FH and I found out last week that, due to travel restrictions, we will no longer be able to have any family members at our immediate family only wedding on our original date this year if we stay with the church we were scheduled at. We are Catholic, so I called a couple of churches near my family. Both are basically saying the paperwork burden will be heavy and asking to see us both together ASAP, even though we live far away from our parents and aren't in the area. To see either priest, we would have to quarantine for two weeks. On top of that, our priest hasn't been able to see us to finish pre-cana (marriage prep) based on restrictions, so we are behind for our date. Priests at both churches all but told me it would be impossible to get married in 2020 given the timeline and the number of couples already rescheduling. FH and I have given up the big reception, having our wedding party attend, literally anything but the ceremony...but now it's looking like we may not even get that.
I think I just need some people to share this with who will understand. It feels like at every turn there is a new obstacle, and I'm tired and discouraged. Also open to any advice, especially from Catholics who have dealt with the process of being married in the Church.