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Marriage With Meaning

Marriage With Meaning

Paso Robles, CA
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    experienced & reassuring

    We planned our wedding fairly last minute, and Paul was not only very reassuring , but also very patient and thorough with our various requests, and did an amazing job officiating for us. We received multiple compliments from our guests for our ceremony, including comments like, great choice on the officiant.
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    Paul was fantastic!

    My husband and I loved working with Paul for our ceremony and private vows. We were working with him remotely from New York before our CA wedding and he was always responsive and easy to connect with. We had several conversations ahead of the day to get to know him and help him create a meaningful and personal ceremony. He also had great guidance for us on our vows. The ceremony was beautiful and our guests loved how personal and touching it was. He got our license processed quickly and made sure everything was done by the book. We couldn't be happier with his services.
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    Highly recommended

    Couldn't be more happier with the officiant we chose. Paul did an amazing job from the start to the end. Would highly recommend him 👌 you wouldn't be disappointed 😊 Thank you once again Paul.
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    Paul put together such a perfect ceremony for us. It really reflected who were are and what our relationship is all about.

    We couldn't be happier with Paul as our wedding officiant. He took the time to get to know us and put together a ceremony that felt very right and encompassed who we are to each other. I would highly recommend him!
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    Paul Howell

    Paul was the best, very thoughtful, caring and professional. It’s alway hard to put into words your feelings and Paul worked with us and provided samples from the past. This helped us put our vows into the words we wanted to say at our ceremony.

    All our guests commented on Paul, how great he was and how meaningful our ceremony was. All this said, you can not go wrong with Paul.

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    Highly Recommend

    Paul Howell from 'Marriage With Meaning' was a wonderful officiant for our wedding. He was very responsive and took the time to get to know us and our story, making our ceremony feel personal and meaningful. We appreciated his authentic and genuine nature, and he guided us through the entire process, including submitting our signed wedding license. Despite the venue being a bit tricky to find, Paul arrived on time and kept everything running smoothly.
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    If Paul is available for your wedding date - BOOK HIM!

    Paul was the best officiant for our wedding! We loved how passionate he was with weddings and the first thing we noted was that he was a reader and a writer like we were! Paul was very thorough in our conversations and asked very intentional questions and it was clear that he was listening and taking great notes on us. And whenever we’d talk, he would remember the little details we talked about even though we know he’s working with so many other couples!

    What we liked best about Paul was that he wanted to meet us in person before the wedding for an interview that would help him create the perfect ceremony for us. This gave us the chance to get to know him very well and for him to see us physically and emotionally connected to each other as we talked about our love for each other. He made observations about us that we weren’t aware of and was able to create such a beautiful ceremony from that amazing interview. And he is so systematic, where before we met, he provided homework - reflection time in which he wanted us to go back in time in our relationship and really uncover what we loved and were thankful for. It also helped us with our vows and love letters to each other that made everyone cry during the ceremony.

    He even suggested and sent readings over that he felt spoke to our relationship and we found that so thoughtful! Not to mention he really knew his stuff when he walked us through the marriage license process which was a lot more confusing than we anticipated!

    Paul was also just so helpful during the entire process and was completely dedicated to making changes and helping us have the best ceremony of our lives. We can’t thank him enough. If Paul is available for your wedding date - BOOK HIM! You will not regret it! I don’t think any other officiant is able to pull off even half the magic that he did!
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    Paul is the best officiant!

    We would highly recommend Paul Howell for your wedding. He was very responsive to emails and when we met him over zoom he was friendly and so welcoming which is what we wanted for our wedding.

    Day of the wedding Paul's calming presence and experience with weddings really shone. Any hiccups before or the ceremony didn't concern him at all which brought a very calming presence to us and our guests. His ceremony was fantastic and his reading of the Elements of Love was very thoughtful and suited us well from his recommendation.

    I would highly recommend Paul Howell as your officiant he will make sure to make your day feel as special as it deserves to be!
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    Paul To The Rescue!

    We are forever grateful that Paul agreed to take our wedding on last-minute! With just a few week's notice, he was able to put together a beautiful ceremony. We do not recommend putting your officiant search off until the last minute, but if you must, Paul is your guy!
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    Truly a Marriage with Meaning

    We could not have asked for a better experience working with Paul Howell as our Officiant/Reverend. Paul is first friendly, kind and thoughtful. He took the time to get to know us better and put together a wedding ceremony that was perfect in every way. From our love letters to each other, our vows and his experience in getting to know us. So grateful for Mr. Howell, it truly was our marriage with meaning!
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    Nicole & Ryan Elopement

    Paul made the most beautiful custom vows for us and took the time to learn about who we are both as individuals and as a couple. I could not recommend him more!
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    Thank you, Paul!

    We had originally hoped to have a friend or family officiate our wedding but could not settle on who would be the right fit so we started looking for an officiant online. After reading Paul's reviews we reached out and he arranged a time for us to chat via video. He was so easy to talk to and seemed truly invested in learning about our love story. Once he was hired it was easy to communicate and Paul provided several options for our vows which he was open to collaborating with us on to fit our needs. The day of the ceremony Paul was so gracious and came to check in with both of us before the ceremony started. He did such a great job bringing our story to life and there was no shortage of tears and smiles. Many of our guests thought that Paul was somehow related to one of us and were surprised to find out we had only met him once via our video call! We will cherish your special words at our special day forever. Thank you, Paul!
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    Beautiful Ceremony

    Paul was an absolute pleasure to work with. From our first phone conversation, he immediately made us feel comfortable and at ease. He was responsive and gave us great tips/made the process simple. On our wedding day, his energy was so kind, genuine, and warm. The ceremony he put together was everything we could have hoped for. It was truly touching and beautiful. Both of our families loved him and the ceremony. It was so special. Highly recommend!
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    Wonderful experience

    It was a true joy working with Paul for our wedding. It took us a while to find an officiant, but the moment we had our first phone call with Paul, we knew we had found the perfect person. He was very easy to talk to and was also able to grasp and understand our relationship and our story. This was all proven in his ceremony speech. It was both professional yet heartfelt and truly captured who we really are as a couple. It was so well done. We could not have been happier to have hired him for our wedding.
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    We're so grateful to Paul and for the service that he provided, we couldn't have asked for more!!!

    Paul was not only professional and reliable (which every bride needs on her wedding day), but he was so authentic and genuine in both getting to know us and leading us through our ceremony. He really took the time to learn our story and conveyed it in such a beautiful way. The ceremony was flawless and I will cherish the memories that he helped give us on such an important day.
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    Awesome officiant!!

    Paul was a super helpful and amazing officiant. He really made our ceremony a very touching and personal ceremony. I would 100% recommend having Paul officiate your wedding!
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    Meaningful Marriage with Paul!

    Paul was a pleasure to work with and immediately made us feel comfortable and at ease. We found Paul online as we were planning our Paso Robles wedding from NYC, and he was extremely accommodating, took the time to get to know us over zoom, and helped guide us through the process so we knew what to expect at every stage of the process. On the big day Paul was warm, professional, and kind, and did a great job officiating our ceremony. He fit in seamlessly to the setting and the event and really contributed to making us feel great on our special day.
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    A Wonderful Choice To Officiate Our Wedding

    My husband and I had nothing but a positive experience working with Paul. From the beginning, he was always willing to make time for us to answer any questions we had and even conducted a formal interview with us over the phone in order to craft vows that were unique to us. He presented us with multiple options for vows, and even let us combine types of vows to suit our needs. Everything sounded great and I had little need to modify anything in the vows; he was very flexible however and was willing to make any edits we desired. We originally wanted to do a rehearsal the day before the wedding which we scheduled with Paul. We later determined that our ceremony would be very simple and this was not necessary- Paul was fine with this and did not try to charge us for canceling the rehearsal. On our wedding day, Paul arrived well in advance of the ceremony in case we needed anything and officiated for us very skillfully. He also filed our marriage license for us afterwards in the county we reside in. We highly recommend Paul for any couple's wedding ceremony.
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    Professional and genuine

    Paul is nothing short of amazing. He is kind and genuine. We found Paul on The Knot and Wedding Wire and he was highly recommended by our wedding planner Jade Preciado.

    We had two phone consultations with him prior to our wedding ceremony. During the first one we got to talk about his service and his process and decide if we were a good fit. During the second call my fiancé and I both spoke with him. We shared our love story and some things that make us unique as a couple.

    Just by using these two short interactions, Paul, created the perfect wedding ceremony. It was personalized for us and I got to pick from about three different sets of vows. He took all our requests into consideration and he was easy to work with.
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    Our wedding 3/31/23

    When my husband and I first met Paul it was a match made in heaven! We were looking for someone who would let us share our story, beliefs and truly understand the meaning and value of a marriage. Well, Paul understood that completely! He made everything so easy and relaxed on our special day. He definitely took his notes and gave us the most lovable and inspiring speech that was personable to our story. He captured every moment of that and more. I 100% would recommend him to anyone.
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    Professional

    Paul went above and beyond to make our intimate wedding ceremony very personable. Thank you so much.
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    Paul made it custom to our story

    Paul did the perfect ceremony for our magical day. He was attentive to our personal love story and what we were looking for, and he guided us through the whole process. It was touching and unforgettable!
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    Paul was a wonderful addition to our magical day!

    We knew from the day we first spoke to Paul that he would be the perfect officiate for our ceremony. He has a wonderful way with words, He gets to know you as a couple so that he can do his magic with the ceremony. We had a wonderful wedding day! and, are so happy we chose Paul.
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    Professional and Heartfelt

    Paul was the officiant for our wedding in Paso Robles and was absolutely wonderful to work with throughout the planning process and on the day of. His role in our ceremony ensured that it both went smoothly and was a memorable moment for everyone in attendance. He was able to meet with us beforehand to discuss the logistics for the day and to get a sense of our personalities and life together in addition to giving us lots of options and examples to help personalize the ceremony to our preferences. Overall, our ceremony was flawless, and Paul is a kind, sincere, and personable officiant who largely contributed to making our wedding day unforgettable and one of the happiest of our lives. We highly recommend him!
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    So special & sincere

    From the moment of our first conversation with Paul I knew he was the perfect person to marry us. His compassion & sincerity was what we were looking for and I knew without a doubt after meeting him that he would write the perfect marriage vows for us. His energy is so pleasant and he truly took the time to listen to our love story paying such close attention to how my fiancé and I interacted with each other to get a true feeling of who we were as a couple. What a wonderful job he did in helping to make our special day as perfect as can be♥️
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    Great experience!

    Paul was recommended to us by our wedding coordinator. He was very professional and communicative throughout the process. He really captured our relationship in the ceremony. Highly recommend!
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    So happy with our experience

    We are so pleased with how Paul Howard conducted the ceremony and how he spoke about us as a couple, details from when we met with him. Highly recommended
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    Paul was truly memorable and special.

    Paul truly made our experience and wedding special. We were married at the Allagretto Vineyard resort in Paso Robles on Oct 6th 2022. Paul put together a beautiful reading for Brians daughter to read about how people fall in love because of dogs. It was really lovely. I will always treasure this moment. Thank you Paul, you were a big part of making our day special. .....
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    So very happy we found Paul!!

    Paul spent the time getting to know us as a couple, he did an amazing job representing our relationship during the ceremony. Wedding planning can be so very hectic and sometimes the process can take away some of the meaning. We feel that Paul was able to bring us back to just being two people, very much in love, and reminded us how much stronger we are together.
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    Paul was amazing!

    We can’t say enough great things about our experience with Paul. Countless hours of searching for what we hoped would be the right officiant for our wedding day, and omg we were not disappointed. Paul went above and beyond our expectations. He interviewed us months prior to our ceremony to create a custom wedding script and experience that I have to admit, we both cried while describing our relationship and love to Paul. Everything was perfect and this site doesn’t allow for enough words to describe our gratitude to Paul and the perfect experience he provided for our wedding day 08/27/2022
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    Paul is amazing

    Paul took the time to get to know my wife and I, and it showed at our wedding. Many guests assumed he was someone we had known for years, when in reality we had only spoken to him a handful of times. He asks all the right questions, and was super helpful in guiding us as we wrote our vows. I would absolutely recommend him to anyone!
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    Highly recommend!

    Paul was an amazing officiant at our wedding. He really took time to listen to our story and weaves everything into a beautiful message during the ceremony. Several family members mentioned how much they loved how the ceremony was performed. We highly recommend Paul to any couples who are looking for something truly special!
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    Wonderful Experience

    Paul officiated our wedding in May 2022 at CaliPaso Winery in Paso Robles and it was truly wonderful. He crafted a personalized wedding ceremony completely based on our unique love story, personalities, and values. He was able to do this after just one simple phone call where he asked questions to get to know us. He also gave us examples of how we could structure the ceremony and examples of various formats we could use for our vows, which helped us decide what we wanted the ceremony to be like.

    Someone at our wedding even asked if he knew us, which speaks volumes to how well crafted the ceremony was to our personalities and relationship.

    I highly recommend working with Paul if you are looking for a non-religious, personalized ceremony!
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    A fantastic ceremony delivered by Paul

    We were drawn to Paul based on the unique nature of his ceremonies, and he truly delivered on that. Paul did a superb job at learning what made our relationship unique and special and then threaded that throughout the ceremony. We were blown away by his execution and delivery. The whole event was made exponentially more special by the superb job he did. We are truly grateful and would highly recommend Paul to anyone that wants their special day to be a unique and wonderful experience. Thank you again!
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    Highly Recommend!

    Marcus and I decided to renew our vows in front of all of our family and friends for our 1 year wedding anniversary. Paul created such a memorable, personal ceremony that celebrated our love and marriage. Throughout the process, he included us in his writing process to ensure that we have a ceremony that we'd truly cherish. It was also so important to us to include Filipino traditions during the ceremony and Paul was so willing to make sure he highlighted that with the utmost care. We highly recommend Paul as an officiant!
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    An officiant who will truly make your ceremony special

    My now-husband and I wrestled with who to choose as our officiant, because we wanted someone who could really create a special ceremony and we thought that only a family member or close friend could do this for us.  We were wrong!  We found Paul through our photographer's recommendation, and we are so happy we did.  From speaking with Paul over the phone after contacting him the first time, we knew that we were in good hands.  He is extremely personable, warm, and kind, and it shows in everything he does.  Paul took the time to get to know us over a casual coffee, during which we got to tell our story, share our love, and answer some more specific questions.  From this, he gave us examples of "I Dos" and helped us craft our own personal vows.  We also wrote our own personal expressions, which Paul printed on nice paper and had prepared for us at the ceremony.  Beyond that, Paul took what he learned about us and brought it together for the most beautiful ceremony.  We had no idea what he would say (beyond the vows and personal expressions), which made it even more special.  We listened to his speaking and we just felt so seen.  Paul captured our love so perfectly.  In addition, he is eloquent, confident, calm, and professional.  He set the mood perfectly and made it all very special.  In addition to the beautiful ceremony, he also took the lead on our rehearsal so it was all very easy.  If you need an officiant, look no further!  I would highly recommend Paul for any couple getting married.  Thank you for everything, Paul!
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    Best Officiant Ever!

    Paul was the best officiant we could have had. He was extremely thorough, communicative, and cordial. Paul has such an easygoing personality that we felt comfortable throughout every step of the process and the day of. He took the time to assess what we were looking for, the kind of relationship we have, and sent over vow samples and readings to help further personalize our ceremony. On the day of, our ceremony was absolutely perfect and effortless since Paul is a true professional in his craft. We cannot recommend him enough! Thank you for marrying us!
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    In Good Hands - A Review Long Overdue!

    Paul officiated our wedding in October of 2021 and we couldn't be more appreciative of his time and expertise. He truly radiates kindness and his calm presence offered us support like no other. We entrusted him to handle the process from start to finish and he went above and beyond to provide us with a seamless ceremony despite experiencing a delay with the start time due to circumstances out of his control. His attention to detail is truly impeccable and he wove our couple's story together as if he had known us for years.

    We highly recommend him as your wedding officiant!
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    Eric Sent on 11/01/2021
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    Marriage Made Easy

    Paul was outstanding to work with - professional, creative and flexible. I highly recommend him to any couple looking for a great wedding experience.
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    Sahvanna Sent on 09/28/2021
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    So kind and professional!

    Working with Paul was a breeze! He was understanding of our date change due to the pandemic and stayed in touch during our 12+ month wait. He wrote all of our vows and the reading was beautiful! We really appreciated his kind demeanor. Thank you again for being part of our special day!
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    Bianca Sent on 09/20/2021
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    Five stars all around

    We discovered Paul after seeing what an amazing job he did officiating at a friend's wedding. Our plan had been to have him do the same for us in Marin County, but when both our original plans for August 2020 and even our contingency for 2021 had to be scrapped due to pandemic restrictions, Paul was extremely understanding and flexible.

    We ended up getting married in rural Minnesota instead of California, but because we were bummed about not having Paul as our officiant, we had the idea to have him prepare a ceremony to be read for us by someone local. Although this was certainly an unusual request (and a first for Paul), he was helpful and professional at every step of the way, sending us suggested readings and working with us to help combine our diverse traditions into a seamless ritual.

    He completed the written ceremony with plenty of time to spare, so that we could coordinate everything out of state. Hearing it for the first time at our wedding was blissful; we had a very naturally flowing ceremony that was as fun for our local officiant to perform as it was for us to take part in it. The only way this could have gone any better is if Paul were there to do it in person.

    We would 110% recommend Paul to anyone looking to have a unique, beautiful ceremony. He was an absolute joy to work with.
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    Carly Sent on 09/02/2021
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    Warm and wonderful experience

    Paul was so kind, friendly, professional and prompt with everything he did. We immediately knew we found the right person to marry us with the first correspondence! He was thoughtful and caring with the questions he asked us to prepare our ceremony, and we couldn’t be happier with how it went!
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    Jasmine Sent on 07/23/2021
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    He made our wedding day very perfect & very special!

    Paul made sure our ceremony was the most special, meaningful, happy moment of not only our wedding day, but our lives. He took the time to get to know us & learn who we are as a couple. He also reminded us of our love story & what brought us together as a couple. Paul is very creative, he does a custom ceremony and vows which are very unique and special. He is the best & he made us very happy. He made us feel the love & reminded us of the special memories that we shared together. Paul is very attentive & he does everything with meaning from the heart. His ceremony was in perfect detail, he captured everything. Paul is a kind & genuine person. We believe he is the best officiant ever & we are proud that he lead our wedding ceremony! We will never forget our special day & how special he made us feel. Thank you so much for being apart of our day Paul! :)

    Richard & Jasmine
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    Paul nailed it!

    The thought Paul put into our ceremony was absolutely amazing. The cadence in which it was delivered was soothing and meaningful. Paul had mentioned things that we had forgotten we had shared with him. Melanie, my bride was blown away by his thoughtfulness and effort put into our day. Paul, we thank you
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    Cierra Sent on 06/06/2021
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    Helped make our wedding day perfect!

    Paul did an amazing job officiating our wedding and made the ceremony wonderful. He kept it short just like we wanted and got to know us well before hand so that it felt really personal.
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    Josh Sent on 06/01/2021
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    Perfect officiant!

    Paul was perfect. He was available on short notice, professional, thoughtful, and considerate. His preparation was great, and he made our special moment very special.
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    Paul made our wedding ceremony perfect!

    Paul officiated our April 2021 wedding in Santa Barbara and it was absolutely perfect!

    From our first call, Paul was attentive, kind, and showed a genuine interest in our love story. Paul used this interest to create the perfect ceremony for us! He allowed us to choose readings, and what type of 'i do's we liked best and offered to proofread our self-written vows. Our ceremony was so personal and intimate and I will forever be so grateful for Paul!
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    Intuitive and Kind

    Paul was the perfect person to choose to officiate our wedding. This was our second marriage, it was a micro wedding and we wanted something traditional as well as unique.
    Paul really took the time to hear our love story and he worked in all our important aspects into his lovely ceremony.
    We could not have asked for a better person. Thank you so much Paul. You are the best!
    Teri and Ralph
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    Michael Sent on 11/05/2020
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    Easy and Helpful

    Paul was very helpful from the beginning. My wife and I wanted someone who could help us make the ceremony into what she had imagined. She wanted to add some religious quotes and paul was great at helping to merge those into the ceremony. He gave me tips when writing my vows and made the whole experience very easy. Day of was a snap with him there.
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    Rachel Sent on 09/09/2020
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    Perfect Ceremony with Paul

    Paul was an absolute pleasure to work with as our officiant. He took the time to get to know us on a personal level before the ceremony. He provided us with many options and great ideas to customize our ceremony, write our personal expressions, and create vows that felt true to our relationship. Paul officiated our ceremony in an eloquent and comfortable way, bringing a special feeling to the ceremony. He made our wedding day so memorable, our families and guests loved him, and we could not imagine our special day without him! Paul is your guy!
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    Monica Sent on 08/09/2020
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    Cass Winery micro wedding

    Thank you Paul for officiating our intimate ceremony! Due to covid restrictions / our previous wedding being cancelled we had to put a new wedding together last minute. Paul was recommended to us through our new wedding coordinator and he did not disappoint. He was very accommodating, understanding and was able and willing to construct a ceremony that fit our personalities and needs in a short amount of time. He made our wedding day one that we will never forget - Thank you again Paul!
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    Charlotte Sent on 05/26/2020
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    Beautiful elopement

    Paul was fantastic , couldn't do enough for us. He facilitated a Skype meeting to help us arrange out wedding as we live in the uk. He helped us put together a really personal ceremony including a wine ceremony!
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    Kylee Sent on 05/02/2020
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    Incredibly Thrilled!

    Paul was absolutely amazing officiant for our ceremony! It all started from when I sent him an email at 8 in the morning and by 9 we had a chatted on the phone! I was incredibly grateful for his responsiveness. His flexibility for our ceremony was also exceptional! But really the best part was the absolutely meaningful message Paul created for my husband and I. Due to COVID-19 we ultimately decided to have a ceremony with just the three of us. Paul still took the time to write such a meaningful message that we cant wait to replay for years to come! What makes Paul special is that he takes the time to learn about your love and what you seek in your union. His message is hand written and custom based on my husband's and my background. When he spoke it felt like we had known him for years! I would highly recommend Paul as an officiant to friends and our dearest family members because I know how special of an experience he creates.
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    Shannon Sent on 04/25/2020
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    Paul was our dream wedding officiant!!!

    Paul made our destination wedding come to life! He is not only professional, but really made my husband and I feel relaxed and at ease throughout the entire planning process. We were not able to meet Paul in person due to our work location before the wedding, but he made the commitment to call both of us beforehand, getting to know each of our perspectives about how we picture our ceremony and vows to one another. Please do not hesitate to hire Paul! If you want a sincere, down to earth, caring and professional officiant that really sees your overall vision of your perfect ceremony and will execute it beautifully on your big day, then look no further! THANK YOU PAUL!
    From - The Pilitteres
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    Mark Sent on 04/22/2020
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    Our deeply beautiful wedding ceremony planned in 10 days.

    Wow! We are deeply grateful to Paul for orchestrating our beautiful, personal and fun wedding ceremony. We didn’t know Paul at first, but he had a plan. It all started with homework. Yipe! His questions gave us the opportunity to put our feelings into words, and helped Paul start his process of crafting our personalized wedding experience. With our homework in hand we met with Paul and talked for hours. Soon thereafter, Paul provided ideas and options for the ceremony features and flow. He actually wrote three set of vows for us to consider! We came to meet Paul after moving up our wedding date (a lot), and he guided us through the entire process in 10 days. We thought from the start that we were in good hands with Paul. We were so very right.
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    A key piece to our magical day.

    I can't say enough about the magic that Paul brought to our ceremony! Paul made it so very personal, taking the time to learn about us and what we hoped for, both in each other, and in the ceremony. Paul's personality was the perfect fit for our perfect wedding. I can't imagine anyone else officiating our service. I'll never forget how the sun set over the vineyard, just as you proclaimed us husband and wife. Thanks Paul, for being such a key part of our special day!
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    Isabeau Sent on 03/16/2020
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    Kind and Professional

    I love Paul! He made our ceremony soo special and loving! He really talked so professionally about love and what really matters and he made my husband and I sooo happy with his service! Crazy story he married my sister too! 🥳🥳
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    Jonathan Sent on 03/03/2020
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    Wedding Officiant

    Paul was simply incredible from start to finish. When my fiance told me that we had an hour long appointment over FaceTime with Paul, I told her there was no way it would take that long. Boy was I wrong. We talked to Paul for over an hour and a half and the entire time it was like talking to an old friend and we just had to catch him up on all the details of our relationship. The follow up service of providing tons of reading material and a wide range of vowels to choose from that felt vary tailored to our relationship. The ceremony was expertly executed and the speech Paul had written was beautiful and so well spoken. Can't recommend Paul enough.
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    Ali J. Sent on 03/01/2020
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    Pismo Beach Intimate Wedding

    Paul was an amazing officiant! He captured our personalities and the details of our love story perfectly. His dedication to getting to know us and our family in preparing for our ceremony was impressive. He had great attention to detail and made the day even more special with added readings and unity ceremony. He had an open mind to our suggestions and offered great advice to help us through the day. We highly recommend him for any special ceremony.
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    Michele Sent on 02/04/2020
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    Amazing & Personal Experience with our officiant

    We lucked out with Paul as our officiant through an elopement package. After I received Paul's name I checked out reviews & I was so happy to read all the positive experiences other couple have had with Paul. He lived up to all the hype! We skyped Paul to meet (we lived 3-4hours north)& answer question for Paul to get to know us. My husband & I wanted a simple wedding that reflected who we are individually & as a couple. Paul was able to personalize our ceremony every step of the way. It was different & unique to what we have worked for our relationship to be. I love that our entire ceremony start o finish is our own, including our vows & personal sentiments. We had such a fun, easy, organic experience with Paul to create our ceremony. He was a tremendous help leading the way, giving input, & listening to what we were brainstorming!
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    Paige Sent on 12/27/2019
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    Thoughtful officiant - just right for us!

    I contacted Paul through his website only about 6 weeks prior to our ceremony. We were planning a small wedding (20 guests) at Allegretto Vineyard Resort in Paso Robles. Paul was very warm and thoughtful over the phone, and helped guide us through creating the type of ceremony and vows we wanted - which was much appreciated since this was a first wedding for both of us and we had no idea what we were doing! He arranged a lengthier phone interview with both of us to detail what we like about each other, stories about our relationship, etc. that he could use in the ceremony. He then sent us MANY examples of vows other couples had chosen to write for each other, to help give us a launching point for writing our own. We touched base a few times before the ceremony, and he arrived early on the day ready to roll. He tracked down our witness to sign the marriage certificate and made everything easy and stress-free on us. We found it very easy to work with him on our short timeline, and I got compliments from our guests on how lovely the ceremony was and also that they particularly liked the officiant (which I don't think a lot of people say about weddings so that was really meaningful). I wouldn't hesitant to recommend him to any friend or family member for another wedding.
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    Lisette Sent on 11/26/2019
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    BEST Wedding Officiant EVER! Paul created a wedding ceremony better than what we dreamed of.

    From the minute we first began speaking with Paul about our wedding ceremony, we were taken with his genuine and thoughtful demeanor. He wanted to make sure we had the ceremony we truly wanted, and gave us plenty of room to create our own experience, while guiding us through ideas and sample experiences of others. He asked a lot of good questions about us as a couple, and us as individuals so he could get a good sense of who we were and what we wanted. Not only did he help us build the ceremony of our dreams, he really "got" us, and shaped everything toward what he knew was important to us.
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    Rob W. Sent on 11/25/2019
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    Better than we Imagined

    Amy and I are very non-traditional 'wedding people' in that we didn't want the traditional flow of a wedding ceremony. There were some aspects of the nuptials that were important to us, but we mostly wanted a brief, simple, and yet very meaningful ceremony.
    Shortly after we contacted Paul to express our interest in having him officiate our ceremony, we had a telephone conversation to get to know each other. The conversation with Paul was easy. He's a caring and skilled communicator and put us at ease right away.
    The day of the wedding he called to ensure everything was going as planned. When he arrived he spent time getting to know us and our guests. The ceremony itself was perfect. He met and exceeded all our expectations (and we had a few). He also was thoughtful enough to integrate the attendees into the ceremony, so they too felt part of the bond.
    We highly recommend Paul and are still very grateful to have had included him in our special day.
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    Amy R. Sent on 11/25/2019
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    Took the stress out of the ceremony!

    Of all of the things that I was worried about planning our wedding, finding the officiant and setting up how the ceremony would flow was a huge one! When we started talking to Paul, he immediately took those worries away. From the design of the ceremony, the writing of the vows, and the day of the wedding, it was easy, fun and very genuine. Thanks again Paul!
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    Mark Sent on 11/14/2019
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    Passionate about what he does and wonderful to work with

    Paul was a pleasure to work with throughout the ceremony planning process and delivered a beautiful, personalized wedding ceremony for me and my wife. He was very engaged and enthusiastic when we initially talked to him over the phone so he could learn more about my wife and I's story and it was clear that he is passionate about what he does. Any time we communicated he was extremely helpful and prompt in his replies which was greatly appreciated. My wife and I loved the ceremony and several guests made positive comments as well. We're so glad we went with him as our wedding officiant!
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    Barry Sent on 07/15/2019
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    Paul is superb!

    We were thrilled to have Paul as a part of our big day! He is a very kind and warm person. What he spoke about during our ceremony was very genuine, meaningful, and from the heart. Paul, we thank you so much for being our officiant on our day special.
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    Kevin Sent on 07/05/2019
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    Sincere words of love

    We really appreciated Paul's sincerity and genuine manner that he brought to our ceremony as officiant. His message at the ceremony was uplifting and really captured the essence of the love we are giving to each other and the lifelong connection we are making as husband and wife. We had an intimate ceremony with just a few family, and everyone commented on how touching Paul's words were. Thank you so much, Paul, you really made our ceremony special!
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    Lisa Sent on 06/17/2019
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    Book paul before it's too late! He's one of a kind!

    Our first meeting with Paul was at a little coffee shop which set the mood for our wedding planning. Working with Paul was the best decision we made. Paul had many helpful suggestions and tips for writing our vows and poems to be read. Paul even asked our preferences on his attire.

    Since John and I had been together for 28 years, we wanted to have a ceremony that celebrated our life together yet, was still a wedding. Once Paul knew we were having our wedding at the Fess Parker Vineyard in Los Olivos, Paul suggested having a wine toast during our ceremony which truly put a different spin on our ceremony that was magical and perfect! We purchased wine from the vineyard and brought our toasting glasses and laid out on the top of a wine barrel, which made for amazing pictures.

    For me, I hate when you book something and never hear from that person again. Paul does not do that. If he is busy on someone else's wedding, he'll answer you and let you know he'll get back with you, he does not just ignore you, which as a bride put my mind at ease. Once our wedding was 1 week away, Paul continued to check in for any changes and to just let us know he was ready. We never felt that we were out of contact with Paul.

    Paul, John and I thank you for taking the time to meet with us and understanding our 28 year love story. The ceremony you planned for us was perfect from beginning to end.
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    Rhonda Sent on 06/03/2019
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    First Time Bride at 62! #dreamsdocometrue

    Paul was the perfect choice to perform are small but special ceremony. He has a way of using the right words to paint such a beautiful picture encompassing the uniqueness of the relationship. He is most definitely doing what he is meant to do and we were so grateful to have found him, you will be too!
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    Mario Sent on 05/28/2019
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    Book him before it’s too late!

    Book him now before it’s too late! Paul was a great officiant. He’s busy for a reason. When you meet him you will feel right at ease. He took his time with us and listened to our story. He asks the right questions and gets to know not only about you, but also gets to know who you are as individuals and as a couple. The ceremony itself was great. He is well spoken. Both solemn and funny. He knows his business. He will craft the ceremony to your wants and will offer plenty of great guidance if you aren’t sure what you want. We were genuinely moved by his words. Paul is easily accessible and stayed in contact with us from the time we met through the day of the ceremony. You can’t go wrong with Paul as your officiant.
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    Kathryn Sent on 04/06/2019
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    Heartfelt, personal wedding ceremony

    Paul created a ceremony that reflected our personalities and love for each other. We received many compliments on how personal and meaningful the ceremony was from our guests. Paul was easy to work with and spent time getting to know us. He responded quickly to our questions and ensured our wedding day and ceremony were perfect for us.
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    Like Family

    Paul was able to perform our ceremony in a way that made many of our guests believe he was our family. Paul was on time and extremely caring. We are so honored and thankful he performed our ceremony! THANK YOU!
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    Andrea Sent on 03/01/2019
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    Happy to have found Paul to marry us!

    We were coming from San Diego to Paso Robles to elope. I found Paul online and I am very happy I did. Paul helped my new husband and I to choose our vows and Paul spent time with me on the phone and made me feel very comfortable with his calm demeanor. Paul met us in plenty of time on the night we were married to go over the small details. I would definitely refer Paul to other couples!!
    Andrea
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    Paul Howell - Marriage with Meaning

    "Marriage with Meaning" perfectly describes Paul. His care, attentiveness and skill in providing suggestions and then listening and designing exactly what we wanted in our ceremony are truly remarkable. We hoped to find someone who would perform our ceremony and we were blessed to find a man who made it an even more beautiful and memorable celebration.
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    Best Officiant on the Central Coast

    Paul was an amazing officiant (and our quasi-wedding planner!). We were looking for an officiant for a simple wedding somewhere near Paso Robles between Christmas and New Year's. It was our second marriages and we wanted the ceremony to be as much about our union as the union of our kids into our new family. Paul guided us through every step of the planning, helped us prepare our vows, suggested ideas on how to include the kids, referred us to a great photographer and location, and even suggested a great Italian restaurant for our wedding day dinner. I highly recommend him if you are looking for a personal and professionally performed marriage, and want it done well.
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    Perfect Officiant for your Perfect Day

    Look no further, you've found the perfect officiant for your perfect day! My, now, husband and I were looking for an officiant and came across Paul. Paul was the first to call back and emails that were sent were responded within a timely manner. We had a one Skype interview with Paul and I swear he captured us perfectly. During the wedding weekend, Paul was there for the rehearsal, gave us a clear walk through of the event and even joked around with our families. The big wedding day- Paul was perfect! He came up with a saying that our families will probably use for the rest of our lives but Paul captured that and made our wedding, light, fun, funny and honestly, the best day ever. If I had to do it all over again, I would choose Paul every time.
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    Wonderful!

    Paul was a delight to work with. We booked him months ago in preparation for our November wedding. We were unsure of where to find an officiant and luckily WeddingWire helped us find Paul. He spoke to us months ago and began to write our dream ceremony. The day of, he brought us all to tears by perfectly capturing who we are as a couple and what it meant for all our family/friends being there. He also incorporated a unique Tequila ceremony into our wedding which we adored. I could go on and on about how much we loved having him but I’ll stop here. If you need an officiant, look no further.
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    Samantha Sent on 11/26/2018
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    The Perfect Ceremony

    My husband and I could not have imagined a more perfect ceremony than the one Paul wrote up for us.

    We were very set on a non religious ceremony, but didn't want the ceremony to be any less special or touching because of it. Neither of us had any idea what to expect, but the final outcome was more than we could have imaged up ourselves. Paul perfectly portrayed my husband and I, and what we mean to each other, and the flow and length was perfect.

    We received so many positive comments about what an amazing job Paul did from all of our guests!
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    Sherry Sent on 11/17/2018
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    It Wouldn’t have Happened Right Without Paul

    Paul met with us and interviewed us and gave us a beautiful introduction to our wedding party. Without him, the venue would not have been as well executed. He had a lot of creative ideas, and, yet, he was very experienced and able to guide us with respect to traditional practices. We will forever remember his services, and highly recommend him.
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    Samantha Sent on 11/04/2018
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    A Thoughtful Ceremony

    We really enjoyed working with Paul. We live across the country so Paul was happy to jump on phone calls or Skype with us during the process. He provided helpful examples for us to write our personal expressions and suggested including our parents in the ceremony through readings which my mom was very excited about. Paul really does provide a meaningful wedding. He works to get to know couples and delivers a thoughtful ceremony.
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    Gary Sent on 10/25/2018
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    The ceremony we've dreamt of

    Just had a wedding ceremony with Paul in early October and it was everything we've dreamt of. Paul has a soothing, kind manner that made us at ease even at stressful moments of the wedding. Both us the wedded couple and our guests were totally immersed at the atmosphere of the wedding and felt the love and unity in the air. I can't be happier with Paul's service.
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    Bernhard Sent on 10/25/2018
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    Perfect Wedding in the Redwoods

    Paul was the perfect officiant.
    But first a little backstory about our wedding.
    Me and my fiancée (now wife), eloped to California from Austria, Europe.
    Paul helped us in every way imaginable. He was there for us almost 24/7.
    He gave us information about the wedding permit/licensing; he helped us choosing the perfect venue for our ceremony and helped us securing the permit for the venue (we got married in the redwoods).
    For the ceremony itself, Paul was perfect. He had this amazing speech prepared, which felt unique and authentic and he guided us through with such a calm, friendly charisma. We’re grateful, that Paul was part of our special day.

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    Janice Sent on 10/20/2018
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    Paul was so personable

    Paul was so personable as our officiant. He was professional and so easy to work with. He captured the very essence of what marriage meant for us. We highly recommend Paul!
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    Lisa Sent on 10/08/2018
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    Paul is the sweetest man. He made everything so easy for us and wrote the perfect custom ceremony for us. He allows you to do as much or as little as you want in creating the perfect ceremony for you. He’s very responsive and patient. There’s a kindness about him that really gives you and your guests a sense of warmth, familiarity, and of course love! I can’t recommend him enough for your wedding day. My husband and I will be forever grateful for his immense contribution to our amazing day!
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    Lisa Sent on 10/06/2018
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    This officiant is absolutely amazing! We have gotten countless compliments on our wedding ceremony! The ceremony was personal, meaningful and intimate and we consider ourselves extremely lucky and grateful to have had Paul marry us!
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    Lauren Sent on 09/03/2018
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    My husband and I just got married on 8/18 in Pismo Beach. Paul was extremely accommodating and was a pleasure to work with! He walked us through the entire process, even providing vow & reading samples to make our ceremony complete. Paul truly catered to our ceremony to incorporate bits and pieces of what makes our relationship - simply us! That is actually what attracted us to work with Paul in the first place! Unlike many others in the business, Paul scheduled a good amount of time to speak with us to ask questions about our love story, really getting to know us. Since we didn't want our ceremony to be religious, crafting it more around our unique story and love was a wonderful alternative that worked for us. Even during our wedding rehearsal, he was patient, personable and offered great guidance. We would highly recommend Paul to officiate your wedding - you will NOT be disappointed. It was absolutely beautiful and perfect!
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    Adele Sent on 06/25/2018
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    Paul was the a perfect addition to our ceremony and day. He really took time to get to know us and gave us a lot of helpful resources to help us develop our statements. We are so thankful we chose him!
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    Alex Sent on 06/18/2018
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    I don't usually leave reviews but felt compelled to do so for our Officiant Paul. He was without a doubt the most professional, personal, & kind Officiants we met. He did an outstanding job. He really went the extra mile to get to know us. His message was personal & thoughtful. I really can not say enough nice things. You won't be disappointed!
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    Kelsey Sent on 06/06/2018
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    Paul was awesome to work with! From the first phone call to the ceremony, my husband and I felt like he really knew our journey! I would recommend Paul to anyone!
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    Casey Sent on 05/29/2018
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    Paul is a very thoughtful officiant who tailored the ceremony to exactly what we were looking for. He is a total pro and my wife and I are so fortunate to have had him!
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    Chris Sent on 04/16/2018
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    Paul was fantastic. We planned our wedding less than two weeks out, and he was very accommodating to make sure we had a good wedding. He is a genuinely nice man. We couldn't be happier.
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    Mario Sent on 02/05/2018
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    Paul was terrific. He picked out just the right things to say and the readings he picked were so wonderful. He put in words what I was thinking and didn't have time to do. He was a big help and so friendly. He's the best.
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    Deidre Sent on 12/11/2017
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    We live in Texas and our wedding was in California. So, as you can imagine, planning remotely can be a bit daunting and nerve wracking. However, planning the ceremony portion of the wedding with Paul was absolutely seamless. We seemed to connect immediately on the phone and his organization really put me at ease. It is obvious that Paul enjoys helping couples craft their ceremony. I highly, highly recommend Paul. He is helpful, prompt and genuinely kind. You won’t be disappointed. Thank you, Paul!!
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    Vania Sent on 11/19/2017
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    Paul was such a wonderful officiant and I can't recommend him enough. He made us feel at ease with all the wedding itters and wrote a wonderful and intimate ceremony. He also suggested a wine ceremony (which we absolutely loved)! He also made himself available for our wedding rehearsal, which helped us out tremendously. Thank you Paul for making our wedding so memorable. - Vania and Mark
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    Lindsey Sent on 10/30/2017
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    Paul did a great job with our ceremony. We are both non-religious and did a good job creating a meaningful script for the ceremony and incorporating things about us. He even did a good job fielding awkward comments from my grandmother, who thought he was a pastor (haha). Out wedding was at the beach during a big camping trip with family and knowing he had the ceremony taken care of really helped my stress level. Everything turned out perfect and I'd definitely recommend him to anyone looking for someone in the area that specializes in non-religious ceremonies.
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    Lauren Sent on 10/18/2017
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    We are so grateful to have had Paul as our Officient. He spent time getting to know us, our history and glimpse our love for one another. It translated so beautifully on our special day. Paul weaved through the transitions of the wedding naturally and eloquently with his soft spoken words, heavy with meaning. It was the best day of our lives! Thank you so much, Paul, for laying the foundation of our marriage, we are so blessed to have you officiate our day!

    With love,
    Lauren and Mac
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    Sarah Sent on 10/16/2017
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    Paul was absolutely amazing! He made our special day run so smoothly. He took the time to get to know us so everything felt so personal!
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    Andrea Sent on 10/11/2017
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    Chad and I were fortunate enough to have Paul officiate our wedding, and we couldn't be happier. From the start we could tell we were dealing with someone who cared about knowing us - knowing about our relationship. We lived across the country from the location of our central California wedding, and Paul made our discussions work by phone, Skype, and email. He got a sense our relationship, what kind of ceremony we envisioned, and then he provided us suggestions for potential readings, and different styles of vows (both traditional and contemporary). With his help we didn't have to worry about the ceremony itself, and it came together perfectly with a reading from a friend, a wine ceremony (because we love wine and wineries), contemporary vows, and personal expressions that we read to one another. After the ceremony he offered to help wrangle up family and friends for photos - which was well above and beyond his call of duty. And finally, just a week or so after the wedding he sent us a package with copies of our personal statements on lovely stock, and a card wishing us the best.
    We couldn't be happier with our experience working with him, and we would highly recommend Paul to anyone looking for a wedding officiant for the central coast of California.
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    Heather Sent on 09/26/2017
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    I was so thankful to have found Paul. He took great care in getting to know us, our love story, and how we wanted the ceremony to be. He was extremely organized, detail oriented, and quick to respond leading up to the wedding. On the big day he put everyone at ease and at home. Every detail was perfect! He even mailed us copies of our vows and the ribbons we used during the ceremony! Highly recommend.
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