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A CEREMONY of the HEART

A CEREMONY of the HEART

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    Kelly C. Sent on 08/08/2022
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    An Amazing Officiant and Human Being

    Mary Jean is, without question, the best of the best. My husband and I chose to work with her after an initial consultation and we could not be happier. She genuinely and sincerely, cares for the couples she works with and puts her all into creating a unique, custom ceremony that works for you. She took the time to work with us together on the actual ceremony, but worked with us separately on our vows, so as to ensure that we were aligned (nothing worse that one person's vows being 10 pages long and the other one being a paragraph!) and the tone/context was in sync. She was inclusive of our little guy and she added so many moments where he could be an active participant. On the day of the wedding, she arrived early, prepared with our vows printed for us, and she was such an amazing help/support. What can we say? We simply love her and you will too. Hire her without hesitation!
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    Evan H. Sent on 01/28/2020
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    We forever hold her in our heart!

    Mary Jean Valente was a huge part of the best day of my husband's and my life! Our wedding day will forever be in my heart and we are very grateful to have had Mary Jean by our side on the day of and the days prior.

    Mary Jean took the time with loving patience and sincerity to truly get to know us. As we were not located in the same city, our 'meet and greets' were restricted to telephone calls. However, that did not hinder Mary Jean's ability to hear and understand who we are as individuals and what we wanted for our special day. Her warmth, spirit and positivity were strongly felt throughout the process's entirety.

    She was extremely professional and prompt with all means of correspondence, while also being very personable and fun! Mary Jean was proactive in setting meeting times that accommodated our schedule and was attentive to what we had to say, while also guiding the conversation to ensure we discussed everything that was necessary.

    Mary Jean has extensive knowledge on many ceremonial practices, faiths, vows from various cultures and approaches. With that being said, she is very open to what you may have in mind, while also being constructive with her input and can offer excellent resources and advice to make it all happen.

    We could not have had the magical day like we did without her support and guidance. We forever hold her in our heart.
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    Ash Sent on 08/05/2019
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    Love Mary Jean!!!

    Mary Jean is so amazing and personal! She put so much work into our simple elopement ceremony up on the beach. She is truly amazing and takes the time to get to know you and personalize the ceremony to fit who you are! She spent hours with us planning on the phone and was just so fun and sweet! She gave so much guidance and help during the whole time! She even typed up the ceremony in a sweet program and gave it to us at the end! Adorable!!! She will always be part of the family! Loved having her officiate the wedding! Thank you Mary Jean!
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    Jj De T. Sent on 08/08/2019
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    A magical, wonderful, custom tailored experience that we would not trade for the world and will remember for the rest of our lives

    I can’t properly describe how wonderful Mary Jean is or how much she contributed to our wedding. Not just the day of, but the entire process working alongside her in the planning stages was such a detailed, special, and deeply moving experience. Mary Jean made my husband and I feel like we were the only people in the world and the most special couple on Earth throughout the planning stages. She is so passionate about what she does, bringing such a warm and kind energy into the whole process. Our ceremony and wedding day would not have been nearly as monumental and enriched without her expertise, ideas, and genuine passion for what she does. All of my questions, fears, doubts, and worries were eased throughout the process as she helped me and my husband develop our ceremony together. We all laughed and cried together while creating the perfect ceremony. And on our wedding day, all our wedding guests mentioned to us how much they enjoyed her energy and the experience she cultivated. She brings forth a wealth of experience and ideas and has the exact personality and heart for her role. I can not recommend her enough. You will thank yourself in spades after working with Mary Jean for your big day.
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    Max Sent on 12/11/2017
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    SO WARM AND PROFESSIONAL
    My now husband and I were married in September and the best choice we made was having Mary Jean as our officiant. She created the most beautiful, personal and unique ceremony for us and all along the way, she made sure it was fun, easy and meaningful. We had the wedding of our dreams and will always remember what a lovely person Mary Jean is and how well she took care of us. Our parents, families and friends are still telling us how much they loved our ceremony and wished they could have had her at their weddings. Thank you so much Mary Jean!!!!
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    Monica Sent on 01/10/2017
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    Mary Jean Valente is such an amazing person, she helped us from day one and we are so Happy we found her. My partner and I have been together for 6 years and we wanted to make sure we chose someone who was kind, loving, funny and patient. Mary Jean was all that and more. She really broke down the ceremony step by step for us, put everything down in writing for us to look over weeks before the ceremony. She was open to opinions and questions and she made our wedding day very Memorable. We were soooo happy that she was fine with Marrying us on New Years Day (not many people want to work on holidays). To top it off she offered to drop off our License at the county Clerk office for us, she just made sure the process was simple for us and we love her for that.

    Thank you Mary Jean for everything!
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    Amber Sent on 09/17/2016
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    We just had our wedding in August 2016, and Mary Jean was the best decision my husband and I made in regards to our wedding. We were both so pleased with Mary Jean's perfect execution. She really went out of her way to make us feel at ease and comfortable with everything. We had a nondenominational wedding, and Mary Jean catered to us so beautifully. She made sure we knew exactly what she was going to say, and where she was going to add some improvisation (which is something she is VERY PROFESSIONAL about). If you want someone who will give you exactly what you want, she's your gal. We had a very comprehensive meeting with her in person months before the wedding, and she got to know more about us as a couple, what we liked, what we didn't like, what we valued, etc. Mary Jean was a former wedding planner, so she had so much experience and advice that we didn't know we needed. She was super responsive with her emails, her phone calls, and was always on top of EVERYTHING. In short, Mary Jean was perfection.
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    I am literally at a loss for how grateful I am that Mary Jean was our officiant. She helped us craft a ceremony and select just the right words, the flow, and how we wanted our day to be expressed. What a difference a real pro can make in a situation like this... so many guests told us afterwards "Best wedding I've ever been to!" and we know it has everything to do with how Mary Jean took the time to get to know us, helped us express our love and our personalities. I cannot recommend A Ceremony of the Heart enough!!!
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    Christina Sent on 04/30/2016
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    If we could give her a million stars, we absolutely would. Mary Jean was simply amazing. For two people who started with zero ideas about what we would want for a perfect ceremony, Mary Jean inspired us to create something completely our own. Her ability to help guide us through the customization process was truly a wonderful experience in itself, and we could not be more grateful to have had an officiant who is not only clearly passionate about what she does, but is also such a pleasure of a person to get to know and work with. Our guest could not stop talking about how unique and lovely our ceremony was and how great Mary Jean was at telling our story. If you are looking for an officiant who will truly create a ceremony unique to you, do not hesitate in contacting Mary Jean. You will not be disappointed. Love her!
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    Ashlea Sent on 03/29/2016
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    MJ was great! Very personable and made us feel very comfortable. She was very professional and gave us a wonderful experience for our intimate wedding.
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    Natasha Sent on 03/20/2016
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    I found Mary Jean (A Ceremony of the Heart) on Wedding Wire and I am soooooooo happy I did! Mary Jean exceeded all my expectations. My husband and I, along with our extended family felt she went above and beyond to make our wedding the most special event ever (and isn't that what everyone wants?)!! Her warm and inviting personality and voice instantly put my stress level at ease. Her planning and delivery of everything we asked (and she even thru in a little more!) was delivered in a true professional fashion. We never felt rushed, stressed or panicked at any point during our special day. Mary Jean even advocated that we have our pictures taken at our special spot on the golf course! We ended up getting way more than what our money was worth!! I would absolutely recommend her to anyone. If you want a true, unique, intimate, special wedding, then A Ceremony of the Heart will deliver that and more! Thank you Mary Jean. xoxo Natasha and Phil
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    Till Sent on 03/09/2016
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    MJ was awesome!!! She was so engaged and really gave her best to make our day as beautiful as possible. She helped not only with the vows but even with picking the location and coming up with an agenda. We couldn't have had a better wedding! THANK YOU
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    Porsche Sent on 03/07/2016
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    MJ was simply put, AMAZING! From the moment we first made contact, I felt like I was in good hands. MJ was so professional and incredibly helpful- she even had a lot of info on the venue I had chosen, so that was a huge stress reliever for me. She spent so much time with me in our face-to-face meeting, and even more over email and phone working with my husband and I to create our dream ceremony. She was patient, sweet and loving the whole way and we are incredibly grateful to have had her to marry us. She listened to our wants, and executed them flawlessly. Our wedding was way more beautiful than I could have ever hoped for or have ever imagined. MJ is THE BEST! You would be lucky to have her.
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    Very knowledgeable and professional, would absolutely recommend; put together the perfect words for the ceremony and handled all of the paperwork and filing details
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    Julie Sent on 03/11/2016
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    Mary Jean officiated at my beloved great-grandmother's celebration of life service, and without her, I'm not sure how I would have gotten through this very difficult day. Having never written a eulogy before, and being nervous about getting it just right, I was amazed how MJ coached me in the days before the service. She guided me so well that the words I had written came to life magically, telling my grandma's story so beautifully. And did I mention that MJ spoke with me for hours regarding the service and eulogy on both Christmas and MJ's own birthday? It takes an incredibly dedicated, special, and compassionate person to give this much of themselves. Just beyond amazing!
    Besides all that, she planned and officiated at the service itself and her absolutely mesmerizing voice and words touched everyone and made it hard to believe that she had never met my grandma. She added so many special touches and thought of every detail that she made such a sad day uplifting and just so special.
    I look forward to a happy ceremony so that MJ can once again bring her magical, spiritual, joie de vivre to a happy event and her amazing presence can shine down on myself and my family and friends.
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    Mary Jean is amazing! She officiated my great grandmother's funeral and on one of the toughest days of my life helped me immensely. It became a unique celebration of life rather than a depressing service. She knows exactly what to say and to when to say it, and she made me feel so much better with her kind, reassuring words. She is such a warm and caring person.
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    Jill Sent on 11/26/2015
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    My husband and I found Mary Jean through an online search... This simple act was the beginning of a lovely relationship. From day one and throughout each conversation, meeting, and email, Mary Jean was honest, genuine, warm and kind. She exuded sincere interest in us, our views and our vision for the ceremony. She was attentive and took care to make sure things were done correctly. She even listened to heat of the moment wedding planning woes and offered to help. At the ceremony she was happy, excited for us and followed through with everything as expected. We invited her to join our reception, stay for dinner and just enjoy the night. She accepted and was fun, engaging and fit right in, snapping photos and having a good time. We feel honored to know her and to have her as the person to marry us after 13 years together. She was so warm and lovely and made us so comfortable we'd do it all over again!

    Jill and Marc
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    Mary Jean was recommended by a friend. He had recently had her officiate his wedding and gave her glowing reviews. Mary Jean was amazing from the beginning. She made us feel like our wedding vows and ceremony would truly be one-of-a-kind and she absolutely delivered. From the moment we met, Mary Jean helped us create a unique and meaningful ceremony, as well as assist us in putting our personal touches into our vows. She was incredibly accessible throughout the months leading up to our wedding and really made us enjoy the entire process. One of the most consistent compliments we received after our wedding was how thoughtful and personal our ceremony and vows were and how excellent Mary Jean was as our officiant. We cannot recommend her services highly enough!
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    MJ Valente made our day the most wonderful time we could imagine. There was no pressure and all the details prior to our ceremony went exactly as planned. There were no surprises. She provides exacting details of what needs to be done and who to see. Everything was perfect and with lots of awesome sauce!
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    Mary Jean was absolutely incredible from the time we met her all the way through the process of building our program, developing our vows, and then the actual wedding day. We had so many guests comment on how they truly enjoyed her, and felt we had known her for years. We actually had just met her a couple of months before the ceremony, but now it feels like we are old friends. She worked very hard to get to know each of us individually and as a couple, learned much about our history which she incorporated into our ceremony, and made our day absolutely perfect. I'm happy to now call Mary Jean a true friend.
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    The best thing we did for our ceremony was finding Mary Jean! From the very first moment we spoke, I felt like she "got us" and sincerely cared about helping to make our ceremony a special and enjoyable experience for the two of us. Throughout all the planning she always made sure we were happy and comfortable with everything. Her flexibility and creativity is step above the rest! This particular ceremony was a pre-ceremony as my Fiance and I were getting married in Hawaii. We wanted to have a sort of "sending off" with close family and friends. Mary Jean was not only completely open to this idea but so willing to accommodate our special request. Thanks to her, It was a beautiful and unforgettable experience! So many of our guests commented on how much they enjoyed our ceremony! Thank you Mary Jean. We are so grateful to have found you. You helped to make our day so unbelievably special. We will always remember the love and care you brought to our lives and to our ceremony. It was truly a Ceremony of the Heart. -Katie & Tom
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    Mary Jean officiated my wedding at the Arboretum and despite the stress I was under because my outdoor wedding got rained on and was subsequently moved indoors, Mary made the day seemed effortlessly. From the moment she announced me through the end of ceremony, Mary reassured me everything was under control. All my guests complimented me afterwards what a beautiful ceremony and never mentioned the rain. And you know what? I don't remember the rain either :-)
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    Mary Jean was the minister at my Mother's funeral. She was very comforting and compassionate. Our whole family could feel her warmth and sincerity. She was truly the calm in the heart of the storm for us in this trying time.
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    November 4, 2014


    Mary Jean Valente
    A Ceremony of the Heart


    Dear Mary Jean,

    I can’t thank you enough for officiating at our recent wedding.

    From first to last, your deep experience and heartfelt commitment enriched our wedding experience.

    I remember our first meeting together. In that conversation, you drew out of us our thoughts and feelings about the wedding ceremony. That enabled you to guide us toward the particular wedding ceremony that was most suitable for us.

    In following conversations, you took our ideas for the ceremony and added depth and style to so many elements of the ceremony (the exchange of rings, the reading of poems, the prayers).

    At the wedding ceremony itself, your joy was contagious, and amplified all the meaning and feelings of our experience of the event.

    Our marriage got off to a great start, thanks in no small part to all you brought so generously to the ceremony.

    Thank you, Mary Jean.


    Randall Adams
    Pasadena, California
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    Im so happy that we chose Mary Jean to officiate our wedding ceremony. She made our day very beautiful and special. She is a positive, spontaneous, understanding and warm hearted person. Mary Jean made us feel calm and gave us time to just be in the moment!

    We found Mary Jean on Wedding Wire and once I called her up on speaker phone we both knew she would be perfect for our ceremony. She answers her emails and phone calls promptly, answers all your questions and make sure you get a ceremony you will not forget. She is kind and understanding and I would recommend her to all my friends!

    Thank you Mary Jean for making our ceremony so amazing and memorable! Love always.
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