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Ellen Scher Wedding Officiant

English
Ceremony Rehearsal
Interfaith
Civil Union

Why couples loved this vendor

  • Seasoned Professional
  • Officiant
  • Great Planner
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Recommended by 100% of couples

About this vendor

A Couple's Choice award winner!

Hi, I'm Ellen Scher and I'm a romantic at heart who promises to make sure the new chapter of your love starts off perfectly.

My favorite thing is helping couples with planning to make sure their wedding script and vows are perfect and the experience is as they envisioned. I can ‘hand hold’ as much as is wanted or not all all - it’s your call. Each couple is different and I am sensitive and respectful of that.​

I am proud to be featured in the forthcoming National Geographic book, OUT IN THE WORLD, as an LGBTQIA+ inclusive officiant who celebrates all love.

I'm a New York native who traveled to California in a VW bus with my husband and daughter in 1976 ... and never left. I love living in Monterey Bay—although I still prefer east coast bagels and pizza.

I love all things glitter, family, gardening, relaxing on the beach, and exploring the world.

As a full-time wedding officiant, you're my priority and I'm always here to help.

That's it about me. now I hope to get to know you more, too!

Call or text: 831-998-2674.

Website: www.ellenscher.com

Features

Woman-owned

FAQ

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$150

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Jewish
No Denomination
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviews of Ellen Scher Wedding Officiant

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Ellen is an exceptionally warm, organized, and responsive officiant who consistently makes ceremonies personal, flexible, and stress-free. Reviewers praised her prompt communication, helpful paperwork support, and ability to craft meaningful scripts for elopements and weddings. Many described her as calming, professional, and highly recommendable.

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Ellen is an exceptionally warm, organized, and responsive officiant who consistently makes ceremonies personal, flexible, and stress-free. Reviewers praised her prompt communication, helpful paperwork support, and ability to craft meaningful scripts for elopements and weddings. Many described her as calming, professional, and highly recommendable.

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Justin Sent on 04/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Ellen was just awesome

How do you incapsulate a moment in a personal time, Ellen, procured the trust you need in a very special and intimate moment. Communication was spot on, she became a friend more than an officiant. Totally respected our space, time and needs. This is an incredible lady.
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Chelsey Sent on 09/02/2026
5 out of 5 rating

2 week notice!

Ellen was an absolute lifesaver and the sweetest soul we could have ever hoped for on our wedding day! We reached out to her with just two weeks' notice, and from her very first response, her warm and super sweet personality instantly put us at ease. She was incredibly flexible and completely went with the flow—she literally did not even know the exact location we were heading to until I met up with her on the way to our Big Sur ceremony! On top of being so wonderfully adventurous, adorable, and adaptable, Ellen took care of all the paperwork seamlessly, making everything completely stress-free for us. She brought the most beautiful, loving energy to our day, and her kindness made our ceremony feel so incredibly special. We cannot recommend this amazing woman enough!
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D S Sent on 08/04/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The Best Surprise Vow Renewal

My wife and I traveled to Santa Cruz for our tenth anniversary. I contacted Ellen mere days before our arrival - she responded immediately with her availability. We worked out a time and place to renew vows, emailed and texted about wants and desires for the ceremony. She was prompt with everything, arrived on time, and was as excited as myself to surprise the wife with a vow renewal ceremony. She took photos, personalized the vows for us, and made it the highlight of our trip. Thank you again Ellen!
Barry
Barry Sent on 07/28/2026
5 out of 5 rating

A Helping Hand and a Warm Heart

Thank you so much for being our wedding Officiant, Ellen. You were always so responsive, kind and helpful. From our first contact, you were availalbe to answer questions and help us plan our event. You always took our calls or got back to us quickly. And you always had helpful answers to our questions.

Our wedding was impressive. Beautiful weather. Beautiful location. Beautiful ceremony. You helped create this successful start to our married life, Ellen. We'll have fond memories forever!!!!

Thank you.
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J. Rabon Sent on 07/25/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Officiant!

Ellen was amazing! She was incredibly easy to work with and was very adaptable in creating a ceremony script that felt personal to us. She made our ceremony truly special, and we highly recommend her!
Alyssa
Alyssa Sent on 06/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The Perfect Person to Marry Us

We could not have asked for a better officiant for our wedding. From the very beginning, she was kind, professional, organized, and genuinely invested in making our ceremony feel personal and meaningful.

If you’re looking for an officiant who is thoughtful, reliable, and truly cares about her couples, we highly recommend her.
Adam
Adam Sent on 06/02/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Expert and Professional Guidance on Our Biggest Day

My husband and I booked with Ellen for our special, private elopement in Big Sur, CA. Ellen coordinated with us months in advance as we planned with our vendors. It was also important for us to create LGBT+-affirming space, and Ellen was supportive and excited from the very first contact. Every question was answered and she provided guidance from her vast array of wisdom as an officiant. Ellen played a pivotal role in making our day both flexible, yet perfect. We are already excited to hopefully book with her again when we renew our vows in the next decade.
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Alyssa Sent on 04/20/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Hire Ellen to be your officiant! :)

Ellen is so wonderful. She made herself available to answer any questions from the start of the vendor selection process through the after wedding support with the marriage license! We are so grateful to have worked with her and recommend her highly!
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Trusha Sent on 02/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Carmel Intercultural Elopement

Right from the first moment we spoke to Ellen, she has been nothing but warm and kind. She infused the mundanities and stress of wedding planning with benevolent enthusiasm, going above and beyond in helping us identify a good location for a private elopement. She provided us with wonderful scripts to choose from and was wholeheartedly amenable to our alterations. Her love and dedication to what she does is evident as she works with couples to design a ceremony that aligns with their vision. We highly recommend Ellen, no matter the type of wedding/elopement!
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J Scott Sent on 12/13/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding in Carmel by the sea !

Overall, extraordinary experience, Ellen pointed out a couple very important needs in that we were coming from another state, she was flexible in the location …meeting.us at the Highlands, and clearly explained next steps in order to get the marriage license, she took care of everything.
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