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Welcome & congratulations, you found LOVE, you found THE ONE!

I am a certified Love, Sex & Relationship Coach, based out of Ashland, Oregon, specializing in helping engaged folks create a container of play, passion & pleasure for their wedding that lasts a lifetime.

Listen, you know the stats & they aren't pretty, 50% of all marriages in the USA will end in divorce. I am on a mission to empower couples from the very beginning of their conscious container with the tools they need to keep & maintain a thriving, partnership!

This relationship transformation journey is a combination of gentle trauma release paired with empowerment tools in each session. I sprinkle in tantric wisdom and practices allowing you to see each other eye to eye, soul to soul. I also contribute with my lived experience in an integrated, thriving, passionate relationship of 24 years (and that's with FOUR kids)!

I help couples weave together a vibrant tapestry of soulful communication, deep somatic healing and sexual discovery in a 5 month coaching container. Our time together is co-created so your energy, your love, your desires are always our North Star and each session is fueled by what's currently alive in your relationship and in your hearts.

Therefore, I don't spell out what we will do week by week because our container is alive and always changing! During this sacred journey themes can cover, but are not limited to...
Compassionate Space Holding
Nervous System Regulation
Deep Inner Healing
Meet My Inner Child
Healing at the Root
Core Wound and Core Need Explanation
Clearing Male/Female Relationships
Couples Breathwork Activation
Erotic Intimacy Exploration
Sacred Pleasure Practices
Breathwork & Sex
Exploring an Edge
Sensational Play
Sex, Love, Spirit Breath
Primal Sacred Sex
Chakra Sex Play
Manifestation with Sex Magic

When you partner with me as your coach, I will teach you how to use your sexuality as a healing tool for yourself and your partner, how to have better, more meaningful sexual experiences together thriving as a vibrant power-couple in a sacred relationship that fills your life with energy, ecstasy and magic.

I am so excited to meet you!
Sending you love & light,
Melanie

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$2,600

Which of the following are included in the price?

Premarital Counseling

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$2,600

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
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NE
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NY
NC
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OH
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PA
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What languages do you speak?

English
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Lily K. Sent on 08/07/2023
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Melanie is a gift

Receiving coaching from Melanie has been a potent transformational gift. She moved with me through some of the deepest, darkest places of my spirit - from the shadow to the bliss - with absolute acceptance and wisdom.
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Amanda Sent on 08/07/2023
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Pleasure Reclamation

From the moment I met with Melanie, my body felt at ease. Her energy was just so vibrant, energizing, warm, and present. I felt like I was fully welcomed and accepted. As she guided me through the coaching process she was so patient in working with me at the pace I needed to go. I felt empowered to take my time and really clarify what it was I truly desired. I am so grateful I got the opportunity to work with her.
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Sarah G. Sent on 03/16/2023
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New Zest with The Best

Melanie was a pro at rejuvenating our relationship before the BIG day! We entered our marriage with so much love and appreciation for one another as well as communication tools we can use for a life time!
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Melanie Bonk
Melanie Bonk
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Hi, I am Melanie. You are welcome here!

First congratulations - you found love!! Love is by far the most important aspect of my life and I hope it is for you also!

I have been head-over-heels in love w/my man for 24+ years, I am a mama to 4 boys, a hardcore nature junkie, a tantric mystic, a CrossFit Coach, and most importantly I am a certified LOVE, SEX, & RELATIONSHIP COACH!

I specialize in couples coaching, I help engaged couples create a conscious container of play, passion & pleasure that lasts a lifetime. Together, in this 5-month coaching container, we will weave a vibrant tapestry of soulful communication, deep somatic healing and sexual discovery allowing you to enter your union without the stories of the past, allowing you to thrive and up-level together as a vibrant power couple.

I'm a graduate of VITA™ Institute, a uniquely advanced and in-depth coaching certification for sexuality, love & relationships. After 650+ hours of live trainings, lectures, workshops ranging in topics from LGBTQ+, Anti-Racism, Trauma, Stress-Cycles and Emotional Responses to Pelvic Floor Anatomy and over *215 hours* of supervised practicum work including a deep dive into modern neuroscience, relationship transformation, men's sexuality and tantra I can't wait to share what I have learned!

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