Scratch Weddings Reviews

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• David Sent on 12/26/2016
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  excellent service....!!! Keep up the creativity!!

  excellent service....!!! Keep up the creativity!!
• Nancy Sent on 04/14/2016
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  I can't say enough good things about my experience with Scratch DJs. I worked with Liz on the corporate side and Jarrett Spiegel was our DJ/MC on our wedding day. Liz was responsive and organized and Jarrett was a great DJ/MC. He played everything we wanted, nothing we didn't, and totally went with the flow throughout the course of the day. Scratch has a feature called Music Match, which is a website where you can specify which song(s) you want played during each part of the wedding from pre-ceremony music all the way to the very last song. Having this feature was really helpful and I don't think we would have had everything we wanted played if it wasn't available. Plus, they were a superb value. Highly, highly recommend!

  I can't say enough good things about my experience with Scratch DJs. I worked with Liz on the corporate side and Jarrett Spiegel was our DJ/MC on our wedding day. Liz was responsive and organized and Jarrett was a great DJ/MC. He played everything we wanted, nothing we didn't, and totally went with the flow throughout the course of the day. Scratch has a feature called Music Match, which is a website where you can specify which song(s) you want played during each part of the wedding from pre-ceremony music all the way to the very last song. Having this feature was really helpful and I don't think we would have had everything we wanted played if it wasn't available. Plus, they were a superb value. Highly, highly recommend!
• Allison Sent on 03/24/2016
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  We hired DJ Steve Love and he was great! He showed up early to get set up, played all the right stuff at the right times, and was very friendly, knew how to keep the crowd going. He helped make our wedding a lot of fun! One thing I really liked was that he had the wedding party stay on the dance floor after the introductions, and stand around us for our first dance. It felt really special to have our closest friends and family right there.
  
  Scratch Weddings in general was fantastic. They were so professional. Their song selection website is super easy to use and I really liked that they had a conference call with us the week before the wedding to go over our song selections, how to pronounce everyone's names, etc. Also, I wanted to use a song for our processional that was recorded by a YouTube artist. I gave Scratch the audio file in advance so they could test it and it played for our ceremony without a hitch. I'm so glad we hired Scratch.
  
  

  We hired DJ Steve Love and he was great! He showed up early to get set up, played all the right stuff at the right times, and was very friendly, knew how to keep the crowd going. He helped make our wedding a lot of fun! One thing I really liked was that he had the wedding party stay on the dance floor after the introductions, and stand around us for our first dance. It felt really special to have our closest friends and family right there.
  
  Scratch Weddings in general was fantastic. They were so professional. Their song selection website is super easy to use and I really liked that they had a conference call with us the week before the wedding to go over our song selections, how to pronounce everyone's names, etc. Also, I wanted to use a song for our processional that was recorded by a YouTube artist. I gave Scratch the audio file in advance so they could test it and it played for our ceremony without a hitch. I'm so glad we hired Scratch.
  
  
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• Elizabeth Sent on 11/25/2014
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  We love DJ Shakee! What a pleasant (and painless) experience. Everyone at Scratch weddings was fabulous. Liz was always on the ball and super sweet. I can't say enough about what a fabulous job DJ Shakee did. He was absolutely amazing and kept the party going. He read the crowd and truly played music that everyone wanted to dance to. I would highly recommend Scratch weddings and DJ Shakee.

  We love DJ Shakee! What a pleasant (and painless) experience. Everyone at Scratch weddings was fabulous. Liz was always on the ball and super sweet. I can't say enough about what a fabulous job DJ Shakee did. He was absolutely amazing and kept the party going. He read the crowd and truly played music that everyone wanted to dance to. I would highly recommend Scratch weddings and DJ Shakee.
• Michelle Sent on 06/23/2014
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  Scratch Weddings was one of the best vendors I booked for my wedding. When I started looking for a DJ, I was going to just book the DJ two of my friends used for their weddings. However, I couldn't get in contact with them so I moved on. I contacted Scratch based on the Wedding Wire reviews. BEST DECISION EVER. My initial contact, Cindy, was very helpful in helping me narrow down and pick a DJ. The excitement she expressed about Scratch Weddings and working there made me excited about selecting them as my vendor. My event manager, Liz, was so helpful. She responded to my emails timely, followed up with me when I forgot to give her info, and answered all my questions. My DJ, DJ Dos A, was AMAZING. He got the crowd pumped and was a great MC. His mixing was flawless and he picked great songs. I had guests on the dance floor even before the floor opened for the dancing part of the night! That's how great Dos A was. My guests loved Dos A and kept complimenting about how he was such a great DJ. I couldn't have picked a better vendor and DJ. Thank goodness and lucky me my friends' DJ never got back to me!

  Scratch Weddings was one of the best vendors I booked for my wedding. When I started looking for a DJ, I was going to just book the DJ two of my friends used for their weddings. However, I couldn't get in contact with them so I moved on. I contacted Scratch based on the Wedding Wire reviews. BEST DECISION EVER. My initial contact, Cindy, was very helpful in helping me narrow down and pick a DJ. The excitement she expressed about Scratch Weddings and working there made me excited about selecting them as my vendor. My event manager, Liz, was so helpful. She responded to my emails timely, followed up with me when I forgot to give her info, and answered all my questions. My DJ, DJ Dos A, was AMAZING. He got the crowd pumped and was a great MC. His mixing was flawless and he picked great songs. I had guests on the dance floor even before the floor opened for the dancing part of the night! That's how great Dos A was. My guests loved Dos A and kept complimenting about how he was such a great DJ. I couldn't have picked a better vendor and DJ. Thank goodness and lucky me my friends' DJ never got back to me!
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  User1475417 Sent on 12/17/2013
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  I hired scratch weddings for my wedding reception. And I gotta say i was blown away by how awesome they are.
  
  My wife and I were doing the reception on our own. And too be honest, hiring the DJ was making me the most nervous. I've never hired a DJ, I'll probably never hire one again. And I have no idea what I'm even looking for in a DJ.
  
  I looked on line and people were making recommendations left and right, when finally someone on Reddit recommended Scratch Weddings.
  
  I contact them and they got back to me right away. After a quick call they sent over the profiles of 5 DJs. They were all really good, but decided to go with DJ A-Ko. Mainly because he seemed like a cool guy in his interview video.
  
  I couldn't be happier with the choice. He was awesome at the wedding, play great music during the cocktail hour and dinner. He filled the dance floor and pretty much kept it filled the rest of the night. Took requests and perfectly blended them in with his set. Not to mention he was right on time, and incredibly nice and accommodating.
  
  I've been to several weddings in the last year and I can easily say we had the best DJ out of the bunch (not biased at all. I swear :))
  
  I really can't say enough good things about Scratch Weddings.
  
  Oh also, I don't really know how much a good wedding DJ costs. But Scratch Weddings was less than any other DJ I found online. So at least for me, it was cheaper and awesomer!

  I hired scratch weddings for my wedding reception. And I gotta say i was blown away by how awesome they are.
  
  My wife and I were doing the reception on our own. And too be honest, hiring the DJ was making me the most nervous. I've never hired a DJ, I'll probably never hire one again. And I have no idea what I'm even looking for in a DJ.
  
  I looked on line and people were making recommendations left and right, when finally someone on Reddit recommended Scratch Weddings.
  
  I contact them and they got back to me right away. After a quick call they sent over the profiles of 5 DJs. They were all really good, but decided to go with DJ A-Ko. Mainly because he seemed like a cool guy in his interview video.
  
  I couldn't be happier with the choice. He was awesome at the wedding, play great music during the cocktail hour and dinner. He filled the dance floor and pretty much kept it filled the rest of the night. Took requests and perfectly blended them in with his set. Not to mention he was right on time, and incredibly nice and accommodating.
  
  I've been to several weddings in the last year and I can easily say we had the best DJ out of the bunch (not biased at all. I swear :))
  
  I really can't say enough good things about Scratch Weddings.
  
  Oh also, I don't really know how much a good wedding DJ costs. But Scratch Weddings was less than any other DJ I found online. So at least for me, it was cheaper and awesomer!
• Jennifer Sent on 10/26/2013
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  Everyone with Scratch was great to work with! Cindy originally spoke to us to find out what we were looking for in a DJ, Liz was our coordinator, and DJ Rell was the incredibly talented master of ceremonies. My husband and I are HUGE music fans, so we were very particular on the songs we wanted played. DJ Rell did an amazing job and kept the party going.
  
  It was such a pleasant experience working with everyone at Scratch - we can't recommend them enough.

  Everyone with Scratch was great to work with! Cindy originally spoke to us to find out what we were looking for in a DJ, Liz was our coordinator, and DJ Rell was the incredibly talented master of ceremonies. My husband and I are HUGE music fans, so we were very particular on the songs we wanted played. DJ Rell did an amazing job and kept the party going.
  
  It was such a pleasant experience working with everyone at Scratch - we can't recommend them enough.
• Karissa Sent on 10/30/2013
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  I love Scratch!!!! The DJ (DJ Chris Anthony) was perfect and just what we expected based on his profile video. Our even manager was amazing (Liz) and was extremely helpful, even with song suggestions. You tend to feel a bit overwhelmed when planning the wedding so even the simplest thing like your "cake cutting song" can be tough to decide. If you don't want to worry about and you just want to check it off the long list of to do's for the wedding...then book Scratch! It's the smartest decision you can make.

  I love Scratch!!!! The DJ (DJ Chris Anthony) was perfect and just what we expected based on his profile video. Our even manager was amazing (Liz) and was extremely helpful, even with song suggestions. You tend to feel a bit overwhelmed when planning the wedding so even the simplest thing like your "cake cutting song" can be tough to decide. If you don't want to worry about and you just want to check it off the long list of to do's for the wedding...then book Scratch! It's the smartest decision you can make.
• Johanna Sent on 12/20/2013
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  We used Scratch Weddings recently for our wedding this past September. DJ Shakee was our DJ and he was a hit with the guests. Our initial setup from the day of booking was professional and organized. Elizabeth handled all our follow-up phone calls and emails throughout the time of booking and months, and days leading up to the wedding. We thought the process was going to be stressful due to the unique layout of our event, but everything worked out great.

  We used Scratch Weddings recently for our wedding this past September. DJ Shakee was our DJ and he was a hit with the guests. Our initial setup from the day of booking was professional and organized. Elizabeth handled all our follow-up phone calls and emails throughout the time of booking and months, and days leading up to the wedding. We thought the process was going to be stressful due to the unique layout of our event, but everything worked out great.
• Marissa Sent on 08/11/2013
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  We had DJ Jarrett for our reception and he was absolutely amazing. People were on the dance floor nonstop from the moment it opened, and we received so many compliments on the music. We had a call before the event to go over our style of music, and Jarrett got it right for both the dinner and the dancing. One of our guests has already booked Scratch Weddings for her wedding!

  We had DJ Jarrett for our reception and he was absolutely amazing. People were on the dance floor nonstop from the moment it opened, and we received so many compliments on the music. We had a call before the event to go over our style of music, and Jarrett got it right for both the dinner and the dancing. One of our guests has already booked Scratch Weddings for her wedding!
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  I went with Scratch because I was familiar with the academy in New York and I knew they'd have real DJs, not someone who creates an iTunes list. I was not disappointed at all.
  
  I have always been a big music fan. The husband not so much. So this was very much my task. The whole Scratch organization is completely professional from the sales person, to the coordinator, to the DJ himself. They gave us 3 DJs to listen to and let us pick our favorite.
  
  We picked DJ Aristocat based on his musical choices and mixing ability. He was fantastic. He was very patient when I gave him my incredibly long list of music that I thought the guests would like (only a few must plays), and he did a great job reading the crowd and picking the right music at the right time. My more music-obsessed friends all told me he was great and I couldn't agree more. If you appreciate a DJ with vast musical taste and top notch mixing/beat-matching skills I highly recommend him.

  I went with Scratch because I was familiar with the academy in New York and I knew they'd have real DJs, not someone who creates an iTunes list. I was not disappointed at all.
  
  I have always been a big music fan. The husband not so much. So this was very much my task. The whole Scratch organization is completely professional from the sales person, to the coordinator, to the DJ himself. They gave us 3 DJs to listen to and let us pick our favorite.
  
  We picked DJ Aristocat based on his musical choices and mixing ability. He was fantastic. He was very patient when I gave him my incredibly long list of music that I thought the guests would like (only a few must plays), and he did a great job reading the crowd and picking the right music at the right time. My more music-obsessed friends all told me he was great and I couldn't agree more. If you appreciate a DJ with vast musical taste and top notch mixing/beat-matching skills I highly recommend him.
• Lupe Sent on 01/30/2013
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  Amazing... All I have to say is that our friend and family still talk about how much fun they had at our wedding. From beginning all the way to the end of the night, our DJ did an amazing job.

  Amazing... All I have to say is that our friend and family still talk about how much fun they had at our wedding. From beginning all the way to the end of the night, our DJ did an amazing job.
• Josh Sent on 10/01/2011
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  Fuse was awesome. The tone for the night was set from the very first dance and the floor stayed full the entire time from there on... Unheard of! Comments and compliments about his song selections came rolling in immediately after the reception ended and have not stopped. It's pretty tough to get a diverse crowd of ages and cultures dancing together to music they don't typically enjoy, but there was absolutely no barrier on the dance floor. It was amazing!
  
  I've worked with Scratch in the past on different events, so I was trusting of the process to begin with, but Fuse was an absolute fit for the vibe we were seeking and he provided it and more... not to mention, some of the single ladies later asked about him..

  Fuse was awesome. The tone for the night was set from the very first dance and the floor stayed full the entire time from there on... Unheard of! Comments and compliments about his song selections came rolling in immediately after the reception ended and have not stopped. It's pretty tough to get a diverse crowd of ages and cultures dancing together to music they don't typically enjoy, but there was absolutely no barrier on the dance floor. It was amazing!
  
  I've worked with Scratch in the past on different events, so I was trusting of the process to begin with, but Fuse was an absolute fit for the vibe we were seeking and he provided it and more... not to mention, some of the single ladies later asked about him..
• Kelly Sent on 05/31/2011
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  Using Scratch Wedding was the best decision that I made with my wedding. We used DJ JVC and no exaggeration, he absolutely made my wedding reception! Starting with the prep call beforehand, the Scratch staff were super organized, and I felt like JVC knew exactly what I wanted and was able to make some really great suggestions. He was incredibly easy to work with. He kept the party going all night - literally every person was on the dance floor the whole night. I got rave reviews from everyone.

  Using Scratch Wedding was the best decision that I made with my wedding. We used DJ JVC and no exaggeration, he absolutely made my wedding reception! Starting with the prep call beforehand, the Scratch staff were super organized, and I felt like JVC knew exactly what I wanted and was able to make some really great suggestions. He was incredibly easy to work with. He kept the party going all night - literally every person was on the dance floor the whole night. I got rave reviews from everyone.
• Julie Sent on 11/30/2010
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  DJ Russian Bear was fantastic and everyone at Scratch was an absolute pleasure to work with. Will definitely be recommending them to friends.

  DJ Russian Bear was fantastic and everyone at Scratch was an absolute pleasure to work with. Will definitely be recommending them to friends.
• Kelly Sent on 01/18/2014
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  We hired DJ 4Tify for our wedding and he was wonderful. The only negative, if you can call it that, was that during the father/daughter & mother/son dances the other father/daughters or mother/sons were supposed to be invited out onto the dance floor and they weren't. But other than that he was amazing. The mix of songs was exactly what we wanted and loved every minute of it. Thanks again.

  We hired DJ 4Tify for our wedding and he was wonderful. The only negative, if you can call it that, was that during the father/daughter & mother/son dances the other father/daughters or mother/sons were supposed to be invited out onto the dance floor and they weren't. But other than that he was amazing. The mix of songs was exactly what we wanted and loved every minute of it. Thanks again.
• Danielle Sent on 10/09/2014
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  This company was very approachable and made our day so much easier. We used them because a friend had been married the previous year and had a great DJ so we also went with them. They have an online site which makes picking songs for all of the various events of the day very easy. We had a meeting with our DJ and music manager the week of our wedding and realized we needed to extend the hours to have the DJ start a little earlier and they were able to accommodate us on 3 days notice!
  
  Also, we cannot say enough about how much we love DJ Bounce. Everyone loved his music choices. He kept us on schedule was completely professional and most importantly kept the dance floor packed all night. I highly suggest you request him if you're getting married in the DC/MD/VA area.

  This company was very approachable and made our day so much easier. We used them because a friend had been married the previous year and had a great DJ so we also went with them. They have an online site which makes picking songs for all of the various events of the day very easy. We had a meeting with our DJ and music manager the week of our wedding and realized we needed to extend the hours to have the DJ start a little earlier and they were able to accommodate us on 3 days notice!
  
  Also, we cannot say enough about how much we love DJ Bounce. Everyone loved his music choices. He kept us on schedule was completely professional and most importantly kept the dance floor packed all night. I highly suggest you request him if you're getting married in the DC/MD/VA area.
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  From the very beginning Scratch had great customer service and was very friendly. I inquired about a DJ for my wedding and someone responded very quickly. We had a short chat to discuss my wants and needs, and I was then sent three DJ options that matched what I was looking for. We were able to choose which we wanted, and from there we were matched with DJ Burnsi and an operations manager (Sandra) who helped coordinate things with our DJ before the big day. Everyone was very helpful and I always felt like I was in good hands.
  
  When it came to our big day, we couldn't have been more happy with our choice. DJ Burnsi was amazing at reading the crowd and knowing what music choices would keep people dancing. We received many compliments throughout the night about how great the music was and how much fun people were having dancing. DJ Burnsi also checked in with us multiple times throughout the night to make sure everything was going smoothly and we were satisfied. While a bit on the pricier side, I would recommend Scratch and DJ Burnsi - we feel our choice was well worth the money!

  From the very beginning Scratch had great customer service and was very friendly. I inquired about a DJ for my wedding and someone responded very quickly. We had a short chat to discuss my wants and needs, and I was then sent three DJ options that matched what I was looking for. We were able to choose which we wanted, and from there we were matched with DJ Burnsi and an operations manager (Sandra) who helped coordinate things with our DJ before the big day. Everyone was very helpful and I always felt like I was in good hands.
  
  When it came to our big day, we couldn't have been more happy with our choice. DJ Burnsi was amazing at reading the crowd and knowing what music choices would keep people dancing. We received many compliments throughout the night about how great the music was and how much fun people were having dancing. DJ Burnsi also checked in with us multiple times throughout the night to make sure everything was going smoothly and we were satisfied. While a bit on the pricier side, I would recommend Scratch and DJ Burnsi - we feel our choice was well worth the money!

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