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Rebecca's Wedding Boutique

Rebecca's Wedding Boutique

Louisville, KY
4.7 out of 5 rating, 71 Reviews
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    Leah Sent on 12/11/2023
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    A Wonderful Experience!

    I had the best time finding my dress and accessories here! The whole experience was so wonderful. The entire team made me feel so special!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Hi Leah! Thank you so much for your amazing review about your experience shopping with us at Rebecca's Wedding Boutique in Louisville, KY. We love providing unique, dreamy experiences for brides while helping them have their "say yes to the dress" moment! I'm so glad we had that moment with you :) Cheers!
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    Haely M. Sent on 12/29/2022
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    Dream Experience

    There is so much I could say about Rebecca’s! I booked the Premier Private appointment 9 months before our wedding and it was the most magical fairytale moment that I think most of us dream of as little girls. My stylists Megan and Kaitlyn were so sweet, helpful, and accommodating the entire night with our group of 10 people. I must have tried on 20 dresses because I’m so picky, but my heart definitely stopped when they brought out my dream dress.

    To make it even more perfect they helped me pair it with the most beautiful crown and earrings. I’ve never felt more beautiful and completely surrounded by love and joy from everyone in the building. Even when I came back to pick up/ try on my dress every single person in the building made me feel like royalty.

    Thank you so much Rebecca’s team for helping me pick the most amazing dress for the most important day of my life.

    Xoxo.
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    Alisha B. Sent on 11/04/2021
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    So thankful I got my dress here!

    I went to Rebecca’s just to try on wedding dresses in general as I had no idea how they fit or what style would be best for me and I ended up leaving with my dress purchased that day! The energy the ladies who work there bring makes your experience feel as special as it should. Both myself and the woman who helped me that day ended up crying as I put on my wedding dress for the first time. The boutique is super cute, everyone is so helpful and they are also very responsive to emails! I highly recommend making rebecca’s a part of your wedding experience!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Oh my goodness Alisha you are STUNNING!! Aww we love seeing your beautiful pictures and are so grateful for your sweet words! It was such a joy helping you find your dream dress, and we are so honored you shopped with us!! Congrats!! :)
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    Jessica F. Sent on 07/26/2022
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    Dream Dress

    Rebeccas offers a truly wonderful experience. They made me feel like a princess. My girls and I booked a private room where we had champagne and sweet treats during our stay (I would highly recommend splurging on this). They even greeted me with the cutest sign, "Welcome the future Mrs. Smith". At the end of my stay, I found my perfect wedding dress complete with all the floral lace a girl could ask for! I couldn't have felt more confident on my wedding day.

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Yay, Jessica!! Thank you so much for your sweet words! You looked absolutely stunning on your special day and we had the BEST time helping you fall in love with your dream wedding dress :)
    Congrats again!
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    Alejandra A. Sent on 01/24/2021
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    Amazing experience! HIGHLY recommend!

    I had such an amazing experience at Rebecca's! HIGHLY recommend this boutique.
    I had my family coming in from out of town and with COVID, I wanted to be able to bring more than 1 person. I booked the $75 VIP appointment that allowed for 4 guests. Let me tell you, was so worth it! We had a beautiful table set up when we arrived with champagne and snacks. Very personable and sweet. We had our own room booked for trying on dresses that allowed for enough space for everything. The boutique in itself is designed and set up so elegantly.
    Heather was my personal stylist for the day. She was so attentive! She looked at my pinterest board prior to get an idea for dresses I liked. She checked where my budget and interest were when I got there. She offered for me to go back to the stock room with her to look but I had full trust in her and stayed with my family while she pulled dresses. She stayed within my budget and was awesome at helping me to narrow down what I liked. For being 5'9" and plus size/20W, I was worried about finding and trying on dresses that fit. Was not a problem at all! I was able to buy and take home a dress that day that fit perfectly!
    Thank you again to Heather! Thank you to the other management as well that came in to check on us and offer words of encouragement and support.: Karen, Alex, and Madeline. You all truly made my shopping experience one to never forget. My family and I could tell you all have a passion for what you do and we appreciate the service more than words can describe.

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Alejandra!!! Oh my goodness this is just the sweetest- THANK YOU SO MUCH!! We are so honored that you chose to shop with us, and so happy that you had such an amazing experience :) You are a gorgeous bride and we are so happy we could help you find the perfect dress for you!! We cannot wait for Aaron to see you walk down that aisle!! It means so much to us that you could tell how much we love what we do- it's the best job in the world, especially thanks to amazing brides like you :) Thank you so much for your support, and congrats again!
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    Brianna M. Sent on 11/13/2021
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    So Amazing!

    Working with everyone at Rebecca’s was the most amazing experience. They not only made my experience joyful with Covid protocols in place, they got my dress so quickly, and were kind enough to steam it the week of my wedding. Their communication was amazing and I was so thrilled overall.

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Brianna you are so stunning and so sweet! We are so glad we could celebrate this exciting time in your life with you! Thank you for being a Rebecca's Bride and thank you for your kind words - it means so much to us :) Congrats again!!
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    Taylor M. Sent on 10/04/2021
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    They were GREAT!!

    They were great to work with and very accommodating for the changes I needed to make to my dress. I appreciate them making the experience enjoyable!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Thank you so much for your sweet words, Taylor! We are so happy we were able to help you find your dream dress! We can't wait to see pictures - we are sure you looked absolutely gorgeous!! :) Congrats!!
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    Mcclain M. Sent on 05/23/2021
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    Amazing bridal boutique!!!

    Rebecca’s Wedding Boutique was absolutely AMAZING! They went above and beyond to help me find the dress of my dreams! I drove over three hours to go to their boutique and I would do it all over again to go this wonderful bridal boutique! The staff are so kind, and they genuinely care about you finding your dream dress!!! I can’t say enough about this outstanding group of people! Do yourself a favor and shop at Rebecca’s. You won’t regret it, and I can almost guarantee you’ll find the dress you have always been dreaming of!!!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    THANK YOU for driving to our boutique and letting us celebrate your engagement, your bridal journey and now your marriage!!! We truly love helping brides find their dream gown and helping them feel beautiful and confident :) Thank you for these sweet words and recommendation!! We love you!!!
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    Kelli L. Sent on 11/11/2019
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    Especially Special

    I can't say enough good things about Rebecca's. They were so great to work with and my personal consultant was perfect. She helped me so much as I searched for my perfect dress and was honest with how each dress made me look. Even though I had other dress appointments, I found my dress and felt like a bride. To wrap up the appointment, Rebecca's celebrated with me. They are amazing and I couldn't have asked for a better appointment and place to purchase my wedding dress.

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Kelli you are so sweet! It was absolutely a pleasure to work with you and we had so much fun helping you find your dream dress! Thank you for shopping with us and we are so glad to have you as part of the Rebecca's Bride Family :)
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    Angela Sent on 06/30/2015
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    I came here for my wedding dress because they have a wonderful atmosphere that a bride needs when choosing her wedding dress. They can accommodate large bridal parties as well as a solo bride and they offer a huge selection of beautiful designer gown (this ain't davids bridal) I bought my dress here just like my louisville girlfriends bought theirs here before me. They also have reasonable priced gowns. I bought a Maggie sottero gown for like $800 bucks when I saw the same gown advertised online elsewhere for $1200. And they offer a discount on your accessories and bridesmaids gowns. Love Rebecca's!
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    Amanda Sent on 09/20/2020
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    Highly Recommend!

    Everyone at Rebecca's was wonderful to work with! I went there for a short appointment after having been to two other places and not having found anything. I knew what I wanted but I so far hadn't been able to find it. As soon as I set foot in Rebecca's I had all the help I needed and found the perfect dress on the first try! I was absolutely in love. And since I still had time left in my appointment, my stylist let me try other dresses on to help make sure I found the right one, and to have some fun since it would be the last time I got to try on wedding dresses. That meant so much to me and the family members that weren't able to be at the other appointments. I couldn't have asked for a better experience!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Amanda you are so sweet!! Thank you so much for shopping with us- we are so glad you did! :) You looked absolutely gorgeous on your wedding day and we are so happy for you and Daniel!! Can't wait to see more pictures! Congrats, and thanks again for being a Rebecca's Bride!
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    Becca Sent on 07/01/2020
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    Wedding dress

    Rebeccas was absolutely amazing in helping me find the perfect dress! But they didn’t stop there! They are incredibly helpful all along the way even after the wedding ensuring your dress is safely stored, steamed, cleaned, and preserved!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Aw Becca you are so sweet! We loved working alongside of you for every part of your bridal gown experience :) You looked so gorgeous in your dress and we LOVE the sneak peak of your pictures- what a special day you all had! So beautiful! Congrats, and thank you for being a Rebecca's Bride!
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    Gabby Sent on 11/08/2019
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    Beautiful Dress!

    Love the new building and space that they are in! Everyone is so nice and made me feel beautiful! I love my dress and the bridesmaid dresses!!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Aw thank you Gabby!! We are so glad to hear that - you looked stunning and so did your bridesmaids! We really appreciate your kind words. Congrats to you and Nicholas!
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    Maria D. Sent on 06/26/2019
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    beautiful dress and great staff

    They were so friendly and nice. Everyone made me feel at ease and their dresses are all so beautiful it was hard to decide!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Thank you so much Maria! You made a great choice :) You look stunning in your dress and we can't wait for Trevor to see you walk down the aisle! Thank you for your support and for shopping with us!
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    Lizzie S. Sent on 09/05/2019
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    Wonderful Experience

    I could not have asked for a better experience with Rebecca's Wedding Boutique! I went to Rebecca's & one other boutique, & there was no comparison. All of the staff is friendly, professional, & knowledgeable. My mom & I enjoyed working with Mary, who was our consultant, she was so warm & friendly. I truly believe that I could not have picked a more fitting dress & I have Rebecca's to thank!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Lizzie you are so sweet! Your dress was the perfect one for you and you looked gorgeous in it! Mary and our whole team really appreciate your kind words- thank you for being a Rebecca's Bride! Congrats on your wedding!!
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    Ali M. Sent on 09/23/2019
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    Dream dress at dream price

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique is such a fun and easy place to shop! They are located in an alcove of St. Matthews, where it is easy to park and grab a bite to eat at 211 Clover with your mom and bridesmaids after you shop. The store itself is fun and girly, with calligraphed mirrors, white fur rugs, and tasteful floral prints on some walls. The dress selection is wide, but well-manageable, and the staff help you navigate your options well. I probably tried on 10 dresses during my appointment, and the one I ultimately selected was one brought to me by a bridal consultant after she carefully listened to what I want. I paid around $1,800 for my dress with hem to hollow alterations, but the dress looked like one million bucks. Literally every guest at my wedding called it a show stopper. They send you out of house for other alterations, but provided a credible list of seamstresses. They pressed my dress for free for the day-of, as well. Highly recommend shopping here!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Ali you are SO sweet and this is such a thoughtful and kind review! We are very grateful for your support and really appreciate you shopping with us! You looked absolutely stunning in your gown and were so sweet to work with. Congrats to you and John!! Thanks again, and best wishes!
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    Ines L. Sent on 05/11/2019
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    Found my dream dress

    My experience with Rebecca’s was absolutely amazing. I had went to one other dress shop and there was no comparison. When you think of shopping for your dream dress they met any expectations I had and more. The atmosphere of this place is so elegant you truly feel like a bride walking in. Even though I went shopping alone I still enjoyed every moment when it came to choosing my perfect dress. I felt confident and loved that the employees were helpful and complimentary. My consultant helped any way that she could and was so sweet.
    They also gave me the best recommendations for seamstresses and that worked out perfectly!
    So glad I found them and well worth the 2 hour drive!!!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Ines you are so sweet! We really enjoyed working with you and we are so glad you came to see us - you look beautiful in your gown and we can't wait to see pictures from your wedding next month!! Thank you!
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    Yllena Sent on 06/08/2020
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    Loved my dress!

    They had such a great selection and after trying on a few dresses the stylist I worked with took a look at me and said - I think I know what you're looking for and OMG was she right! My dress was exactly as I had imagined and fit me like a glove. I felt so beautiful on my wedding day, but was still amazingly comfortable. They also worked with me to help my bridesmaids find a dress that they were all comfortable in... bonus: they came with pockets!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Yllena you are so sweet!! Thank you so much for your kind words- it was an absolute joy working with you and your bridesmaids! You all looked stunning! We are so glad you shopped with us, and we are so happy for you and Stas :) Best wishes to you both (and your little one on the way!)
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    Alexa Sent on 05/27/2019
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    Perfect staff for a perfect dress experience

    My dress was gorgeous! It complimented my personality well and was everything I hoped for! The staff was absolutely amazing and every time I went in they were able to help, as well as go above and beyond on everything I expected. Steaming and pressing, making sure all the girls picked up their dressed, and truly making me feel like a VIP!
    If any of you have out of town bridesmaids, or are looking for something that you have not seen before I highly suggest them. I was in there at least 3 times making my bridesmaid try on dresses, looking at colors, and I honestly was there over 4 hours trying to find something that was perfect, and not once did I ever feel that I had over stayed my welcome, or rushed into a choice. I was able to find a dress that complimented my dress as well as fit all of my girls well. They even ship the dress to your out of town girls, so theres one less thing to worry about on your lap!
    You'd be silly not to consider Rebecca's as one of you shopping locations for this big day. Remember ladies, you only get to do this once, find the vendors that make you feel comfortable and are as excited about this event as you are!

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Alexa you are so incredibly kind! It was a joy working with you and your bridesmaids- we are so glad you had such a great experience shopping at Rebecca's! We love what we do, and we really appreciate your support of our small family business. Congrats on marrying your sweetheart Steven!
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    Ellie Sent on 05/04/2019
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    Love you all!

    I appreciated the help of everyone at Rebecca’s. Faye was the one who helped me find my dress - thank you! I love my dress and cannot wait to share pictures with you.

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Aw Ellie you are so sweet! We really appreciate you shopping with us and we are SO excited to see your gorgeous pictures! Congrats to you and Curtis!
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    Cassandra Sent on 11/16/2018
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    Love my dress

    Everyone there made it so easy and a comfortable experience when I was looking for my dress. I never felt pushed or pressured into trying a dress I didn’t want. Your consultants were patient with me and let me try on as many dress as I needed too. In the end I picked the dress of my dreams. I received so many complimented on my dress, I can’t thank you enough. 💖

    Rebecca's Wedding Boutique's reply:

    Thank you so much Cassandra! We are so glad you had a great experience shopping with us- you looked beautiful in your dress and Monica loved working with you! Congratulations and thanks again!
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    Karen Sent on 06/13/2017
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    I absolutely loved my dress and got many, many compliments on it! It was the fifth dress I tried on and love at first sight. I didn't even go to another store. The assistants that helped me were really nice and not pushy, and really seemed to have a good knowledge of the dresses at the store that would fit my style. I added a belt that really "made" the dress, also from Rebecca's. Thanks again!
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    Lindsay Sent on 09/24/2016
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    Rebecca's was the third place I visited to try on dresses. They accommodated my last-minute request for an appointment and allowed me to try on as many dresses as I needed to before I found the one. Their selection was unbeatable and the dress came in more quickly than I expected!
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    Anne Sent on 07/07/2016
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    We visited 7 or 8 bridal gown shops before buying my daughter's dress from Rebecca's. Their selection was amazing, they had the best quality for the price and the service was fantastic. I highly recommend them. We also used them to rent ties for the men in the wedding.
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    Kaitlyn Sent on 06/20/2015
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    Being a plus sized bride, my biggest fear going into wedding planning was finding the perfect dress. Dress shopping is scary for numerous reasons, 2 of the main reasons being budget and selection. When I called Rebeccas to schedule an appointment I instantly felt at ease. They were so helpful in the booking process. During the booking process they asked me questions about the style of dresses I had in mind, who would be coming with me to shop, etc. When i arrived to my appointment, they had already set some dresses aside in my fitting room based on the descriptions i had given them when booking the appointment. I gathered 2 more dresses from the inventory for a total of maybe 9 dresses? The consultant we had was so encouraging and nice. I found my dress within 30 minutes due to the organization of Rebeccas. A day or so later I got an email from my consultant to follow up and see if i had any questions about my dress purchase- etc. I thought that was nice to give a point of contact for future needs or concerns. I would definitely recommend this vendor to any bride searching for a reasonably priced gown.
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