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Just Said Yes February 2021

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Ebony, on March 29, 2019 at 10:10 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 14
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I'm I wrong for not letting my sister come to my wedding this is the reason why she having slept with both of my kids father and tried my soon to be husband he told me that she tried him I don't know what to think or do

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  • Summerbride77
    VIP July 2019
    Summerbride77
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    Only you can decide this. Not inviting her will definitely cause relationship damage, but it sounds like there's already been a lot of damage done.

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    Just Said Yes February 2021
    Ebony
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    Yes I need help bad I tried to forgive her but she keeps saying I slept with both of your kids fathers
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  • Jessica
    Super May 2019
    Jessica
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    Do you have a relationship with her? Did she sleep with them while you were in relationships with them? If you do have a relationship with her, do you care if it's affected? Does FH feel comfortable with her being invited?
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    Just Said Yes February 2021
    Ebony
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    Yes we was together no I don't have a relationship with her I believe something is going on between my future husband they are always together without me 馃槩
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  • Jessica
    Super May 2019
    Jessica
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    Well then not only would I not be inviting her, I would not be planning a wedding and marriage with someone I thought was having an affair. You need to get to the bottom of that first.
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    Just Said Yes February 2021
    Ebony
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    Could I be over thinking
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  • Ingrid
    Super October 2020
    Ingrid
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    It sounds like you're second guessing your current relationship, and if that's the case, are you sure you want to get married to someone you don't completely trust? It seems to me that if your fiance knows the toxic history between you and your sister that he would want to stay completely away from her to not even give you a reason to suspect anything.
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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara
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    I highly recommend you seek couples therapy before proceeding with wedding planning!
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  • Gabriella
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabriella
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    I second that you should seek couples therapy. Get to the bottom of things before you get married. Otherwise, you could always be second guessing.
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  • Sherrie
    Expert August 2019
    Sherrie
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    This exactly hon. Way too much going on here to even think about a wedding.
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  • Brittany
    Dedicated July 2019
    Brittany
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    Don't invite her. Don't plan a wedding yet. Figure out if he's faithful and work on building your trust if he is. She sounds horrible. I would never talk to her again after the first time. I'm so sorry!
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  • Cynthia's and Robert  Wedding Day
    VIP September 2020
    Cynthia's and Robert Wedding Day
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    Sending hugs and positive vibes your way. This is alot just to read let alone to be going thur it.馃枻馃挅
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  • A
    Expert June 2019
    Afterallthistime...Always
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    This 100%. You guys obviously have things you need to discuss before you make the decision to get married.
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  • Overthemoon
    Beginner September 2017
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    After you work through your relationship problems with your FH, if you go through with the wedding, no. Don鈥檛 invite her. I鈥檓 impressed you still acknowledge her as a sister.
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