I never rant on here, but I feel like no one else but fellow brides (& grooms) will understand. I know that no one is as excited for our wedding as FH & I are, but people could at least show some freaking respect and tell me they're not coming instead of assuming I'll know they're not coming if they don't send one back.
My mom just texted me telling me that nobody on her side of the family (my aunts and uncles-14 total) are coming to the wedding, & that they aren't going to send back the RSVP. Given, the wedding is at least an hour away from everyone & they're old so it's fine, but seriously, I need the RSVP telling me you aren't coming. Hearing it along a line of gossip doesn't count.
And on that note, as of today I've been getting facebook messages from guests telling me they're coming, and who with, etc. Which is fine, it's better than no response at all, but I didn't pay to get those stupid RSVP postcards printed & cut them out myself at work at 6 AM for you to not use it.