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Just Said Yes May 2027

My rainbow wedding 馃寛

Alyssa, on November 18, 2022 at 6:16 PM Posted in Planning 0 10
My and my fiancee are both 23 we only have each other and our son we found ourselves having to do this all our self I barley even know anything about a weddong SEND HELP LOL

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Latest activity by Caroline, on November 22, 2022 at 11:51 PM
  • Michael
    Rockstar October 2023
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    You can start with the checklist on this site:

    Checklist - WeddingWire.com

    You have to first figure out the budget and number of guests. Then you can figure out a venue for the ceremony and reception. If need be, there are some discussions on doing ceremonies on limited budgets. Much depends on whether a formal wedding reception is desired. There are a lot of aspects of planning that can be omitted -- like engagement parties or extensive decor.

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  • Caroline
    Just Said Yes June 2025
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    Hi! It definitely is a lot of planning to do. This app helps a lot with knowing what is the main importance for planning. Wedding websites/blogs help a lot too if your interested in reading where to start! If you rather right things down I suggest buying a wedding planner or maybe get one for free. Best of luck with planning and congratulations!!
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  • Alyssa
    Just Said Yes May 2027
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    I really appreciate it I'm so nerve wrecking all of it really and I'm basically doing all by my self I'm ready to break
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  • Michael
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    Decide on the aspects most essential and also most important to you.

    the most basic stuff are the venue for the marriage and also find an officiant.

    you can find a single venue for the ceremony and reception. Some venues can handle most of the details -- officiants, ceremony site, reception, catering -- but these usually have a premium price. If you have a flexible venue, you can just order pizzas for everyone.

    You can do informal invitations with rsvps. Photographer is optional (or for price, get a college student who at least knows the basic art of photography.) Decorations are mostly optional -- and may be part of a reception venue. Flowers are optional. Bridal party is optional. Music is optional.

    If you are on a tight budget, check out some of the recent discussions.

    If you take care of the primary tasks, the others can be done on leisure or just skipped.

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  • Alyssa
    Just Said Yes May 2027
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    I appreciate all the help
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  • L
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    Hey, first off congrats on a huge step in yours and your fianc茅e鈥檚 life! Love 馃寛 weddings!


    How far ahead are you planning this/do you have a specific date that you discussed with your partner?
    If you鈥檙e fretting over who to officiate your wedding, depending on your fianc茅e鈥檚 and your preference, you can hire someone who is a professional officiant, OR you can ask someone whom you love and trust to officiate! I鈥檝e been an officiant for friends before (during COVID no less) and it was an unexpected honor. Just thought I鈥檇 throw that idea in there so you don鈥檛 feel like it has to be a stranger.
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  • Alyssa
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    That you yes our wedding is not till 2027 it's very stress full I don't really have friends and I have to do it all by my self
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  • Caroline
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    No problem! When is your wedding? You might have plenty of time to plan! Just take it one step at a time and all should be okay! Does your fiance prefer you to do all the planning? Maybe see if you can have then help out with picking things with you. Hope it gets a little less stressful for you!
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  • Alyssa
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    She does help she picked all the tuxes and stuff like that I just don't really know how to plan a wedding
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  • Caroline
    Just Said Yes June 2025
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    Gald she's helping! If you can, there is an option for a wedding planner or you can stick with wedding planner books. Also I keep hearing tiktok having great advice for weddings if your interested in looking there
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