Mallory Abroad
Master October 2014

We have been invited to a wedding - dont follow their 'rule'

Mallory Abroad, on October 3, 2013 at 1:48 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 153
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Our invitation arrived today. Inside the envelope 2 invites. One to FH and one to me. FH's one is to everything and mine to the reception (and evening)

Included on my invite was a little extra bit of writing which said that "....hope I understand as it would not be appropriate for an unwed pregnant woman to be inside the church."

Umm yeah, I'm not going to go.

Thought I should share one of the most ridiculous invites I have ever received.


  • winnipegwriter
    Master September 2015
    winnipegwriter ·


  • Liz
    Super May 2014
    Liz ·

    Wow. I don't even have anything to say to that...

  • Caitlin R.
    Devoted September 2013
    Caitlin R. ·


  • hellothere
    Super May 2014
    hellothere ·

    My jaw just dropped. Holy shitake that is the rudest thing I have seen in so long.

  • Mrs.Rebeiro
    Master April 2014
    Mrs.Rebeiro ·

    OMG... I'm slightly speechless!

  • mc4dj13
    Master November 2013
    mc4dj13 ·

    How rude. I hope your fiance doesn't go either. That is an insult to the mother of his child!

  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
    2d Bride ·

    Leaving aside the whole issue of whether premarital sex is even a sin... Churches are only for those free of sin? And none of their other guests has ever sinned at all? And you managed to get pregnant all by yourself, without your FH's committing any sins?

  • MrsHicks
    Master June 2014
    MrsHicks ·

    OMG!!! I wouldn't want to be part of that church and definitely wouldn't be going to that wedding!! How does your FH feel about it?

  • Corinne S
    VIP November 2012
    Corinne S ·

    Wow that is beyond rude

  • Linda
    Super November 2013
    Linda ·

    Whaattt???? I seriously cannot believe that! people really have a set dont they!!!!

  • Belais
    VIP October 2013
    Belais ·

    Say what???? Agree with hellothere - my jaw dropped. The nerve...

    Yeah, honestly I'm kinda hoping your FI doesn't go either; that's so rude.

  • D
    Master May 2014
    D ·

    Please tell me your FH isn't going.

  • J&B
    Master September 2013
    J&B · might burst into flames or something.

    Hope FH doesn't go either.

  • Nichole
    Super June 2014
    Nichole ·

    Wow, that is rude!

  • hellothere
    Super May 2014
    hellothere ·

    Exactly, 2d Bride. Maybe as a wedding gift, you can send a plaque with the inscription THOU SHALT NOT JUDGE.

  • Kate
    Master December 2013
    Kate ·


    Sorry I just laughed at how asinine that is.

  • Mrs V (Roe)
    Master August 2013
    Mrs V (Roe) ·


    You should send the RSVP back and add your own little note: "We decline and not regretfully. We'd rather spend the day basking in the love we have for each other than surrounded by judgemental hypocritical hyper religious zealots. Unlike your 'church' we will send you Blessings and pray for you to have a successful marriage".

  • AndreaLily
    Master October 2013
    AndreaLily ·

    WOW. How well do you know these people? I would slap someone if they did that to me.

  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·


    and to think I thought I woke up in 2013 this morning.

    I love the implication that you impregnated yourself. I am dying. . .

  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·


    As said in previous posts, hope your FH doesn't go either.


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