen took the time to get to know us and tailored a ceremony that fit us and our ceremony location. She was a trooper about hiking to the ceremony site and was the first to arrive at the trailhead on the morning of our ceremony. She fit right in with our small group of family and friends and added to the energy and celebratory feeling of the day. We highly recommend Mary Ellen!
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    Crystal C. Sent on 11/05/2021
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    She’s perfect!

    Mary Ellen was the most responsive and fun officiant that I had talked with during planning. She was so flexible with changes and made amazing suggestions. She allowed us to personalize our ceremony as much as we wanted. She kept us on our timeline for the day and made sure everyone knew where they needed to be.
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    Jessica W. Sent on 11/21/2021
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    Beautifully memorable

    Mary Ellen performed such a beautiful and unique ceremony for us that will stay in our hearts and memory for a lifetime. We are so grateful for all her time and effort she put in to making our ceremony special and meaningful to us and our relationship. She was so thoughtful and kind; while assisting us along the way during this process. She ensured we were taking all the necessary steps and her incredible communication with us throughout the journey helped to ease our minds from any worry during the wedding because we knew she was prepared and ready to make a beautiful memory that we will cherish for the rest of our lives. Thank you for everything Mary Ellen.
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    Bri B. Sent on 10/07/2021
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    Maryellen was a spectacular

    MaryEllen is truly the best. From start to finish of the process , she made things so easy. She really took the time to write our ceremony and wanted it to be perfect for us. She made us feel so comfortable before, during and after the wedding. . She made us feel loved and so happy. She has a great personality and is so funny! She even dressed in fall colors because that was our theme. I highly recommend her 110% !!! Thank you so much for making our day so special.
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    Jennifer S. Sent on 11/06/2021
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    Definitely would recommend Weddings With Heart and Elope!

    We appreciated Mary Ellen coming to our home to perform an intimate ceremony for our family, it was exactly what we wanted!
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    Courtney W. Sent on 10/07/2021
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    So easy to work with

    Mary Ellen was wonderful to work with. She listened attentively, helped guide us when we were feeling overwhelmed, and delivered exactly what she promised. If it were any other scenario I would say we would definitely use her services again in the future! The plan is to only need to once though.
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    Rich Sent on 09/20/2021
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    Warm, thoughtful, compassionate officiant

    Mary Ellen was a fantastic officiant at our wedding, She listened to everything we had to say about the wedding we hoped to had, shared several drafts where she captured our story beautifully. She drew all of our guests in and exceeded our expectations.
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    Kristin H. Sent on 09/21/2021
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    She married us twice and both times were magical

    If you’re looking for a creative, grounded, authentic officiant - MaryEllen is who you want! She performed an intimate ceremony with a couple of our friends for an elopement on the canyon rim near Scout Camp. She then performed our ceremony almost a year later at FivePine Lodge when we celebrated with our families. Her communication throughout the planning process was amazing and she really got to the heart of why my wife and I wanted to get married. She is so well spoken and makes the ceremony process so easy. She has some great ideas already but is more than willing to change things up to cater towards what couples are envisioning. She really gets to the roots of our relationship to highlight the unique love each person brings. Thank you thank you thank you! If we have a third ceremony you’ll be the one we call! Thank you for making (both) of our ceremonies magical!
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    Nicole Sent on 11/30/2021
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    ME made our special day perfect. We would not have changed a single thing about our expereince.

    Mary Ellen was all we could have hoped for as our officiant. She spent a considerable amount of time getting to know us as a couple, what made our lives meaningful, and what we wanted the focus of our vows to be. Her process made it easy to put together vows that were customized for what we felt was important to us. She also helped make our ceremony run smoothly as well as lighten the mood and get our guests laughing, which was important to us. We would highly recommend her to anyone searching for the right person to make their special day perfect.
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    Madalynn M. Sent on 07/13/2021
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    Great loving and kind

    Mary is a very kind woman and we couldn’t have asked for a better person to start us off into our new chapter of life she is very flexible and easy to work with and shows genuine interest in you and your partner and helps to create a special moment that will last a life time.
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    Ryan K. Sent on 09/19/2019
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    Perfect day

    Mary Ellen made a perfect day!
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    Lisa Sent on 11/14/2020
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    Perfect for Our Intimate Low-Key Wedding!

    Mary Ellen did a fantastic job of creating a ceremony that fit us to a ‘T’. She really took the time to get to know us personally and our love story. Although we had a small wedding, we were still nervous to be the center of attention - Mary Ellen really helped ground us, bring us into the moment and cracked a few jokes to help ease our tensions. Our family absolutely loved the way she presented herself and the ceremony. They had so many complimentary comments after the wedding. Thanks for making our wedding everything we imagined in such a strange time (married in June 2020)!!