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    Haines J. Sent on 07/18/2024
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    Perfection in wake forest

    Kind staff, incredible planners, and a large beautiful venue for all kinds of events!
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    Tierney R. Sent on 12/20/2022
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    Always top notch!

    As a wedding photographer, it’s always a delight to work at the Sutherland. From the beautifully decorated estate to the expertly manicured gardens, you have a picturesque background to capture all your memories at. Not to mention, the experience you’ll receive from Ashlee, Lena, and Amber is always top-notch! Each one is so easy to work with and truly cares for their couples!
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    Kathleen C. Sent on 08/12/2021
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    The best choice

    The Sutherland was the first and only venue that we looked at when we got engaged. We knew right away from the charm of the grounds and the care displayed by the staff that this was the place for us. Ashlee was our planner and she did an excellent job making sure everything was executed smoothly on the day of our wedding. It was such a great experience and I'd recommend them to anyone that's looking for a stress-free venue!
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    Jessica S. Sent on 03/17/2021
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    With the utmost care and professionalism

    Everyone from the owners to the staff were extremely help, accommodating, professional, and compassionate when it came to having to change our wedding date, to the planning and actual day.
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    Brittany B. Sent on 11/08/2019
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    The Sutherland is AMAZING!

    We chose The Sutherland instantly after looking at a few other vendors in the area. It is an absolutely stunning property and they have been doing weddings for quite a while so have it down to a science. I could not have picked a better venue and Christy our wedding planner was amazing. She went above and beyond on everything that I asked of her. She seriously made the wedding be better than my wildest dreams. If you are looking for a venue that is seamless and has it all, The Sutherland is what you are looking for. They know all the best vendors and know how to pull off a great party for your guests and ensure that you have the best time. And let's not forget that it is the most stunning property in all of Raleigh.
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    Tracy W. Sent on 07/19/2021
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    The Sutherland Estate

    After 19 years of dating, my husband proposed to me finally. Then the wedding planning began. We had no clue where to begin. We googled “wedding venues near me”. The Sutherland Estate was top of the list. Little did we know, it is only 4 miles from our home. We were surprised we had never heard of it. We scheduled an appointment to visit the venue. We met Ashlee Adams on site. She was down to earth and immediately seemed like a sister. As soon as we walked in the front door of The Sutherland, we were in love with the venue. There was no need to look further. We had found our dream wedding location. Over the following months, Ashlee was always available via phone, text, email, or in person to answer questions, give wedding planning advice, or just to listen. Covid19 happened which meant our wedding had to be postponed until the next year. During this time, Ashlee was still available to us. She is a true professional and a joy to work with. Shannon with Pour Bar Services was also a great leader and advisor to us. Our wedding day was a true fairy tale! These 2 ladies worked tirelessly to make this happen. We are and always will be eternally grateful for Ashlee, Shannon, & all The Sutherland staff for providing a beautiful, romantic setting for our dream come true! Their friendship is a much appreciated added bonus! They will forever remain at the top of our list!
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    David F. Sent on 01/02/2020
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    Christy was AWESOME and Detailed!!!

    When we first visited the Sutherland as a possible venue, we were greeted by Christy Ethridge who would show us around. The presentation was awesome. Her attention to detail was amazing to say the least.

    She guided my daughter and wife through every aspect of the event and provided a level of unparalleled professionalism.

    Do things happen throughout planning a wedding? Obviously, do you want someone like Christy by your side when those things pop up? ABSOLUTELY.

    Throughout our experience I believe my wife, daughter, son-in-law and I established a very personal relationship with Christy and we now consider her a close friend :-)

    Very OUTSTANDING JOB Sutherland!

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    David Farris
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    Maddy W. Sent on 05/07/2019
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    The perfect place for the wedding of your dreams!

    The Sutherland made the wedding planning process a hundred times easier. Christy was so organized and made sure that everything was done. She was so great at giving advice and really listening to Sid and I! The Sutherland is a perfect backdrop for a wedding and all of the vendors associated make it the perfect venue. My wedding was the best day of my life, I cannot recommend the Sutherland enough!
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    Emmalee S. Sent on 02/11/2020
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    Magic and Flexible

    Our wedding day was freezing and raining and still so magical. The Sutherland was the perfect venue. Christy, our coordinator, made the move to an inside ceremony so painless and simple. We didn’t have to do anything; the Sutherland staff handled everything. Planning was a dream. Christy walked us through everything to make it as painless as possible. Even wet, the grounds were gorgeous.
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    Kyle Sent on 10/14/2019
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    My dream wedding at my dream venue!

    I had fallen in love with The Sutherland years before I was ever engaged from when my cousin was married there several years ago, so when it came time for my now husband and I to book a venue, I knew right where to start. Not only is it a stunning property, but the customer service we received throughout our whole planning process helped us be sure it was the perfect venue for us. Christy was our wedding planner and she couldn't be more amazing! She was very accommodating with us since we live out of town and had to plan a lot of things remotely. I am also a very detail-oriented person, and even when I was blowing her inbox up with questions or multiple emails at a time, she was always sure to address my every question in a very timely manner which made me feel at ease with the whole planning process. There were even small details on the day of that I hadn't even thought of or expressed how I wanted it to look, but Christy and her team went above and beyond and everything turned out perfectly on our wedding day. I will recommend Christy and this venue over and over again. It really was our dream wedding come to life in the perfect venue!
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    Anna P. Sent on 10/31/2019
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    Venue of my dreams!

    We could not have been happier that we chose to have our wedding reception at The Sutherland!! The venue had the beautiful indoor and outdoor space we were looking for. Christy was our planner and we never doubted for a second that the wedding day would run smoothly with her there and it 100% did! She even contacted all of my vendors to make sure everyone was on the same page on how the day would go. The Sutherland staff were all wonderful! I couldn’t have had the wedding of my dreams if it wasn’t for this fabulous venue and their staff!
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    Austin J. Sent on 08/29/2019
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    Wonderful!

    We used Christy Ethridge as our wedding planner and she was amazing! Her patience, kindness and attention to detail were much needed in order to make our day happen. Christy knows how to control a crowd, juggle everything thrown at her and roll with the punches. It doesn't hurt that her knowledge of other vendors in the Triangle area is extensive and super helpful when figuring out who to use as well. Our wedding day was amazing and Christy was a huge part of making that happen! Thank you Christy... if you need someone to help you plan your wedding she is the one for you!
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    Sandy J. Sent on 04/16/2019
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    Beautiful and unforgettable Wedding

    Stunning and beautiful The Sutherland was a wonderful and unforgettable location for my daughter’s wedding. Our event planner Christy was there to organize and keep everything and everyone together every step on the day. A beautiful memory in an exceptional location- what more could you ask for!
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    Shannon H. Sent on 07/04/2019
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    Planning and Styling services at its best!

    Ashlee has taken her experience with planning and design on the road with Sutherland Services. I did not have to worry about anything with her taking the lead, she had thought of and planned for everything! It was so nice to completely relax the day of our wedding, because we trusted Ashlee with it all, and she did not let us down!
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    Danielle Sent on 06/21/2019
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    THE most beautiful wedding venue + customer service you'll ever find!

    We chose the Sutherland for many reasons, but what initially drew us to the property was it's location. The Sutherland happens to be right next door (and I mean right.next.door) to my home church that I grew up in, Wake Union Baptist Church! We had heard wonderful things about the Sutherland and their staff, but we were blown away by the impeccable service they had to offer. When we toured the property, we fell in love and had no doubt in our mind that it was the perfect place to host our loved ones and begin our journey as husband and wife. And we were right. Christy was our planner for our wedding and she was beyond amazing! I could go on and on about how incredible the staff and Christy were, but there's no better way to describe it than this: After the wedding, my bridal bouquet went missing...which wouldn't have been the worst thing in the world, but my late grandfather's dog tag was attached. Christy and her team were determined to find and it literally got inside the dumpsters (TWICE) to make sure it hadn't been thrown away. It wasn't there, but they continued to look for days. Half-way through my honeymoon, I received a text message from Christy that included a photo of her holding the dog tag. I was convinced I would never see it again, but Christy and the staff at the Sutherland never gave up and made sure that it got back to us safely. I am immensely grateful for everything they did to ensure our wedding day was the best day of our lives, even after it was over. By the time our wedding day rolled around, Christy felt like family and were so happy that the wedding planning process brought her into our lives.
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    Morgan P. Sent on 03/27/2019
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    Best decision

    By far the best decision in my wedding planning process was choosing The Sutherland as our venue! Christy Ethridge was kind, talented, encouraging, and extremely organized. I can't imagine pulling all the details together for our day without her help and guidance. The mix of indoor and outdoor settings for the ceremony and reception was perfect for our early Spring wedding; the house and gardens are so naturally pretty that it's a great venue for any season of the year. I cannot recommend this venue enough!
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    Tammie W. Sent on 01/09/2019
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    The Sutherland Estate and Gardens

    We made the right choice by selecting The Sutherland Estate and Gardens as the venue for our daughter's wedding. Every detail was taken care of with professionalism. The house is gorgeous with plenty of southern charm and provides a wonderful background for the bridal portrait as well as the grounds surrounding the property. I was able to enjoy the day with Katie and her attendants and not worry about anything. Christy Ethridge was absolutely wonderful and was by our side during the entire planning process and I can't thank her enough for all the help and attention to detail she provided. Her efforts did not go unnoticed and we received many compliments from our guest. We were so pleased with the outcome on the day of the ceremony and highly recommend this venue to any bride looking for a venue. You will not be disappointed.
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    Katie M. Sent on 01/05/2019
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    Miller Wedding

    We had our wedding at The Sutherland on December 8, 2018. We cannot say enough great things about The Sutherland. From the first meeting until the last, we knew they truly cared for us and wanted to make sure we had the perfect wedding day. Our wedding planner, Christy, was the absolute best! She truly cared about what we wanted and did everything possible to make sure we had the perfect day. She is just awesome and you will never have to stress over your day with her as a planner. The venue itself is so beautiful and the staff is amazing. We had the most perfect wedding and we would choose The Sutherland again and again!
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    Carrie P. Sent on 02/18/2019
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    Perfect day!!

    The Sutherland was an amazing venue! The staff was so helpful during our entire planning process and on the day of our wedding everything went so smoothly! I could not have asked for a more perfect wedding day! I loved the pavilion and even with some rain and a tent, the wall garden was so pretty for our ceremony! I would highly recommend The Sutherland to anyone!
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    Hayle Sent on 11/14/2018
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    The most perfect day...

    Wow! All I can say is Wow!! The Sutherland Estate and Gardens was the perfect venue for my November 2018 wedding. The grounds are breathtaking... from the walled garden to where our ceremony was held, the side of the house and oak tree for cocktail hour and the indoor pavilion for the reception with market lights! Not to mention how much fun it was to get ready inside the house with my bridesmaids!! The Sutherland staff and Christy Ethridge were fantastic to work with. Christy was our day of coordinator but helped us out frequently in the last few months leading up to the wedding. They think of every detail so EVERYTHING goes perfect and smooth on your wedding day. I felt 100% confident with Christy and the staff to help us pull off a flawless wedding day and all I can say is that I don't think I could have dreamed of a more beautiful day. Thank you to Christy, The Sutherland and the rest of the staff for their support leading up to the wedding and all their hard work on our wedding day!! I actually kind of miss talking to Christy on a weekly basis :) Thank you!!
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    My husband and I worked with Christy Ethridge at The Sutherland and she was OUTSTANDING! I planned a good bit of the wedding from out of state and Christy was incredibly accommodating to me. She even took a few hours to give my mom a separate tour after we booked at The Sutherland so that she could walk through it again and feel more comfortable. The whole team at The Sutherland are rockstars. They made our wedding day so incredibly seamless. If there were any problems or if anything went wrong, I had no idea! And that made it such a relaxing, wonderful day for us and our families.
    - Also I want to note that the forecast had scheduled for rain to start at the beginning of our outdoor ceremony and Christy did everything she could to keep our vision of an outdoor wedding. She truly went above and beyond to make our day perfect! My husband and I could not be any happier! :)
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    Ashley L. Sent on 02/15/2019
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    Nothing short of amazing!!

    Christy from The Sutherland was wonderful! She was extremely professional, and made sure that everything was being done in a timely manner. She created a timeline and was very organized, so I wasn’t stressed. I also loved having her work with me because she knows all the ins and outs of the wedding world! She was able to help me think outside of the box when it came to decorations, because I was a bride on a budget. All in all, my experience with Christy and the Sutherland was wonderful! 10/10 recommend!
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    Bays Sent on 08/22/2018
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    We had an incredible experience with our recent summer wedding at The Sutherland. Christy's guidance through weather "concerns" was invaluable and we ended up having a gorgeous evening to enjoy an outdoor ceremony and cocktail hour! I am thrilled with our decision to choose this venue and we are still receiving compliments weeks after!
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    Emily Sent on 07/07/2018
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    Our wedding was amazing because of the help of Christy and the Sutherland staff! I chose this venue because it is seriously GORGEOUS and also the package comes with a planner and day of coordination. Our wedding day could not have been better without the help of Christy and everyone else there. Christy is sweet, down to earth, and such a wonderful planner!!
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    Brooke H. Sent on 02/05/2019
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    Beautiful May 2018 Wedding

    We had the most amazing experience working with The Sutherland to plan the wedding of our dreams. Christy and the rest of the Sutherland team worked tirelessly to ensure every detail was perfectly executed which allowed us to relax and enjoy our special day with our friends and family! Our vision came to life and we can't thank the Sutherland enough for the beautiful memories that we will cherish forever.
    -Brooke & Eric Hirsch