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Vows 4 You

Vows 4 You

Palm Desert, CA
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    Clayton W. Sent on 02/04/2021
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    Tom was the best!

    Tom made our wedding day the best, and most special day we could have imagined. Obviously COVID has impacted us all, and Tom's flexibility and willingness to help meant the world to us. He is professional, friendly, and everything we wanted in an officiant. Would highly recommend him to everyone!
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    Brooklyn B. Sent on 08/06/2020
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    Amazing experience!

    Tom was very responsive and flexible with our wedding day! It was an awesome experience and I’m so glad he was able to be a part of our big day and help us make it amazing!
    Thank you so much Tom!
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    D. Mintz Sent on 03/02/2020
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    Vow renewal

    Mr. Lang officiated our wedding vow renewal ceremony in February 2020 and he was simply wonderful. He guided us throughout the process and came up with a great idea to get our kids involved in the ceremony (which they loved). It was a pleasure working with him and couldn’t have been a better choice. Thanks Mr Lang!
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    Blake Sent on 12/04/2019
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    Excellent Ceremony & Experience

    Tom was great! Would highly recommend him for anyone looking for wedding minister. He was professional, kind and knew all the in’s and out’s of what we needed to make our ceremony a success. Won’t have to use him again because I plan on staying married to my new wife but would recommend him to anyone looking!
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    Stephanie G. Sent on 10/23/2019
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    Thomas Lang made our wedding day so special. What a wonderful, kind man
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    Dr. K. Sent on 08/21/2019
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    Review of Our Experience

    We very much appreciated how well Tom was prepared for our ceremony. Everybody had great things to say about how wonderful it. You were absolutely amazing in how it was managed before, during and after the ceremony. Thank you again for making our day wonderful with your eloquently spoken service while making sure all the details were covered with everybody. You managed every little detail to make the worries go away. Tom even took time to email that the marriage license had been mailed to the appropriate place while thanking us for being part of our day. He is a wonderful person to have as your officiant.
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    Maria Sent on 05/16/2019
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    Perfect Day!

    Tom Lang officiated our wedding on May 4th in Indian Wells. He did a great job! I highly recommend his services.
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    Julie Sent on 05/09/2018
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    As newlyweds, we cannot stop raving about how amazing it was to have Tom Lang as our officiant!! HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. We got married in a small ceremony (13 of us) in sunny Palm Springs this May. We reached out to him mid-January to find out more about his services/style - and after the first phone call, we were set! Tom is super friendly, heart-warming, funny, and his approach to the wedding ceremony calmed our nerves because he is so organized. He got to know us through several 'FaceTime' calls, and proposed numerous options (drafts) for how we wanted to proceed with our ceremony (how much storytelling, a light religious aspect, integration of our vows, and even a reading by my sister).

    When we landed in Palm Springs, he met with us to do a quick rehearsal too. Day-of, he came prepared, had the reading printed out for my sister, and was dressed perfectly. Tom was also very helpful in helping us apply for a marriage license (the entire process can seem confusing when you have a million things going on already!). He also followed up with us post-wedding to ensure we had all the right information to obtain an official certificate - so great. In the end, the way everything came together felt personal, unique, and memorable. Thank you Tom!
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    Jessica Sent on 04/13/2018
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    My husband and I eloped and got married in Joshua tree and having Tom there to do our wedding ceremony was just magical! He made our day so special and definitely makes sure it’s personal to the couple! I’m so glad he was able to take part in our ceremony, he’s such a grand individual and my family loved having him their as well. Tom was easy to communicate with through out this process (especially with the short notice we gave him) and answered all of our questions, definitely recommend!
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    Lindsay Sent on 12/20/2017
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    Tom Lang was a pleasure to work with for our wedding ceremony. He came highly recommended from both the hotel wedding coordinator and our personal wedding planner. We had a handful of particulars surrounding our ceremony and Tom worked with us to ensure everything was as we wanted. He is very responsive, and thorough and an overall pleasure to work with! He has many, many options to choose from in terms of script and verbiage and then there is always customization. We highly recommend!
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    Sibel Sent on 11/20/2017
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    We found the best officiant in the Valley. Tom was very very professional with years of experience. He gave us options of readings to choose from for our ceremony. He has variety of reading and prayers from religious to non-religious every kind of. Our guests also like the ceremony and his voice very much. Overall, I recommend Tom to everyone.

    Thank you very much for making my wedding ceremony great. It was just like as I dreamt of.
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    Hannah Sent on 11/08/2017
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    Tom was a pleasure to work with. He took the time to meet with us face to face and gave us helpful tips regarding the wedding processional and the script we wanted to draft. After he reviewed our draft script, he went out of his way to make sure that all pronunciations were correct and on the day of, he delivered the script in a way that had all of our guests engaged/laughing. I couldn't imagine a better officiant for our special day!!
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    Dylan Sent on 10/15/2017
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    Tom was the perfect choice for our wedding. Although we contacted Tom only a month before the wedding, and although we were very busy in the weeks leading up to the wedding, he was very responsive to email and proactive about leading us through the process. He always listened attentively to our ideas and ultimately left the details up to us. Since we didn't have a lot of time to prepare, the day of the wedding was a bit chaotic, but Tom knew just what to say and do to make sure the ceremony would go off without a hitch. After the ceremony many people commented on what an excellent job he did.
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    Loree Sent on 09/18/2017
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    Tom was so helpful even though we never officially met till the wedding, he made it easy by FaceTime and email communication to make this process smooth.
    I felt that Tom took my husbands and mys story and truly told it as if he was there. His words and blessings in the ceremony really connected with us because he gave us a outline and options for how we wanted our ceremony to be customized. His flexibility with details and his knowledge really made the process simple!! I would highly highly recommend Tom, he will not disappoint!
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    Sarah Sent on 05/19/2017
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    Tom was a wonderful officiant! My husband and I chose to write our own ceremony and Tom was very helpful throughout the process. He was always available to meet with us (via skype or in person) and made everything very enjoyable. I would definitely recommend him!
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    Jessica Sent on 06/30/2017
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    Given the fact that Tom is an incredibly kind and trustworthy individual, we couldn't think of a better person to have married us at our spring wedding in La Quinta! He was extremely accommodating and allowed us to really make the ceremony our own, while at the same time stepping in with helpful suggestions based off his expertise. He was very organized throughout the entire process, kept our day-of wedding schedule on track and submitted our marriage license in a timely manner. We will always have fond memories of working with Tom and he will forever be an important part of our special day!
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    Tom was amazing since the first day we contacted him to celebrate our wedding. He was always very helpful and happy to answer any question. This is very important because you want to have everything cover when you are getting married. He handled every moment with professionalism, enthusiasm and positive energy. I can only highly recommend his services to anybody that wants to have a fun and professional ceremony.
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    Lauren Sent on 01/19/2017
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    Tom was amazing! He was very accommodating and helped us with everything. We first talked with him on FaceTime and then met in person. He sent us examples of vows, etc. He made it so easy and simple for us! We couldn't have asked for a better person! Thank you Tom!
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    Rachel Sent on 01/29/2017
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    Tom Lang was a pleasure to work with and he did a wonderful job conducting our ceremony. We met with him prior to the ceremony, and he was so warm and kind. He gave us great advice and thanks to the sample ceremony scripts he provided, we were able to customize a ceremony that was both meaningful and memorable to us. Tom helped make our ceremony a beautiful event and we highly recommend him for any wedding!
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    Danielle Sent on 09/13/2016
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    Tom was an amazing officiant! He gave us a ton of ideas for our ceremony and had everything really organized, color coded, and sent it all to us online. We met with him via Skype and in person to make sure that our ceremony was perfect for us, and it was. He is such a nice, caring person and really wanted us to be sure that it was everything we wanted. I would highly recommend him!!
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    Diana Sent on 07/06/2016
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    Tom Lang helped create the ceremony of our dreams. He is clearly comfortable with all kinds of ceremonies and was very open to us adding our cultural traditions. We got many comments from our guests that it was the best ceremony they had ever seen, and we have Tom to thank. He was very helpful in the process of us getting our marriage license and was able to meet with us in person and talk over the phone on many occasions. I was very comfortable knowing what to expect in our ceremony since we worked together along the process.
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    Michelle Sent on 06/26/2016
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    Thomas Lang was such a perfect officiant. He made sure we had the ceremony of our dreams. Nothing was forced upon us. We were so happy with how professional he was. We recommend him for any type of wedding. He won't let you down!!! Thanks Thomas!!
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    Nancy Sent on 05/12/2016
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    Tom's warmth and welcoming presence played a large part in the memorable outcome of our recent wedding ceremony. He is a true professional and someone I would recommend without hesitation for any couple looking for a knowledgable, organized, kind, and relatable officiant. He really personalized our ceremony and gave guidance and suggestions that made us feel so comfortable. He also helped calm everyone and was so nice and friendly with family members who were frazzled or awkward. We definitely felt that we made the BEST choice with Tom as our officiant, as someone else wouldn't have had the same results- everyone commented how beautiful of a ceremony we had, and how much it they enjoyed what was said. Thanks, Tom!
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    Jennifer Sent on 07/05/2016
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    Tom was so wonderful to work with: he's a real professional. We particularly appreciated the numerous options he provided for vows and readings, as well as timely responsiveness in communicating with us, and of course his calm, easy-going demeanor. We highly recommend him!
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    Tom took time time meet with my wife and I prior to the ceremony and demonstrated great attention to detail.
    He provided us with a number of useful examples to help us design and personalize our ceremony.
    We had a great experience and Tom's professionalism as the officiant made it truly special and seamless. We enthusiastically recommend Tom.
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