Today is our rsvp deadline. I gave myself two weeks to track down all the people who didn't and thank god. I have to seek out half of my guests. I know I should have waited until after today to start but I've already started. What really irritates me is 90% of these guests are married themselves. Didn't they have to go thru the same thing? Shouldn't they know how frustrating it is to track down the rsvps and take a minute to send theirs? I had two options, send in the rsvp card that was sent with the invitation or go to our wedding website. But still I'm tracking down rsvps for half of my 150 guests and of the ones I do have most were just facebook messages or one family member asking another to tell me they were coming. I'm kinda stuck until I have a headcount and would like to move on with things because I will be out of town the week before my wedding and I have my bridal shower, bach party and another wedding to attend in between now and then. UGH! I know you guys can relate.