I'll preface this by saying that FH is a photographer he just stopped when he moved here because he didn't want to build a client base again.
So when we got engaged he said he wanted to do our wedding shots. I said no way it wasn't even possible and he clearly can't take photos that he needs to be in.
We asked two friends, both take excellent pictures, one was doing the getting ready and formals and one was doing the ceremony.
The one doing the ceremony can't come to the wedding because it is the opening night of a play that he is the director of so that is totally understandable.
Today I'm talking to the girl who is supposed to do our getting ready shots and she says "I've been wondering why your date was funny to me! I have a doctors appointment that day with a specialist!! which is complete and utter bullshit she just doesn't want to do it. I won't get into the doctor on a saturday let alone a specialist issue but I do know the test she is having done CONT.