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WhollyMatrimony4U

English
Ceremony Rehearsal
Interfaith
Non-religious
Sydney
Alyssa
Brooke
Adrianna
Rachel

Recommended by 100% of couples

About this vendor

LET'S GET MARRIED TOGETHER!

Hello, Lovebirds! I'm Jim McFarlin from WhollyMatrimony4U, an ordained lay minister based in Champaign, Illinois. In addition to being a wedding officiant I am an award-winning professional writer, experienced public speaker and former standup comedian, making marriages memorable since 2007!

I've performed more than 300 weddings over that span, and while I don't mean to brag (clearing my throat here) my many awards suggest I'm pretty good at it. My goal is to create an experience that exceeds your expectations while leaving a lasting memory for you, your relatives and friends.

I'm happy to perform secular as well as religious and interfaith ceremonies, and will incorporate unity candles, sand or wine blending rituals, tree plantings and other unique elements upon request. I once spent a week learning about the Hispanic custom of the "lazo," or wedding lasso, to accommodate one couple's desire! I'm willing to do the homework and consult with you to ensure that your ceremony is personalized and customized precisely to your wishes. (And BTW, from years of experience, the ideal wedding lasts no more than 22:30.)

I also perform vow renewals. Though based in central Illinois, I'm a Michigan native and work across a six-state region that includes Michigan, Indiana, Ohio, Wisconsin and Missouri. Everything I do is designed to fulfill my company's name: it really is wholly matrimony –– 4 YOU!

  • State licenses in IL, MI, OH, IN, MO, and WI

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Black-owned

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FAQ

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$125

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

IL
IN
MI
MO
OH
WI

What languages do you speak?

English

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The officiant is highly praised for crafting a personalized, heartfelt ceremony that blends humor and sincerity. Reviewers praised his professionalism, prompt communication, flexibility, and rehearsal support. Guests called the ceremony the highlight of the day and many highly recommend him as an affordable, exceptional choice.

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The officiant is highly praised for crafting a personalized, heartfelt ceremony that blends humor and sincerity. Reviewers praised his professionalism, prompt communication, flexibility, and rehearsal support. Guests called the ceremony the highlight of the day and many highly recommend him as an affordable, exceptional choice.

Sydney
Sydney Sent on 11/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

An Absolute Joy to Work With!

Jim added so much joy and many memories to our wedding day! He was responsive and ensured any questions we had were answered. Jim joined us for our rehearsal and clearly walked us through everything we needed to know to feel comfortable the day of. He did such an amazing job of curating the ceremony around every detail of my husband and I’s relationship. He was enthusiastic, funny, entertaining, and charismatic. With Jim leading the ceremony we truly felt in the moment and present. We could not have asked for a better ceremony. So many of our guests complimented Jim on what a wonderful job he did and asked how my husband and I found such a perfect officiant. We are so grateful to have found Jim! 🤍
Alyssa
Alyssa Sent on 08/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing!

Jim was absolutely AMAZING!!! I’ve had many guests come tell me he was the best officiant they have seen. It was truly a beautiful service. He worked well with our hectic schedules before the wedding as well. I would 100% recommend him to anyone and everyone I knew getting married. Very affordable!! For the service he provided I would have expected (and paid) for probably 3Xs the amount he charged. If you’re looking for an officiant- he’s your guy!!!

*I have no photos at the moment because our photography hasn’t gave them back yet and we were cell phone free on our night*
Brooke
Brooke Sent on 10/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Best experience we could have hoped for!

I don't even know where to start! Jim was an absolute pleasure to work with. From the moment we first had a chat/consultation with him, we knew we were in amazing hands. Jim's personality is infectious and his professionalism is outstanding. Weddings and ceremony scripts were very new to my fiance and I and we had no idea where to start. Since we do not have strong ties to religion, we were not familiar with anyone who could officiate our wedding and we did not know any family or friends who would do it. Jim was our saving grace and not only made the process easy, but created such a beautiful ceremony script that we will remember forever.

Jim truly took the time to get to know us as a couple and you can tell how much he enjoys this line of work. His flexibility helped us prepare for our wedding in a timely manner and we knew we could put our trust into him. If you are having any issues finding someone to officiate your wedding or have no idea who could make your day more special than you could imagine--Jim is your guy! He is a true professional in his craft.
Adrianna
Adrianna Sent on 10/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Hire him immediately!

You will not get a better officiant. He got to know our story and truly made our ceremony so special. He is funny at the right times and professional and so easy and fun to work with. I've received so many compliments from guests about how he was the best officiant they had ever seen at a wedding. He is worth every penny and will make your day special.
S
Stephanie Sent on 10/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Whollymatrimony4you

We reached out to Jim through TheKnot and from the first response we got, I got tell it was going to be a lovely experience. Jim has a way of writing words out to where you can read them and almost hear him though you’re only reading words on a screen. He is very good with words and it showed in our ceremony. Though I could not hear all of it because I was tucked away, during the ceremony he gave the crowd many jokes to lighten the mood in the post professional way. The ceremony he provided was beautifully written. He lead me and my fiance through the entire process and was very clear, up front, and thorough. He came to the rehearsal and helped us run through the ceremony to provide ease, and was early and helpful before the ceremony. I would HIGHLY recommend using Jim for any marriage services because he is very professional, efficient, and genuinely a great friend to have along the stressful wedding planning process. We could not say enough good things about him!
Rachel
Rachel Sent on 09/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

👏👏 Jim is amazing!!! 🤩 👏

Jim McFarlin was so wonderful, he was professional, entertaining(not in a corny way), flexible, and actually cares about the couples he marries. He even impressed our very traditional family members!!!! Overall definitely the right man for our wedding.
Margaret
Margaret Sent on 09/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Ceremony in Champaign

Jim was fantastic to work with, and helped make our ceremony a memorable one. He also really came in clutch for our rehearsal and helped us get everyone familiar with their roles. We're still getting compliments about the ceremony!
Kat
Kat B. Sent on 10/16/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Phenomenal

Jim was an absolute amazing officiant.
We got so many raving reactions and reviews from our guests. They were all impressed by his humor, his showmanship, his knowledge of us as a couple, and hit sincerity. A lot of my guests were shocked that we had not known Jim for many years.
Above all else Jim helped calm my nerves about planning a whole wedding, assisted my husband with his vows and put so much love into the whole experience.
From the first message asking about his services to the hug goodbye at the reception Jim went above and beyond. We both really felt like we had a friend guiding us.
BOOK THIS MAN PRONTO!
Emilie
Emilie Sent on 10/14/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Choose Jim!

When looking for an officiant for our wedding, we knew that we wanted someone that felt like a friend instead of a vendor. We knew Jim was the perfect fit before we even finished reading through his first email. Jim worked to truly get to know each of us independently, how we are as a couple, and the future we envisioned for ourselves. When it came to the day of our wedding, amidst all of the nerves and excited energy, we could hear Jim cracking jokes and entertaining our guests as they waited for the show to begin. As the ceremony continued, Jim was intentional with his words and painted a vivid and beautiful picture of our relationship. Even months after our wedding, friends and family still talk about the humor, the compassion, and the charm that Jim weaved throughout his narrative. We absolutely could not recommend him enough! Thank you, Jim- we will forever cherish the memories of our incredibly perfect wedding day!
M
Marty Sent on 10/09/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Jim. is. awesome.

Jim is honestly one of the best officiants I’ve ever seen. He seamlessly blends comedy and romance into the ceremony and puts on a great show for the guests. He is so flexible in doing several types of ceremonies and he works so hard on getting to know his clients. we were working with him from a distance and only got to meet him once before the wedding but he immediately felt like family. 10/10, A+, S-Tier, two enthusiastic thumbs up.
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