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Rebekah and Bunner Gray
Rebekah and Bunner Gray
Owner

Veteran-owned, Woman-owned

2 years in business

We speak English

2 team members

The Barn on Gray House Farm is a wedding farm-style venue in Hulbert, Oklahoma, nestled on 10 acres of mature woodland, parks, and countryside views. Couples who dream of a wedding in nature are sure to fall in love with this venue's open spaces and rugged landscape. The homestead is home to several rentals overlooking Fort Gibson Lake, doubling as a charming retreat for honeymoons and anniversaries. The whole wedding party will be able to stay overnight in one of the luxury rental homes, adding to the appeal of this venue.

Facilities and Capacity

The Barn on Gray House Farm is a purpose-built venue for weddings and other grand affairs and is perfect for ceremonies and receptions. Future newlyweds can get ready onsite in one of the luxury dressing suites before walking to their indoor or outdoor ceremony site. Guests can mingle beneath the sheltered patio for cocktail hour, enjoying appetizers and drinks before heading indoors for the reception. Inside, the barn features an open-plan layout with ample facilities for catering companies and bar staff to prepare food and serve guests. Elsewhere on the farm, The Lodge is available for overnight accommodation and can sleep up to 14 people. In keeping with its log cabin aesthetic, the building is surrounded by towering trees and features multiple decks with an outdoor hot tub, sauna, bar, and comfortable suites.

Services Offered

Wedding packages for The Barn on Gray House Farm feature event rentals, parking, and exclusive access to the venue. The company will provide tables and chairs for the ceremony and reception. Couples are welcome to hire the catering company, florist, DJ, and officiant of their choice.

Pricing information

$1,700 starting price
$2,500 average price
Reception
$1,700 starting price
Ceremony
$1,700 starting price

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$1,700

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$1,700

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$1,700

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$1,700

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
Parking
Tables

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

50

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

5

Describe your venue:

Barn
Farm/Ranch
Waterfront

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What event items are available?

Chairs
Tables

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

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Reviews of The Barn on Gray House Farm

Weddingwire
5.0/5 4 reviews
Google
4.9/5 70 reviews
C
Carley Sent on 11/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Day

It was a remarkable place so beautiful, it was a perfect place for our Wedding. Highly recommend
J
Jessica Sent on 10/24/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Dream Wedding

We cannot wait to have our wedding! With the beautiful lake views, the tall surrounding trees, and a beautiful indoor/outdoor venue, it’s a dream come true! That is also kind to our wallets!!
R
Rebekah Sent on 10/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Great venue on the lake with overnight cabins!

The Barn on Gray House Farm was the perfect place for a wedding over Fort Gibson Lake! They have several lake cabins within walking distance to the barn. One even has a bridal path leading to the back of the venue. Highly recommend this one!!!
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Rebekah and Bunner Gray
Owner

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