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Rev Mary Toland Shaw
Rev Mary Toland Shaw
Founder and Wedding Officiant

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Based in Harrison, Tennessee, Sacred Relationship LLC is a warm, welcoming wedding officiant service offered by Rev. Mary Toland Shaw, an Interfaith Minister (through the Alliance of Divine Love) and Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant serving the greater Chattanooga, TN area and surrounding states. Rev. Mary is willing to travel to weddings in any of the 50 states based on reimbursement of travel expenses. Rev. Mary's expertise centers on creating beautiful, customized ceremonies that reflect a couple's personality, values, preferences and family traditions. With decades of experience as a corporate executive, Mary brings outstanding public speaking, sensitivity, calmness, grace, and professionalism to each engagement. Choose from three packages to bring your dream celebration to life in a meaningful way. Whether you are seeking a religious, spiritual, interfaith, traditional, or civil ceremony, Rev. Mary is dedicated to ensuring that it is memorable and heartfelt. Rev. Mary is married with 4 children and a maltipoo pup.

Pricing & Deals

$300 starting price
$400 average price
Elopement -- Simple & Sweet
$300 / starting price
A personalized 15-minute ceremony for the couple
For just the couple & photographer
Personal and intimate to you both
Most popular
Welcoming & Heartwarming
$400 / starting price
Small, intimate up to 50 guests
A very beautiful, personalized ceremony
Heartfelt, handcrafted 20-25 minute ceremony
Captures your essence and unique love story
Memorable & One-of-a-Kind
$500 / starting price
Completely unique, heartfelt ceremony
Over 25 minutes of beautiful rituals and symbolism
For weddings with over 50 guests

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FAQ

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$150

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
VA
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English

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Wedding couple

Reviews of Sacred Relationship, LLC

Andrew
Andrew Sent on 04/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

We were so happy Mary was our officiant!

We recently got married and had the absolute pleasure of having Mary as our officiant. From the moment we met her, she was incredibly warm, friendly, and welcoming , we truly couldn’t have wished for anyone better. She made us feel so comfortable and at ease during such a special moment in our lives.

Mary also went above and beyond, suggesting beautiful locations for our ceremony and making the whole process feel effortless and meaningful. Her husband was equally kind and helpful, and it was clear they both genuinely cared about making our day perfect.

We would recommend Mary to absolutely everyone and we feel so lucky to have found her!
Kaley
Kaley Sent on 01/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Small intimate marriage

Mary accommodated our officiant needs with a cheerful attitude and beautifully written words! We had a very tiny intimate ceremony with just us and 2 others besides Mary, the time we picked was a time where a storm came and so under a gazebo we still performed our service and she did so with a smile on her face and no complaints! It passed as soon as she was finished and turned out to be a magical experience. She will accommodate any service you would like with grace and happiness!
R
Rachel Sent on 01/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent officiant!

Mary was so great to work with. She really captured us as individuals and as a couple and worked that into the ceremony in the most beautiful way. She was incredibly receptive and accommodating to our requests and feedback. I would recommend her to anyone looking for an officiant!
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