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Dr. Rick Hessman, Wedding Officiant

Dr. Rick Hessman, Wedding Officiant

Wilmington, NC
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    Kristine Sent on 06/02/2026
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    The BEST in the state, country and beyond!

    Dr. Hessman was a God send. He was able to officiate our wedding with 12 hours notice AND he drove an hour from Carolina Beach to make our sunrise service a reality. For those of u who don’t know, that means he probably left at 4:45 am on a Sunday to meet us at 6:10 am. He has a lot of scripts but he sends them to you ahead of time so you can personalize them as much or as little as you want. Highly, highly recommend. He is one of the kindest, patient and self less humans I have met. You can’t go wrong with Dr. Rick Hessman as your officiant for your special day. 👰🏻‍♀️💜🤵🏻‍♂️
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    Coral Sent on 05/27/2026
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    Great Experience With Dr. Rick Hessman

    We had Dr. Hessman officiant our wedding and had a wonderful experience! We had a small ceremony and are not located in the same area so we did not meet prior to but you would never even know, he was exactly as I expected, clearly communicated how everything would go and he did an amazing job. He really made us feel like we were important to him and made the ceremony feel very personal even though we didn't personally know him. I would highly recommend hiring him!
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    Sunny Sent on 05/26/2026
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    Perfect! Highly Recommended!

    Dr. Hessman was great. Easy going and professional. Love that he cares about it and makes you feel comfortable.
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    Jeff Sent on 05/23/2026
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    Dr. Rick Hessman

    Great communications!
    Very Prompt and extremely professional!
    Thank you for your compassion and may God Bless!
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    Michael Sent on 05/11/2026
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    Sunset Wedding

    Rick was responsive, prepared, and professional. He helped make our day unforgettable!
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    Stephanie Sent on 05/04/2026
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    Last minute wedding

    We decided with a month left to have an actual ceremony instead of going to the courthouse. Dr. Hessman was such a blessing to find. He’s warm, friendly, and super willing to work to make each couple’s day full of love. He was definitely the friendliest person I spoke to when making this decision, and he charged half the price of the others. I’m so thankful we found Dr. Hessman!
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    Shelia Sent on 04/26/2026
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    Nick and Shelia Rhyne beach wedding

    Rick was awesome and did the ceremony liked we asked and was very personable.
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    Kaile Sent on 04/20/2026
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    Wonderful Experience!

    Dr. Rick was incredible! He was easy to work, quick to communicate and fun to be around for our rehearsal and ceremony the day of! I loved that he was able to make our ceremony centered around Christ, and would recommend anyone that wants an easygoing, caring, and positive officiant, book with Dr. Rick!
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    Excellent to Work With!

    Working with Dr. Hessman was truly a pleasure during a recent wedding that I coordinated. He brought a warm, calming presence to the ceremony and created a meaningful experience that beautifully reflected the couple. From communication to execution, he was professional, organized, and a wonderful partner during the wedding. I would absolutely recommend him and look forward to working together again!
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    Best officiant ever!

    We absolutely loved Dr. Rick Hessman! He was so personable and genuine. We felt at ease and he reassured us he’d take care of things and I didn’t need to stress so much which really helped me, I highly recommend and honestly couldn’t have asked for a better officiant!
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    STOP LOOKING! Rick Hessman is your guy!!!!

    Dr. Hessman was absolutely AMAZING!!!!! Thorough communication and on time!! He was soo sweet and intentional with my husband and I and truly made us feel so comfortable. This man has a gift in the way he speaks and delivers a message!!! We thank the Lord for helping us choose the PERFECT officiant!! Do not pass him over - HE’S YOUR GUY!
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    Paul Sent on 12/23/2025
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    Would Highly Recommended

    Dr. Hessman was absolutely wonderful, professional, warm, and genuinely invested in making our wedding ceremony meaningful and personal. He spoke beautifully, kept everything flowing smoothly, and made our day feel truly special and unforgettable. Thank you and I would highly recommend.
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    Mary Sent on 12/02/2025
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    Blessed Thanksgiving Wedding!

    Dr. Rick was super sweet and kind. He was very professional and efficient. We really appreciated his flexibility to officiate our wedding and take time away from his family on Thanksgiving.
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    Chris Sent on 11/08/2025
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    Best officiator we could have asked for

    Dr. Hessman responded to my initial inquiry within minutes! He showed up early, and even helped us a little bit with the setup which was above and beyond what we paid him for. He was very professional and the perfect officiate. Would recommend 1000 times.
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    Rebecca Sent on 10/28/2025
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    Such a wonderful officiant!

    Dr. Hessman was absolutely incredible! His professionalism and flexibility are unmatched. He worked with us to create the perfect vows and even accommodated a last minute change to them. Dr. Hessman was also very flexible with our last minute (out of our hands) change of venue and ceremony time. He was very understanding and helped put me more at ease with all the last minute craziness. Getting married can be a very overwhelming experience (even when everything goes to plan) and Dr. Hessman walked us through every step. He is very knowledgeable of what needs to be completed and when. We felt very blessed to have such a knowledgeable and informative officiant for our wedding. Thank you, Dr. Hessman!
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    Amy Sent on 10/23/2025
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    Wonderful Choice

    When you hire a pastor online, you really don't know what to expect other than what you see in the reviews. We felt like Dr. Hessman was a great match for us, and he was all of that and more. I loved the sermon choices he provided and actually took parts of several and merged them into a sermon I felt worked best for us. We loved having Dr. Hessman officiate this special day. He is so kind and easy to talk to. You can't go wrong having him join in on your special day!
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    Mandy Sent on 10/12/2025
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    Bald Head Island wedding

    We were fortunate to come across Dr. Rick for our September 2025 wedding on Bald Head Island. Concerned about finding someone willing to travel to BHI, Dr. Rick was more than willing to accommodate. From sharing sample wedding vows to arriving promptly on the day of the wedding, he made the entire process enjoyable and stress free. He helped us blend our vows with his inspiring words to create a beautiful and meaningful ceremony. We can’t recommend Dr. Rick highly enough and wish to thank him and his wife, Susan for making our special day that much more memorable.
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    T+A wedding

    Dr. Rick was absolutely incredible! He made our ceremony both deeply emotional and joyfully uplifting at the same time. He had a genuine smile on his face throughout and knew exactly how to make every moment flow perfectly. We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant, highly recommend him!
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    Tabbatha Sent on 09/28/2025
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    Very responsive, affordable and caring

    Absolutely loved working with Dr. Hessman. Very sweet, walked us through the entire process and answered all questions right away. Would highly recommend
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    Choose Dr.Hessman

    We hired Dr.Hessman for our elopement with a little more than a week to get it done. He communicated throughout the entire time. He was helpful in preparing vows and provided several examples to use that he then helped us tailor for our own. He even helped us arrange witnesses since NC requires two and we were traveling with no other family. If you’re thinking of hiring anyone else it would be a mistake. He was so kind, polite, and professional and made our ceremony feel like we had family with us. Could not be more grateful he was our officiant.
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    Mr. & Mrs. Hurley

    Rick Hessman is the best. He was very professional and treated us like he has known us forever. My whole family loved him as well.
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    Erik Sent on 07/31/2025
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    Wedding at Oak Island

    Dr. Rick Hessman was a true professional and we couldn’t be happier having him marry us. We had many questions that he guided us through and did so with no hesitation. Very punctuate and so easy to talk to. He made our wonderful day a true blessing.
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    Tina Sent on 07/21/2025
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    Perfection

    Dr. Hessman is truly a gem! He was so easy to work with - very responsive and communicative and very kind! We set up an intro call with him and instantly knew he was the one we wanted to conduct our ceremony. He helped us craft the perfect language for our ceremony and not only was it meaningful to us, but we had so many of our guests come up to tell us how much it resonated with them as well.
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    Wonderful!

    Dr. Hessman was such a great addition to our wedding ceremony! He was very helpful and flexible in the planning stages and even allowed us to add and change parts of our ceremony script to make it more fitting for us as a couple. Dr. Hessman was very professional throughout the planning process and was willing to do whatever he could to make sure our wedding day was just as we had imagined. I highly recommend Dr. Hessman as a wedding officiant, as he will help make your wedding day amazing!
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    Highly Reccomend

    Dr. Hessman was amazing. Very easy to work with, has a great outlook on marriage and life, and was nothing but professional. He listened to us and tailored our vows to exactly what we wanted. He was on time, professional, helpful, personable and was adored by us, our friends and family. Cannot recommend Dr. Hessman enough.
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    Perfect day!

    Dr. Hessman was amazing to work with. He made the process easy and stress free from the beginning to the end. He was very open with me taking the traditional marriage ceremony and making more “Our style” ( which basically meant I copy and pasted several different templates together 😊). He was great to work around making sure I had an afternoon beach wedding and even assured me if it rained everything would still be perfect. He communicated regularly throughout the process when needed and on the day of the wedding arrived to meet everyone and fit right in as if he had known them for years. He took all the pictures the photographer wanted and was in no hurry. I would highly recommend him to anyone that needs an Officiant in the area. He definitely wants the day to be all about the bride and groom!!
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    Dr.Rick Service

    Dr.Rick was amazing! We love our ceremony, he was so respectful, loving and caring with us
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    Audrey Sent on 05/11/2025
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    Amazing man to work with

    Me and my husband were honored to have Dr. Rick Hessman as our officiant. He made our wedding amazing and was very patient with us being behind on time. I highly recommend him to anyone
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    Sunrise on our love.

    Dr Rick Hessman and his wife were wonderful. Dr. Hessman was very responsive, flexible for our sunrise ceremony, warm, caring, and said lovely prayers to bless our marriage before God. We highly recommend him for your wedding ceremony. Thank you Rick and Sue!
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    Great officiant

    Dr. Hessman was a great officiant for our wedding. He was very professional and personable, the ceremony went great thanks to him.
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    Amazing Wedding Officiant

    Dr. Hessman did a great job officiating our wedding, he was professional and caring, making sure that it fit our needs and wants. Easy to work with and made it very special. Multiple people mentioned how great of a job he did. Thank you Dr. Hessman!
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    Excellent officiant!!!!

    Dr Rick was incredible! From the moment we booked him his communication, responsiveness, his help with selecting the ceremony script he would read, marriage license info and everything else he was amazing!!
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