I am newly engaged and being the over planner I am, I have already started some basic planning for our wedding. We are looking at an October 2020 date. Many of my friends have already started trying to help me plan, which is great, but some of them have said that I should wait to start even thinking about planning. We are not spending any money on anything yet, except maybe depositing on a venue, so I don't see the harm in the wedding binder and wedding wire planning I have begun. So my question is how soon is too soon to start planning? Should I wait to start planning our wedding, or should I be doing more since we are in the early stages of planning?