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11 years in business

We speak English

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Essex & Sussex is a waterfront wedding venue in Spring Lake, New Jersey, overlooking the Atlantic Ocean. This spectacular hotel boasts unparalleled history, character, and a host of lavish amenities ideal for a romantic getaway or special occasion. Renowned for its breathtaking architecture, the hotel's cupola lights can be seen for some distance from the beach, adding to the grandeur of the establishment. Couples are assured of a beautiful wedding event here with professional staff, delicious food, and an overabundance of photo opportunities.

Facilities and Capacity

Essex & Sussex can accommodate up to 185 guests for a day filled with vow exchanges and love. There are several distinct event spaces on the premises for ceremonies and receptions, and future newlyweds may tour the hotel and select their favorites. The dining rooms are tastefully decorated for intimate and grand affairs alike and feature a bright and airy color palette that connotes sophistication and refinement. Couples may host their ceremony and reception in one location as staff can turn the room between events. The glass-enclosed solarium is also available for special occasions.

Services Offered

All-inclusive wedding packages are available at Essex & Sussex, complete with seamless event coordination and design. The events team onsite can assist couples with every detail of their big day, from creating tasty menus to choosing table centerpieces and setting place cards. Services also include a wide selection of event rentals, such as tables, chairs, linens, flatware, and glassware. In-house catering and bar are also provided in the main package.

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$500

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$500

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

50

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

2

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Beach
Country/Golf Club
Historic Building
Restaurant
Waterfront

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Hors d'oeuvres
Plated
Server(s)

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)

What event items are available?

Dance Floor

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
November

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Reviews of Essex & Sussex

Weddingwire
4.9/5 6 reviews
Google
4.2/5 63 reviews
Joy
Joy Sent on 01/29/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Nichol McNeil Essex and Sussex

We had my daughter’s Bridal Shower there and we couldn’t have had a more perfect day. Upon meeting Nichol, She was delightful to work with and her expertise proved she knew what kind of event we were looking to have. If you are looking to have an event do not hesitate. Nichol is the best. The building is absolutely beautiful located along the ocean in beautiful Spring Lake, New Jersey.
Emily
Emily Sent on 02/03/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing venue !!!! 100% Recommend for any event

I recently had my bridal shower at the Essex and Sussex. I could not be happier with the turn out of the event. Nichol the event coordinator went above and beyond to make sure everything was perfect for my special day. She was in great communication with my mother and maid of honor through the entire party planning process. She was always sending pictures asking my opinions on table placings, linens etc. Always giving suggestions and my favorite was having a welcome greeting with champagne in the porch with my guests. before entering into the dining room area. The weather was just beautiful and you can see the ocean right from the porch. On the day of Nichol helped with anything and everything from getting me a glass of champagne to helping with the flow of the event. The staff at the Essex and Sussex catered to all mine and my guests needs with nothing but smiles. No only is the location of the venue gorgeous but I truly believe the staff especially Nichol made my day a dream come true. It was truly a special day.
Jessica
Jessica Sent on 12/23/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn’t have been more perfect

this place specializes in personalized experience.
Patrícia
Patrícia Sent on 09/29/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Patricia Ayres

I had my son’s rehearsal dinner on September 20, 2025 and everything was impeccable. Nichol was extremely helpful, pleasant, accommodating, and very responsive to all my needs. She would answer my text right away and gave me great advice for the night throughout the way you did. I do not have words to describe the work ethic of Nichol McNeil. She has an excellent taste and understood everything that I want for the night, very simple, but elegant. The food was amazing. All my guest were very impressed with the fish, the steak, cocktail hour, and especially the delicious lemon cake.
I definitely would recommend this place to anyone who wants to have a memorable event with elegance, fine dining and without having to worry about anything. Nichol does everything and she stayed the whole night during the event that made my.heart happy and peaceful.
N
Nicole Sent on 05/18/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Staff, amazing venue

I want to start by saying I had the most amazing time at my wedding at The Essex and Sussex. Nichol and her staff are truly amazing. Everything from the planning, to the food, to the day of was absolutely perfect. Nichol helped us every step of the way and really went above and beyond to make our wedding planning less stressful. When it came to the day of our wedding, we were supposed to be married outside and take photos outside. It was windy and rainy the entire day. Nichol and the staff at the E&S did not miss a beat with helping us rearrange our plans so that our wedding could be moved indoors. This venue really went above and beyond our expectations. We have had nothing but complements from everyone who attended our wedding. I would book this venue again for any future parties. The E&S is an amazing venue with an amazing staff. I would recommend them to anyone!
S
Stephanie Sent on 02/03/2022
4.6 out of 5 rating

Wedding Day

What a magical experience! Everyone was fantastic the day of our wedding, and we couldn't have asked for more!! Thank you again!
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Essex & Sussex frequently asked questions

Essex & Sussex includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Essex & Sussex includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at Essex & Sussex includes:
  • Bartender(s)
The space offered by Essex & Sussex for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Beach
  • Country/Golf Club
  • Historic Building
  • Restaurant
  • Waterfront
Essex & Sussex offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
Essex & Sussex offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Essex & Sussex offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Wifi
Essex & Sussex offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Dance Floor
Essex & Sussex is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 5 in quality of service, 5 in average response time, 5 in flexibility, 5 in value and 4.7 in professionalism.
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