The Abbey Inn & Spa Reviews
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Ciara Sent on 07/20/2024Incredibly Excited!!
I initially wrote a review on Knot, because that is where we found the venue, but I wanted to post here too because we are just so incredibly grateful, and want every couple to give this place a chance!!
I first sent a simple inquiry online as I did to many other locations, but I received a very quick and informative response that gave me so much important information about the venue. Not only that but Catherine immediately invited us to come and visit–which we promptly took her up on! I want to be transparent though. We were initially worried because we have seen a couple poor reviews about the Abbey and its management of weddings, but Catherine explained to me that there were a few management companies at fault. But now the actual owners handled things. And would you even believe that this Catherine, who was explaining things to me, is a new employee! She isn't the same one as I read about in the reviews! All of this immediately reassured us. We even held Chatherine up with all of the questions! Her next appointment took it great though–we were all laughing about how desperate we were for a date here! But honestly, all of this goes beyond just our concerns. This was one of the most stunning venues we had ever visited, and there is certainly nothing like it in the area. I had heard that it was a pricy venue, but honestly, it’s pretty in line with others in the area. The other thing I loved about the Abbey was their rain plan! No matter the weather, we were guaranteed a beautiful spot for the ceremony. Catherine has sent us a fantastic proposal, and once we get the guest list down, we are absolutely gonna book! I am so happy that we took the chance on the Abbey and I really encourage every couple to check them out!!
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Christa Sent on 11/12/2023A Perfect Day
We had a wonderful experience at The Abbey Inn & Spa. Catherine was a pleasure to work with in the months leading up to the event. She was responsive, helpful and professional at all times. Bri, who was the day-of coordinator, was amazing. She was everywhere at once and made sure everything was taken care of. The grounds at the Abbey are stunning and the ballroom is beautiful. The staff was so accommodating. Everyone is still talking about what an amazing event we had! -
Jordyn Sent on 08/10/2022
The most PERFECT wedding venue!!!
Where do I even begin?! The Abbey was the absolute PERFECT choice for our wedding. I truly cannot say enough fabulous things about how special this location is and how amazing they were to work with for our special day. We held our rehearsal dinner, ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, after party, and brunch all at the Abbey in mid-June, and every single one was absolute perfection. Gina was a DREAM to work with -- I felt like we had our own personal wedding planner throughout the entire process. She answered all (and I mean ALL) of our emails, calls, questions, etc. and when I arrived at the Abbey for our wedding weekend I felt totally calm, cool, and collected knowing that Gina was running the show. And of course, there are no words to describe how beautiful and magical this property is both inside and out! Most of our guests stayed at the hotel so we were all able to really take advantage of the property throughout the weekend and every single staff member made us and our family and friends feel special and welcomed. The food was amazing, everything was well organized, coordinated, and beautiful... what more can I say?! I am so grateful we found a place where we could really build an entire weekend, and I am even more grateful that the Abbey helped us to coordinate it all as seamlessly as they did! I can't wait to go back and visit our special place for many many years to come! -
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Dawn Sent on 11/26/2021More perfect than we hoped for!
We found the Abbey Inn when it was still under construction in 2019. My daughter's wedding was set for May 2020 but was cancelled due to the pandemic. Eileen was beyond flexible, allow us to change the date three times! The happy day finally happened on Saturday and I couldn't be more pleased with the result. Thanks to Gina, Joe and the Chef for a memorable day! -
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Louise Sent on 11/05/2021
Stunning Wedding Venue
We actually just held our daughter's wedding here, and used 5 rooms. The architecture and gardens are absolutely stunning. The food is amazing, filet mignon, branzino, etc. The rooms are beautiful. The people who work there are friendly and helpful. They even did the entire wedding gluten-free. We loved everything about The Abbey.
- We had the ceremony in the Cornerstone room, photos outdoors overlooking the Hudson, cocktail hour on The Bluff, the reception in the Highlands ballroom, the rehearsal dinner in the Grand Terrace, and the farewell breakfast in the Hudson room. The couple stayed in the bridal suite, which included a separate sitting room and a large balcony. All rooms were beautiful. Everyone especially loved the Cornerstone room, which is hand-painted with Latin words and saints. The Highlands ballroom looks like a castle.
- The entire wedding was gluten-free, which is difficult, but they were very accommodating to our needs. They also were careful of other special diets.
- We also had a handicap-accessible room for grandparents, and it was the most beautiful handicap room anyone had ever seen. It had a large balcony with table and rocking chairs, walk-in shower, and low bed.
- The people there were very helpful. At breakfast, a waitress told our guests the history of the hand-painted cornerstone room. It was painted by a nun, who continued painting until she was 89. The room was restored several years ago, and restored by hand. A man who helped set up the ballroom told us the history of the hotel and the ballroom also. It was built in 1872 and was an abbey for 100 years. It was meticulously restored from about 2017-2020, and opened in March 2020 - right at the start of covid. Everyone seems to really love the place. The wedding & events specialist worked closely with us, and was by our side throughout the weekend.
- Even if you are just going there for a weekend, lunch, or dinner, this is a fabulous place. It even has a happy hour with burgers, ricotta toast, and half-price drinks. It is such a beautiful place, it truly looks like a European castle, or Abbey. It is a gem in New York!!!
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Gail Sent on 10/20/2020You can still have the wedding of your dreams during a pandemic
Eileen and Executive Chef John were 100% transparent with what could and could not be accomplished when we were scouting venues. Not only were they honest they were creative in how we could make our wedding beautiful and memorable during a time when most couples were pushing their weddings into the following year. We had to accept that a traditional cocktail hour and dancing were two things we would have to forego in order to comply with the current state guidelines. around COVID whereas other venues within a 20 mile radius were quoting things I knew they could not pull off legally and without compromising the health of our guests.
I did not hire a wedding planner but Eileen sure did take on that role. As a COVID bride nothing is more important than communication. Eileen didn't miss a beat and handled each request/concern I had no matter how large or small with professionalism and class.
Let's talk about the food! Our guests are still raving about how full they are and how delicious the menu was. With a guest list where 50% was vegetarian and the balance true carnivores Executive Chef John and Chef Jared found a way to please everyone. I still don't truly know how they pulled that off but they did and flawlessly.
The day of staff from our bartenders, wait staff, F&B director were a pleasure to work with. They were all so sweet and beyond accommodating. They went above and beyond to not only ensure my husband and I were content but also did this for our guests.
There are many beautiful venues in this area which we scouted out but at the end of day I chose the Abbey Inn & Spa because of Eileen. Working with her was like planning my wedding with my mom. I fully trusted her, her taste is impeccable, she's brutally honest and she's an expert. I won't write too much about the grounds because you can see by the pictures how gorgeous the venue is. The photo's don't even do this place justice. The landscaping is magical. When we were exchanging vows under the gazebo, overlooking the Hudson river at almost sunset I was mesmerized by the view and had to remind myself to pay attention! A few days later I asked my husband if I could read his vow book because I truly blanked out as I was paying attention to the view and not him!
Thank you Eileen and the rest of The Abbey staff for truly giving us the wedding of our dreams during a time when the world is in disarray. We are still in awe of how truly beautiful our wedding day was. We owe that all to you. -
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Melony Sent on 10/15/2020The most amazing experience!!
My husband and I got married at the abbey yesterday. 10/10/20 . It was everything and more !!!! The staff was absolutely incredible! The service was amazing !! All of our guests loved the food !! Everything from beginning to end was just perfection . Without Eileen Whitney this wouldn’t have been possible !
Gilbert , Rebecca , and Mike were absolutely incredible! All of them treated us like family . And you can’t get any better than that . We are forever grateful! Thank you so much !!! -
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Cathy-Marie Sent on 09/25/2020Amazing venue
We got married at The Abbey Inn & Spa September 2020, and it was amazing!! Everything turned out beautifully, and we couldn't have wished for a more perfect day. They were able to take on our last minute micro wedding, and the Director, Eileen, was so kind and accommodating. She was so responsive from the day I reached out to her, extremely patient, and worked closely with us to make sure the day turned out exactly the way we wanted it to. The staff at the Inn were all so polite, friendly, and helpful during our stay. The rooms/suites at the Abbey are also lovely, and the view of the Hudson River from this location is stunning! If you get married here, you won't regret it! -
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Lynda Sent on 09/19/2020Incredible everything
Not only are the grounds and the views amazing, but the coordinator, Eileen, is literally superhuman. Not only did she work with me and ease my concerns and answer questions nearly everyday before my wedding but she made the day stress free. The power went out the morning of my wedding right as hair and makeup arrived. Eileen spoke to everyone she needed and got it back on within an hour when they originally quoted her two. She blocked people from bothering me on my wedding and set everything up exactly how I asked. She put us in touch with the head chef, John, who is just incredible, and made sure everything we wanted was done. Also, The Abbey made planning and executing a wedding during covid so painless. Eileen kept pivoting the plans as guidelines and ordinances changed, and allowed us to hold our small wedding with social distancing and we’re having an “encore” reception next year. I don’t even have the words to express how perfect everything was. I would give this place a thousand stars if I could. -
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Stephanie Sent on 08/10/2020So excited for our 2021 wedding
After seeing the beautiful pictures online, my fiance and I went for a site tour this past weekend. Not only was the property absolutely stunning, but our experience with Eileen was amazing. She was so great about pointing out all of the unique and historic details of the Abbey, and answering our never-ending stream of questions. We felt so confident in both the Abbey and Eileen, we booked our date right on the spot! We could not be more excited for our 2021 wedding.
UPDATE:
We had our wedding at the Abbey this past August and it was truly the wedding of our dreams. Eileen was absolutely fantastic to work with through the entire process, and the whole team made our day go literally FLAWLESSLY! The venue was gorgeous, the food was fantastic, and overall it was truly the best day ever. We could not be more thankful to the Abbey for making our dream wedding come true! -
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Cynthia Sent on 08/06/2020The Abby Inn and Spa - Eileen, Chef John and Jimmy
From the moment you arrive the service is impeccable. No detail is left undone.
Outstanding Professionalism where every effort is made to understand your Event, the importance of it and their goal to make it a day like no other. Chef John is Outstanding Food was 5 star, tasting was amazing, full menu was at our offering each coarse done with you in mind and the flavor profiles were a dinning experience like no other. -
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Danielle Sent on 07/21/2020One Of A Kind Venue and Experience
The Abbey truly is a one of a kind venue. We visited countless other wedding venues and nothing compares to the beauty and uniqueness of The Abbey. We never knew it was possible to feel like we were a world away while being so close to the City. It’s very apparent that a great deal of thought was put into the restoration of the 1890s convent and chapel, turning it into a beautiful escape. Also, the views of the Hudson River are breathtaking, especially during a sunset.
Working with Eileen has been an all-around great experience. She is transparent, responsive, and takes the time to talk through the details. Especially while planning and re-planning a wedding during this uncertain time, we couldn’t have asked for anyone better to work with. She is extremely creative and thinks outside the box, using her experience and building on the vision you have for your big day.
Now, onto the food. Chef John Paidas is incredible, so much thought has been put into the menu. Meticulous attention to the details, from the flavors to the plating – everything has been considered. Our tasting was one to remember and we can’t wait to celebrate our big day at The Abbey with great food, family and friends!
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Kristen Sent on 05/09/2020Absolutely Flawless
My fiancé and I are getting married at The Abbey Inn & Spa this fall. All I can say is this venue is absolutely FLAWLESS!! What makes it so flawless is how they kept the history of Peekskill tide in throughout the entire venue.
Hands-down to Eileen who is the wedding coordinator at The Abbey Inn & Spa. From the moment we met her there was a connection. Any questions I had she answered with extreme confidence. She tells you how it is and I absolutely love that! She is always checking in especially with COVID-19 pandemic. Eileen is truly first in class. You will not want to look at another venue after you see The Abbey! ❤️ -
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Carolyn Sent on 05/08/2020Amazing experience! Can’t wait to get married here!
First of all, the venue is downright gorgeous! If you’re looking for an all-in-one venue that has beautiful views, traditional elegance, and architectural greatness, this is your place! Eileen (The Director of Catering, Wedding & Events Specialist), is amazing to work with. She’s responsive, welcoming, and flexible to work with! Can’t wait to have our dream wedding here. -
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Kat Sent on 10/15/2024Wow oh wow
The whole team from valet and servers to day of coordinators were the most friendly and helpful people. They pulled everything together to achieve the most spectacular and calm day for us. More than I could’ve ever asked for 🥂 -
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Ff Sent on 10/31/2025Beautiful with plentiful flaws
There is an awful staff in charge of booking weddings and no one in charge of events. Woman that books weddings disappears after your deposit.
The setting is beautiful but communication is lacking. Don’t get married on a Friday because you will have a Saturday bride there checking in making your life miserable. Imagine the Abbey allowing a Saturday bride doing a rehearsal right before your ceremony, using your music and flowers to make their rehearsal nice for them!!!!!
The food at the tasting is excellent. At the wedding however you will get a different version of your choices and overly salted food.
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Jasmine Sent on 03/22/2024Stressful Wedding Experience
My husband and I booked our wedding at The Abbey Inn and Spa last May, initially with wonderful experiences. However, everything went downhill after a management change. We were assigned Catherine, who was slow to respond to emails (sometimes taking a week!), caused unnecessary stress, and ultimately failed to deliver on basic wedding day needs.
Here's how The Abbey turned our dream into a nightmare:
Broken promises: Our contract clearly stated a room block release two months before the wedding, but Catherine backtracked, causing financial anxiety. Only after pointing out the agreement did she "honor" it, without an apology.
Unprofessionalism: Catherine refused to provide her phone number for emergencies on the wedding day – a major red flag.
Communication breakdowns: The venue created needless drama for my dancer, making it one of the "worst venues" she'd ever dealt with.
Pre-wedding chaos: Upon arrival, the bridal suite had a malfunctioning bathroom door and a leaky inflatable mattress – inhospitable beginnings.
Wedding day disaster:
Our room was infested with ants, adding stress to getting ready. We spent our morning battling bugs instead of relaxing.
A false fire alarm forced us to evacuate in our pajamas, wasting precious time for hair and makeup. Staff offered no help, and Catherine remained unreachable.
We paid for a wedding assistant, but she arrived late, inexperienced, and utterly unhelpful. We ended up relying on our friends for help.
Catherine showed a nonchalant attitude about the morning's chaos and never apologized.
DJ Disconnect: Catherine failed to inform the DJ it was time to start the ceremony, resulting in bridesmaids and groomsmen walking out to random music. Luckily, the DJ recovered for my entrance.
Vegan guests never received their specially requested appetizers.
Post-wedding insult: The leftover cake was thrown out, and despite offering a partial refund and a free dinner, the staff admitted they "forgot" about our wedding due to Mother's Day.
The Takeaway:
The Abbey clearly struggles to manage weddings, especially during holidays. Our experience was marred by constant communication issues, a lack of organization, and an overall sense of indifference. Avoid the stress and choose a venue that prioritizes your special day.
Final Note: We ultimately never took the Abbey's offer of a free stay and dinner, as the experience left us wanting nothing more than to distance ourselves from the venue.
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