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Rabbi Rochelle Tulik

Rabbi Rochelle Tulik

Rochester, NY
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    Ally Sent on 01/01/2026
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    Couldn’t have asked for a Rabbi more perfect for our day!

    We are beyond grateful that we found Rabbi Rochelle. Working with her from a far and in a town we were unfamiliar with the community, she immediately made us feel so welcomed and prepared. Each step along the way she made it smooth AND fun. The ceremony was nothing but beautiful and to this day, we still have guests raving about how great our Rabbi was. We couldn’t be happier :)
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    Sarah Sent on 10/24/2024
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    We love Rabbi Rochelle!

    Rabbi Rochelle was the wedding officiant of our dreams. My husband and I had an interfaith wedding on a Saturday, so we had a hard time finding a rabbi to officiate, but Rabbi Rochelle wasn’t just willing to do it—she was excited! From the very first meeting we had with her, we knew we were in good hands. She’s kind, funny, open-minded, has wonderful energy, and asks great questions. She made me feel welcome and comfortable as a non-Jewish person, and she worked with us to create a ceremony that incorporated Jewish traditions and other things (like readings and a song) that felt meaningful to us. She was super responsive to our questions and special requests, and she was just wonderful to work with as we were planning.

    Our ceremony was very important to us and the part of our wedding day that we looked forward to the most, and she made it so much better than we could have dreamed. Her words and the energy she created in the room were so deeply moving and joyful, and it felt simultaneously very ceremonious and very comfortable and intimate. We laughed, we cried (a lot), and we felt comfortable being our full selves. So many of our guests remarked on how special the ceremony was, and one told us that he had never seen a couple enjoy their wedding ceremony so much. It was just spectacular. Can't recommend her enough!
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    Eric Sent on 05/06/2024
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    Rabbi Rochelle did a perfect job!

    Rabbi Rochelle did a great job navigating a death coinciding with our wedding.
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    Mitchell Sent on 01/30/2024
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    Wonderful, personal ceremony

    Rochelle did a great job! She met with us three times before the wedding, and it showed, our ceremony was personal, and felt intimate and 'us'. (Several guests reported they cried). Also, the meetings were a lovely way for us to discuss our plans for navigating the future as an interfaith couple (as well as learn more about Jewish wedding traditions), and we both felt respected and welcomed by her.

    Beyond that, she was a lovely vendor to work with. She was very responsive and answered all our questions quickly, and on the hectic but wonderful day she was a calming presence that was deeply appreciated. Overall, cannot speak highly enough of her.
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    Emily Sent on 07/20/2023
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    Wedding officiant

    Rabbi Rochelle was such an important part of our wedding. She did an amazing job with the ceremony. It was so meaningful, poignant, and personal. She made both of us feel comfortable and at ease under the chuppah. We have had many loved ones tell us how much they enjoyed the ceremony and a few even say it was the best wedding ceremony they’ve ever seen. We’ve received a lot of compliments about how well She did! We can’t thank her enough for making the whole process leading up to our wedding so wonderful. We truly enjoyed getting to know her and we hope to stay in touch!

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    Jennifer Sent on 04/24/2023
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    Truly Awesome Experience

    From our initial meeting up to the ceremony, our experience with Rabbi Rochelle was exceptional. She is intelligent, fun, and thought-provoking. With her guidance, we made choices regarding the ceremony's structure that aligned with our values, reflected our relationship perfectly, and brought depth and quality to our ceremony. Rabbi Rochelle made our wedding day special because she took the time to truly get to know us - seamlessly incorporating that knowledge into our day.
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    Andrew Sent on 02/09/2023
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    Incredible Experience with Rabbi Rochelle!

    We had the privilege of having Rabbi Rochelle officiate our wedding in November of 2022. She spent tons of time getting to know us, and was an amazing component to our special day. Of note, Rabbi Rochelle listened to exactly what we wanted to do and she programmed the ceremony accordingly. I would highly recommend her to anyone looking for someone to officiate theirs.
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    Jack Sent on 01/14/2023
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    Rabbi Tulik Was a Wonderful Addition To Our Special Day

    We were referred to Rabbi Tulik from a mutual connection and she was so easy to work with. The ceremony was extremely flexible and we had numerous sessions to get to know each other and our values + expectations. Since our wedding a few months ago, we've heard from more than half a dozen guests how nice and personal the ceremony was that she officiated!
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    Chloe Sent on 12/08/2022
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    Wonderful, memorable ceremony

    Rabbi Tulik met with us multiple times throughout the wedding planning process and patiently guided us through designing a ceremony that was both meaningful and truly heartfelt. Her genuinely warm and caring nature put us at ease as my husband and I navigated this journey together. Our ceremony felt intimate, full of emotions (positively verklempt!), and one of a kind, and we thank Rabbi Tulik for officiating just the perfect wedding for us.
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    Anna Sent on 10/11/2022
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    Rabbi Rochelle created the interfaith wedding of our dreams! :)

    My husband and I were very lucky to stumble upon Rabbi Rochelle's profile online. Admittedly, we never met her prior to looking for someone to officiate our wedding, but from our first meeting it felt super natural and Tom and I knew we found our person! Rabbi Rochelle was our first and last officiant meeting because we knew it felt right (even over zoom). Our first meeting was super relaxed and fun. I am the Jewish one in our couple and my husband is not very religious but has a catholic background. Having a Jewish ceremony was important to me, but we also wanted to make sure that the wedding represented both of us. We met with Rabbi Rochelle 3 times prior to the ceremony and she really took the time to get to know us and what was important to us. She gave us homework that was actually fun (mostly questions about each other and how we met, etc.). We later shared the answers with each other and discussed them at one of our next meetings. We went through the ceremony and the parts of a typical Jewish ceremony, but there was no pressure to include anything. We essentially got to choose our own adventure. She made sure we were both comfortable with every bit of the ceremony. I can truly say that I looked forward to our meetings because it felt like we were working together to create this amazing ceremony that was just for us. Both my husband and I agree that the ceremony was our favorite part of the entire day. It felt relaxed, intimate and special just for the two of us. Also Rabbi Rochelle made sure to explain the meaning behind all of the rituals to people who were unfamiliar and everyone thought it was a lovely ceremony that was easy to follow! We also included a unity candle as part of our ceremony as a nod to my husband's catholic family traditions. I could not be happier with the experience of working with Rabbi Rochelle and because we are local we will definitely continue to stay in touch with her and hope to join her congregation in the future.
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    Christine Sent on 10/03/2022
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    The BEST Rabbi Creating Sweet & Personal Ceremonies

    If you are searching for a Rabbi in the Western/Central/Upstate NY region, stop searching & hire Rabbi Rochelle! Aside from being the wonderfully kind person she is, she allowed us to completely customize our entire ceremony according to our wants and needs. She met with us several times to get to know us & opened up conversations between us regarding our relationship with each other & our plans for how we would want to incorporate Judaism into our lives. Our guests (of varying religious backgrounds) raved about how beautiful & personal our ceremony was.

    Rabbi Rochelle is responsive, always available via email & highly engaged in making this day extra special for you. As a bride planning a wedding, there are lots of stressors & things on your mind - I never once had any worries about Rabbi Rochelle & our ceremony. Its a small thing, but peace of mind in selecting Rabbi Rochelle is definitely not something to be overlooked!
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    Too good to put into words - Rabbi Rochelle is the best!

    From the moment I talked to Rabbi Rochelle, I felt like I'd known her my whole life. She is warm, understanding, and truly made an effort to connect with both myself and my husband and make our wedding ceremony something that would be meaningful for us, as well as my Jewish parents and my husband's Catholic parents. We had several meetings with her leading up to our wedding, and we looked forward to each and every one, feeling more connected to each other after each of our meetings and even more excited for our wedding. So many people (including both of our parents) came up to us and said that our wedding ceremony was the most beautiful they'd ever heard. We are SO lucky we found Rabbi Rochelle, and would absolutely recommend her.
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    Elissa Sent on 03/09/2022
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    Amazing to work with!

    Rabbi Rochelle was amazing to work with! She met with us prior to the wedding several times to learn more about our relationship, as well as plan our special day. The ceremony was beautiful and everything we could have asked for and more. We are so grateful to Rabbi Rochelle for helping make our day magical.
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    Marc Sent on 02/17/2022
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    A meaningful wedding with Jewish tradition that made everyone feel comfortable

    Rabbi Rochelle knocked it out of the park. I am Jewish and grew up Conservative. My wife's family is Christian but she grew up without religion. From beginning to end, Rabbi Rochelle handled our wedding incredibly well. While absolutely a Jewish wedding, she made sure everything was thoroughly explained so that everyone felt comfortable. She was funny and compassionate, and ensured the most important traditions were upheld.

    Bottom line: both my mother and my mother-in-law were happy (shocking, I know).
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    Amazing experience !

    Rabbi Tulik truly went above and beyond to make our wedding day so special! We are still in awe of the beautiful ketubah signing and ceremony she created for us. Despite these crazy times, she was extremely flexible and kind throughout the entire process. Rabbi Tulik took her time to get to know us and add beautiful personal touches to our ceremony. We are so thankful for the warm, unforgettable, intimate, and overall amazing wedding day she helped us create!
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    Ben O. Sent on 08/25/2021
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    Everything we could’ve asked for

    My wife and I got married on short notice because we were moving away for medical school and our future date didn’t line up well with our schedule. Rabbi Rochelle was extremely accommodating and thoughtful. We talked for a long time via zoom and filled out questions that she put together via email. She got to know us and beautifully reflected the information she gained in the ceremony. She has great presentation skills and has a beautiful voice for the scriptures that required it. I grew up Catholic while my wife is Jewish. My entire family could not stop raving about how engaging she was in the ceremony and how wonderful Jewish weddings are. Everyone loved the ceremony, especially my wife and I. I ecstatically recommend hiring her for your wedding.
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    Wonderful officiant!

    We are so glad we chose Rabbi Rochelle as our officiant for our wedding! She was very professional, flexible, enthusiastic, and she created a wonderful ceremony for us. She really made an effort to get to know us, which made it even more special. We had many compliments about how wonderful the ceremony was. We are truly so happy we had Rabbi Rochelle as our officiant and it would not have been the same without her!
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    So happy we went with Rabbi Tulik!

    When my husband and I started looking for a rabbi for our wedding and met with Rabbi Tulik we knew she was the right choice immediately. She instantly made us feel comfortable and really listened to what we wanted. My husband is not Jewish, and Rabbi Tulik made sure to explain everything really well to him and always made him feel included. During all of our conversations she listened to our story and brought in so many elements of it into our ceremony (which was a total surprise!) We had some sound difficulties due to our DJ mixing things up with her mic, but Rabbi Tulik was able to pivot and get some laughs out of the guests, which really lightened the mood. Her whole ceremony was very personalized and heartfelt, but she also injected a bit of tasteful humor into it, which helped relax us. While she was addressing everyone at our ceremony, it also felt like she was always talking directly to us. It felt very intimate and special. She also had a great singing voice! After our wedding, we had multiple people come up and tell us it was one of the best ceremonies they’ve ever seen. At the end of the process, we felt like Rabbi Tulik was not only our officiant, but our friend too.
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    Amazing!

    Rabbi Rochelle was AMAZING to work with. She was very responsive and communicated with us throughout changing our wedding day due to covid. She really wanted to get to know us on a personal level and it made us so comfortable on our big day (especially my husband who is not jewish)! Anyone that was there could tell how much time and effort she took to put our whole ceremony together. Rabbi Rochelle was a huge part of our wedding and we would not have changed it for the world!
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    Kind, attentive and personal

    Rabbi Tulik was fantastic. She married my husband and me over a zoom wedding in the middle of COVID. She was kind and patient. She explained all customs in great detail. She took the time to get to know us and she is a fantastic singer. I loved the ceremony. Best wedding ever!
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    Rabbi Tulik was Wonderful

    We had the immense pleasure of having Rabbi Tulik officiate our wedding. Besides being friendly, accommodating, and professional, what stood out to us the most was how much effort she took to get to know us prior to the wedding. Even though we had only met a few times prior, Rabbi Tulick delivered a beautiful and thoughtful sermon, that perfectly captured the magic of the moment and of our love towards one another. We can't recommend her highly enough.
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    Our Favorite Rabbi

    Rabbi Tulik was the only Rabbi my husband and I considered. We were both raised Jewish but neither of us actively practice our faith or belong to a temple. None of this was an issue for Rabbi Tulik. Her personality is warm, light-hearted, and genuine. She spent time getting to know us leading up to our special day with meetings where we would talk about our relationship or just our day. We would often end up laughing about something and time would fly by. On our wedding day, she spoke as if she’d known us our whole lives and it honestly felt like she had! She made our ceremony about love and joy (while tying in pleasant pieces of Judaism). She included the Jewish traditions we wanted to include (stomping the glass, signing the ketubah) and left out the ones we didn’t (Circling, havdalah ceremony). I am SO grateful to have found her to officiate our wedding - our ceremony was perfect.
    I would highly recommend her to anyone who feels Jew-ish, like us, and is considering a Rabbi!
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    My husband and I had a wonderful experience working with Rabbi Rochelle. Since our wedding was 2000 miles away from home, we had phone conversations prior to meeting her in person before the wedding. She did an amazing job walking us through the whole ceremony, giving us lots of choices and feedback. Overall very supportive and the day of kept everyone laughing and calm. A great choice!
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    We chose Rabbi Rochelle to officiate our wedding through a referral from a family member. We couldn't have been happier with her and with our ceremony. Rabbi Rochelle was fun, yet professional, attentive and patient. She took the time to get to know us and allowed us to have a lot of say in what we wanted in the ceremony. Rabbi Rochelle took the information that she had learned about us to personalize the ceremony, which created a warm, intimate and fun ceremony. We couldn't recommend Rabbi Rochelle more highly. You won't be disappointed.
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    Rabbi Tulik saved the day! She was a recommendation from a colleague of mine. Because I am from the East coast and my now wife is from up north, we didnt know any Rabbis in our area. The moment we met Rochelle, we knew it was a match! She is so bright, intelligent, funny, intuitive, and creative! She also worked with us. Since my wife is not Jewish (we did, however, have a Jewish ceremony) we needed a rabbi who took the time to explain a lot of the process. She also had pre-marital couples counseling to go over strengths and weaknesses in our relationship. SO VITAL! After our wedding was all said and done, everyone, including my mother who has worked in the Jewish community for over 25 years, said "we absolutely loved the Rabbi! Where did you find her!?" We loved her so much my wife is now taking Jewish classes with her to further her knowledge. We very much recommend Rabbi Rochelle Tulik! She's great!
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    Rabbi Rochelle was absolutely amazing. We were recommended to her by a friend, and thank goodness they did! We do not have close ties to a temple, and I am not "technically" Jewish, but Rabbi Rochelle did not turn her nose up at us or judge us in anyway. She understood that although Judaism is important to us, my family was not Jewish, and was able to make our wedding both religiously significant and yet accessible to all. She also understood that we wanted a fairly short ceremony, light on the heavy stuff (and that is was 100 degrees and we were in the sun), so she kept it right on time without ever feeling rushed. It was beautiful, romantic, and catered to exactly what we wanted. I would absolutely recommend Rabbi Rochelle to other couples!
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    I cannot say enough how lucky we feel to have had Rabbi Rochelle marry us just over a week ago. She was warm, fun, and made our ceremony feel very personal.

    My wife and I were looking for a Jewish ceremony more on the reform side seeing as neither of us are the most devout of Jews. Also, we were on somewhat of a tight budget. Rabbi Rochelle was so easy to work with and presented us with a multitude of options for our ceremony and let us customize it exactly how we wanted.

    The best part, aside from the ceremony itself, was the three meetings we had with Rabbi Rochelle prior to our wedding. It really helped us get to know her, and her us, leading to what was a very personal ceremony as opposed to just some fly-by-night Rabbi we hired to marry us and then never talk to again.

    Through this process, Rabbi Rochelle has inspired us to want to learn more about Judaism and we can't wait to have her be our Rabbi and friend for many years to come.

    Thank you so much, Rabbi!

    Sincerely,
    Aaron and Dana
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    Rabbi Rochelle did an AMAZING job with our ceremony. She made it feel very personal, intimate, and sincere. She took what we wrote about each other and turned it into a personalized ceremony. There was not a dry eye in the crowd!!! She met our needs in terms of the level of prayer and Judaism that was incorporated in the ceremony. We couldnt have been happier to have Rochelle do our ceremony and to continue our Jewish exploration with her in the future. Thanks!!!
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    In looking for a Rabbi, it was really important to us that we find a person with whom we could have a personal connection. We spoke with several officiants prior to making our decision, and while we met with many fantastic people occasionally it felt like the person was just going to drive in for our wedding, offer a generic ceremony, and then be out of our lives forever.
    When we met with Rabbi Rochelle it immediately felt different. We could both tell that for Rabbi Rochelle, wedding ceremonies, and interfaith ceremonies in particular, were more personal. She expressed interest in us as people, and in our goals and aspirations for the future, particularly regarding raising Jewish children. She seemed genuinely interested in helping us to start a Jewish family. Whereas with some others our meetings felt a little bit like we were interviewing them for a job, with Rabbi Rochelle we immediately felt that her goal was to guide us and help us. A little bit of sneaky research on our part (sorry Rabbi), and reading her sermon on Intermarriage only confirmed that belief. From the very beginning, throughout the preparatory process, and in the ceremony itself, it was clear that Rabbi Rochelle’s goal was not about the wedding itself, but more about spiritual guidance and making us feel welcome and part of the Jewish community.
    Rabbi Rochelle truly did a tremendous job. Our ceremony was light-hearted, deeply personal, and most importantly for us, really fun! Rabbi Rochelle got to know us as people and as a couple, meeting with us on multiple occasions before the wedding and listening to our wishes while offering guidance and advice. As a result, she really imbued our ceremony with a sense of intimacy. Further, as an interfaith couple interested in exploring Judaism together, we really hoped for a ceremony that everyone could enjoy and feel comfortable in. Our goal was to incorporate Jewish traditions but also to explain their significance and make everyone feel welcome and a part of the ceremony. Rabbi Rochelle did an amazing job at this; our ceremony felt Jewish but at the same time it was inviting and not in the least bit isolating. It was absolutely wonderful. Rabbi Rochelle made jokes, explained the historical and cultural significance of different traditions, and in a very personal way described our story and our love and shared that with our guests. It was an absolutely beautiful ceremony. Everything we hoped for and more. We continue to have guests tell us how great our ceremony was, particularly Rabbi Rochelle.
    We recommend Rabbi Rochelle absolutely and without reservation. Our wedding day would not have been as amazing as it was without her. She was truly wonderful and we feel incredibly fortunate to now count her among our friends.
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    Rabbi Rochelle is fantastic, and I enthusiastically recommend her to Jewish and interfaith couples! For my husband Antoine and I, she provided thought-provoking spiritual counseling before our marriage and a flexible yet meaningful Jewish ceremony for our San Francisco area wedding.

    We met with Rabbi Rochelle four times before the wedding and called/emailed frequently in between, and she was very responsive to our questions and requests, despite being in the midst of planning her own wedding! Most importantly to me, Antoine (who isn't Jewish and has limited experience in synagogues etc) immediately felt comfortable with Rabbi Rochelle. During our sessions with her, she gave us homework assignments that made us think deeply about our values and goals for our marriage (which our friends have since asked to borrow), and she helped us plan a ceremony that both reflected our personal level and style of engagement with Judaism and incorporated Antoine's African-American traditions.

    And what a ceremony it was! Rabbi Rochelle gave a beautiful ceremony and sermon, with just the right amount of humor, and she chanted a lovely version of the seven blessings. Our guests continue to rave about how special the ceremony was. For some, it was their first exposure to a Jewish service, and many went out of their way to tell us how included they felt and how beautiful it was. My mother was over the moon.

    Rabbi Rochelle's pre-marital guidance and her ceremony were the perfect way to start our lives together. Antoine and I feel so grateful to have had her as our rabbi on our wedding day - and for many years to come!
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    Kristina Sent on 10/30/2011
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    How do I even start? We met Rabbi Rochelle because she is a patient of my optometrist husband Dr. Ryan Stybel. Ryan instantly loved her and told me we had to use her as our officiant for our wedding. We met a few times for coffee before the wedding and not only did she become our rabbi she also became a dear friend. She made us feel so comfortable and we could chat about everything and anything! She did an absolutely amazing job at our ceremony and everyone kept asking who was your rabbi?! Can't wait to spend holidays with her and her to be the rabbi for our little Stybels!! :)
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    Jessica Sent on 10/26/2011
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    We were very blessed to have found Rabbi Rochelle Tulik. After securing the venue we really wanted, only a few dates were available to us. We didn't realize how difficult it would be to find a Rabbi willing to marry us on a Saturday, before sundown, in the heart of summer. Feeling discouraged as I contacted Rabbi Rochelle (recommended by a friend, who's co-worker knew her), I was grateful that she wanted to have a conversation with me, to find out why we wanted a Jewish ceremony and why it was important to us. No other Rabbi took the time to ask. At our first in-person meeting, my now husband and I instantly connected with her. It was as though we were spending time with a good friend. She really took the time to get to know us, in order to have the ceremony feel more personal, and it definitely was. She was always professional; always willing to answer any question we had and go over each and every detail. I wish we could have the ceremony all over again, just for the wonderful experience we had with Rabbi Rochelle. She is someone we will always stay in contact with, as she made one of our most important days, that much more special for us.
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    Nina Sent on 08/29/2021
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    Great Rabbi for our wedding!

    Rabbi Tulik was great for our modern Jewish wedding. I was raised Reform and my husband was raised in a secular humanistic Jewish family. Rabbi Tulik was flexible at letting us choose what we wanted to include in our ceremony and following our lead. Our most important criteria for choosing our vendors, including an officiant, was someone who didn't take themselves too seriously. Rabbi Tulik met this criteria perfectly- she was easy going, personable, and not preachy.
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