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Where Love Stories Become Legendary

For more than a century, Hayes Mansion has stood as San Jose’s most beloved setting for timeless love stories. An iconic backdrop for unforgettable weddings, this storied estate has welcomed generations of couples as they begin life’s journey together.

From intimate ceremonies to vibrant, multi-day celebrations, the mansion offers an extraordinary canvas for your dream wedding. Set across 20 acres of emerald lawns, lush gardens, and soaring palm trees, Hayes Mansion features an exceptional collection of refined indoor and outdoor venues, each thoughtfully designed to create cherished moments for you and your guests.

Moments Made to Be Remembered

Hayes Mansion provides an elegant setting for every wedding celebration, from bridal showers and engagement soirées to intimate rehearsal dinners, ceremonies, and receptions. With beautifully appointed accommodations, a private bridal suite, and thoughtful event support, every detail is designed to unfold effortlessly, so you can savor each moment.

A Celebration for the Senses

From the first toast to the final course, dining at Hayes Mansion is a celebration in itself. Thoughtfully crafted menus range from breakfast and brunch to refined dinner and dessert offerings, with options for guests of all ages. Featuring fresh, seasonal ingredients and artfully prepared specialties, our cuisine can be served plated, buffet-style, or as passed hors d’oeuvres, ensuring your wedding weekends are as delicious as they are unforgettable.

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$2,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$2,000

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$2,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$2,500

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$40

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Signature Drink

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

25

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

30

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Historic Building
Hotel
Mansion
Resort

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Audio Equipment
Chairs
Dance Floor
Furniture
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

April
May
June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
November
December

Reviews of Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton

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Hayes Mansion is highly praised as a beautiful and versatile wedding venue in San Jose. Couples and wedding planners appreciate the responsive and accommodating staff, particularly singling out Mikaela, Jayson, and Rebekah for their professionalism and support throughout the planning process. The venue is commended for its seamless service, ability to handle last-minute changes, and the convenience of having a hotel on-site. Reviewers highlight the exceptional service, food, and all-around experience, making Hayes Mansion a recommended choice for weddings and related events.

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Hayes Mansion is highly praised as a beautiful and versatile wedding venue in San Jose. Couples and wedding planners appreciate the responsive and accommodating staff, particularly singling out Mikaela, Jayson, and Rebekah for their professionalism and support throughout the planning process. The venue is commended for its seamless service, ability to handle last-minute changes, and the convenience of having a hotel on-site. Reviewers highlight the exceptional service, food, and all-around experience, making Hayes Mansion a recommended choice for weddings and related events.

Sriram
Sriram Sent on 04/06/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Gorgeous Wedding Venue in San Jose

Hayes Mansion is a great wedding location right in the core of the city of San Jose. The venue provides the flexibility to plan for indoor and/or outdoor which became very important for us as the weather forced us to move the main portion of the wedding indoors. Carley (event manager) and her staff were very responsive when we made the change two days prior to the event when the weather impact became clear.

The venue can accommodate large parties which was an important consideration for us. They were also very proactive in closing out the planning and working with our outside caterer and decorators. The hotel staff were also very friendly and accommodating. One of the front desk staff was really friendly and patient at checkout time.

Because I was very busy during the event, I did not interact closely with the staff handling the breakfast and lunch. The ballroom was set up very well and the staff seemed efficient. However, the staff may need some additional supervision for large parties.

Overall, Hayes Mansion is a fantastic venue in San Jose to consider for medium to large events and weddings.
Jeenester
Jeenester Sent on 02/01/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Marriage Celebration

We really enjoyed our intimate and magnificent wedding celebration at Hayes Mansion. The hotel is beautiful inside and out, which made it really beautiful from start to finish. Our guests were very happy with the service, food and bar provided. The service was overall superb and just ideal for our guests. Everything was smooth and amazing till all the guests left.
Lavender
Lavender Sent on 12/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A Wedding Planner’s Perspective

As a wedding planning team, we’ve had the pleasure of working with Hayes Mansion across multiple events and service levels, including full planning, partial planning, day-of coordination, and canine coordination. Our experience with Hayes spans weddings, rehearsal dinners and welcome parties, as well as other wedding-related events. Time and time again, the venue has proven to be reliable, flexible, and especially well-suited for Indian and Indian-fusion weddings, which they handle with care and cultural understanding.

We worked closely with Mikaela throughout much of the booking and planning process. While there was a period of internal staffing turnover, the Hayes team handled the transition thoughtfully. Jayson, Assistant Director of Events, stepped in seamlessly, promptly answering questions, addressing concerns, and helping move the event confidently across the finish line. Rebekah has also been an incredible partner. As a Sales Coordinator, she is organized, responsive, and truly supportive both during planning and on the wedding day, which makes a huge difference from a planner’s perspective.

The service and banquet teams at Hayes are experienced, professional, and dependable. They understand how important a strong banquet captain is and consistently execute major service moments smoothly. We are especially grateful for how everything was set up exactly as planned, while still allowing room for real-time, on-site adjustments. The team follows service plans closely but also knows how to pivot when events naturally evolve, handling each moment with care.

Having a hotel on-site is a huge plus. It gives couples a comfortable and convenient place to get ready and creates a seamless experience for guests throughout the wedding weekend. With so many hospitality options available, couples can truly tailor their celebration in a way that feels thoughtful, elevated, and guest-friendly.
Anurag
Anurag Sent on 12/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Hayes Mansion helped make our Wedding Day perfect!

Incredible venue that really elevated our entire wedding day experience! Got raving reviews from our guests as well. Working the Hayes Mansion team was also seamless and I loved their responsiveness and ability to handle any challenges that came up.
C
Chirag Sent on 06/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding at Hayes Mansion

Absolutely loved having my wedding at Hayes Mansion. From the start, the management team was highly responsive and attended to all our questions, concerns and needs. They worked very closely with our vendors in the background, without any issues that were brought to our attention. Everything went smoothly on the day of the wedding without any issues. Highly recommend this place to have your wedding!
S
Shelly Sent on 04/17/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Outstanding service for wedding ceremony

Hayes Mansion went above and beyond in their service. The GM Erin and event Manager Victoria ensured it was seamless for us, being available after hours and on weekends. They were professional and flexible to our diverse needs. It was a fairytale wedding and reception. The staff was courteous and made all effort to meet all the needs from the hotel stay and event rental. They were so agile with the rain and no one was impacted. Thank u Hayes.
Talma
Talma Sent on 11/25/2014
5 out of 5 rating
Monica was our wedding venue planner at the Dolce Hayes Mansion. Monica was very thorough, responsive, friendly and professional. The Dolce Hayes Mansion was very accomodating to our needs during the rehearsal as well as on our wedding day. Prices for the venue was very reasonable in comparison to other vendors. I would recommend Dolce to anyone expecting a successful wedding venue from beginning to end.
S
Shannon Sent on 03/02/2014
5 out of 5 rating
This was a perfect venue. It had everything you need for the bride and groom and all the guest. It is a one stop shop. They cater to the bride and groom and make them feel like their special day is the most important event, as it should be.
J
Jliz Sent on 10/21/2009
5 out of 5 rating
We selected the Dolce Hayes Mansion for our ceremony and reception (the East Lawn and the Patio Room) and our day was all we had hoped for and much, much more!! We were blessed to have Liveth Ramos as our Event Manager and she worked with us (our budget, etc.) and made sure that everything came together just as we had envisioned our wedding. Liveth is a dedicated professional who is passionate about her job and making dreams come true. We highly recommend the Dolce Hayes Mansion for your wedding venue with Liveth Ramos as your Event Manager.

Thank you, Liveth!

Dolce Hayes Mansion
San Jose, CA
K
Katie Sent on 01/05/2008
5 out of 5 rating
WOW! What a great place to have a wedding. We had a small (60 people) wedding, so we were able to use different rooms of the mansion. Im not sure how it would be for a large wedding but for our size I highly recommend it. The prices were great and its all inclusive...no hidden charges, which was really nice. We knew exactly what we were paying when we booked. The ladies where great with all the details...I had nothing to worry about. Theres also no need to hire a wedding coordinator or even a day of coordinator. Everything was well organized and went very smoothly. The day was so amazing!
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Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton frequently asked questions

Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton includes:
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Signature Drink
The space offered by Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Historic Building
  • Hotel
  • Mansion
  • Resort
Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Audio Equipment
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Furniture
  • Tables
Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton is recommended by 82% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.1 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.1 in average response time, 4.1 in flexibility, 4.1 in professionalism, 4.1 in value and 4 in quality of service.

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